Ceo's Digest

Global DCODE's research!

2007-12-03T22:37:00.000-08:00

The question was: "A man see you in the street and offers you money (3000 $ cash) to "sleep" with you for one night. Is a regular man.... not ugly, neither Brand Pitt!"

And some of the answers was...

Yes BUT only if i don't have to kiss him, He must be hygienic, he must wear a condom n once hes done its over hahaha am i naughty? it is 3000 lol

I BLOODY WOULD.

I'd try for a bit more cash, but if they don't cave then i'd settle for $3000. Times are hard ya know!

May be for £1,000,000, for a quicky!

I would ask him if I looked like a horr that could be bought. Then I would give him a dollar to go F*** himself!

I can sleep with a man for just one night only if I like him and feel attraction,but not for money

10000 $ and safe sex lol

No lol not even when I would really really need the cash never been scared to get my hands durty so that should do the trick

Only if i didn't have a boyfriend at the time or i knew for sure no negative reprecussions could come from it!!! Then again considering how much I could use the money I would probably say fuck it and just do it!!! :~)

Its not about the money for me i wud rather keep myself respect if u no wat i mean i wud be to scared of feelin dirty or regrettin it after xxx

Too funny! great survey! my answer is $20,000:)

Yes. no oral performances on my part though. HAHA!

Hmmmm..yea..if he wasnt bad looking or old or anything gross haha

If I were a single gal, sure I would do it. However .... My husband is my life and incredible in bed.... worth more then 3 grand thats for sure, lol.

Well, unless I am in a commited relationship I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with a guy for that amount of money. What can I say, I like shopping haha! Plus if the guys an average guy he might be cool anyway. As long as protection was used, the guy wasn't a creep and I didn't have a boyfriend I would definately do it.

Of course we had a lot of NO!!!...
All the global research will be in the first DCODE!

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Somaya Reece: Myspace myth!

2007-08-16T04:45:00.000-07:00

Her music is POP but she LOVES to do all styles however it will always have a very unique signture STEEL-O to it that you will know oh snap that's a Somaya song. A BBOY BGIRL , POP love POP music, D.J scratching, Hip Hop, Reggae with a tone to it, Latin, with a get it CRUNK n punk rock feel to it.....It's UNIVERSAL not to be placed in one genre it's for WORLD! She co-produce the making of all my beats too.

Somaya Reece's debut song, "Mira Mi Pum Pum," has had over 6.2 million spins in only 11.5 weeks, breaking history and setting new records amongst all established Platinum selling artists on many of todays top music websites. All meanwhile holding her spot in the Top 5 ranked and a fluctuating NUM. 1 spot as a Top Ranked song on www.i meem.com with 25,000-65,000 daily plays.

A very popular in the Latin culture!

This song is a collaboration with Quba Libre, "Mira Mi Pum Pum" produced by M1

Who is she (according to her myspace profile)

First thing is FIRST I am NOT A MODEL. I am an actress n artist. I began acting while continuing the pursuit of my dream, to become an artist. Modeling has been something that followed me however I never aspired to be one PERIOD! Any type of modeling I do now is to promote my music, major ad campaigns or my music sponsorships.

I'm a bilingual Spanish speaking tasty mixed cocktail of Puerto Rican, and Salvadorian ! Island CARAMEL Latina with many flavors. I may sometimes be confused as the girl next door, but in reality I am the most fearless tomboy you will ever meet, independent with a REAL down home L.A feisty no holds barred tude!!! Not to be confused as rude ahah. Born and raised in the grimey streets of L.A, South Central and the Pico Union district i'm STREET smarter than the average boo boo bear. Yo I have my Puma tracksuit and shelltops with my phat laces tattooed to my body. I guess it's the back in the day b-girl in me :) I love my career!! If you are asking yourself, who is this Somaya girl??? If you don't already know then here we go. Let's make a long story short! I was discovered several years ago when I was working the front desk at a hotel in Beverly Hills. I was taking 3 different buses to get to work from my home in South Central to BH, working two jobs and going to college part time in the evenings. Believe me, I did not have it easy, I could go into detail but I won't. I'm not ashamed to say we moved around alot because well we couldn't always afford our rent in the hoods of L.A, Compton, Denker park area, the jungles, Pico Union district you name it I lived in the grimey areas. It was a dream to me to be given the opportunity to make a better life for me and my family. But it was more for my family they deserve it after all they did for me :)

I love you mom and dad!

When I was a child living in South Central I would sing in church, rap on the streets and was involved in many musical and dance after school programs, theatre, chorus and played the violin. YES I CAN play the violin. My dream was to become a great actress and musician. When I grew up hah kinda like a toys are us kid, I began to take theatre in college (UCLA) as becoming a sucessful musician, actress was my dream that turned into reality. I started out from the bottom and well I worked my way to where I am today and I continue to do that now. My career took off after 5 years of GRINDING, self promoting, tears, disapointments, but I hung in there and NEVER stopped believing in ME! Even when others didn't believe I kept on truckin. And well here I am today, 45 National commercials, 8 films, 3 songs that have hit the radio, 35 magazine cover or features, 4 television shows, later i'm stillt he same girl :)

DCODE MAGAZINE: COVER GIRL

2007-08-16T04:10:00.000-07:00

She is Paola. She is the winner of DCODE' s contest for the first cover girl. Is she gorgeous or what?

Why Do Men Pay For Escorts?

2007-07-21T06:44:00.000-07:00

The first image that comes to my mind when hear the word Escort is an athletic woman with jet-black hair, sparkling brown eyes, olive tan, an incredible behind, a smile to die for and 4 inch black pump heels – at true Latina beauty. But that’s enough about me. So why is it that so many men contact women over the internet via On-Line Adult Directories and flip through local newspaper Adult Entertainment pages searching for the perfect hot n’ sexy date? Most men say they are lonely and would appreciate the company of a beautiful woman for just an hour or two to fill the void.

Many men say that they pay for sex because it “is easy to get exactly what you want”. You don’t have to worry about any surprises. When you have the option of setting up a date by viewing a picture of your dream girl, reading her description and simply making a telephone call (or sending an e-mail) and your date shows up at your door 30 minutes later, it almost sounds too perfect.

Other men that I have interviewed make a point to emphasize that paying for sex via calling upon an escort is ideal because there is “no emotional attachment with the other person”. You don’t have to sit down at a dinner table (unless you want to) and listen to your date go on and on about all of the generally boring stories about their life and what ails them. On the other hand, your date will readily listen to you ramble on about your personal problems as long as you are on the clock.

Do men enjoy watching porn movies? Try this, ask 100 men if they have ever watched an adult movie and if the enjoy doing so. The overwhelming response to your question will undeniably be a YES. Some lucky guys do find a partner that enjoys porn just as much if not more than he does. Most men will agree that their girlfriend or wife does not watch porn however this may be not be the case for everyone you speak to. This is another reason some men pay for sex, they fantasize about ‘the porn-star experience’. Deep down inside the majority of men yearn for that wild, kinky, sloppy, crazy … you know what I mean. Paying a few hundred bucks for mind blowing latex fueled sex doesn’t sound like too bad of an investment if your regular (sex) life is boring. Variety and spice may be good thing.

Not many men will admit they are afraid of rejection. Well guess what, we are. The vast majority of men would rather not be turned down after asking a girl out on a date or to a movie. It’s just a daunting thing. There are rarely turn down’s when arranging a date with an escort unless she is all booked or under the weather. Tomorrow is another day and your luck ought to improve with another telephone call.

So you have just ended your 2 or 4 hour date with the woman of your dreams and she really seemed to care about you. Now she’s gone and guess what, you’re lonely again. Was it worth it? Only you will truly know.

The author:
Dave Myers has interviewed 1000’s of Independent Escorts and countless owners of Escort Agencies and related Adult Entertainment providers in the past 25 years.

Matching Mens Shoes with Suits or Pants

2007-07-21T06:34:00.000-07:00

I have received many queries by readers on how to match their shoes against their other mens clothing, like suit or pants. Actually it is not as difficult as they think it is since the choices of colors for men's shoes are quite limited. Unless you have a taste for extraordinary colors, otherwise there should not be much problem coordinating dress shoes.

Always remember that formality of dress shoes begins from the darkness of its color. For example, black is always the most formal color while light brown is the least formal. So you should match your shoes against your suits or pants based on the occasion. If you are attending a formal business dinner, then naturally black shoes are your ultimate choice rather than brown shoes.

Of late, there are more men wearing light brown or camel colored dress shoes against their dark colored suits or pants. These high contrast creates a very trendy style which I personally like. However, we should also note that this combination gives a more casual feel toward it.

What if the suit or pants are brown-based colors like olive or chocolate colors? Must we definitely wear it against brown shoes? Not necessarily, black shoes are just as fine. Of course, brown shoes would let the color flow very smoothly but black is still a color that can fit nicely. Remember that black is the color for formal.

Lace-up shoes are one step better than slip-ons for their formality. At the same time, lace-ups are split into Balmoral and Blucher types. Refer to Mens Dress Shoes Styles for their differences. The latter is always considered less formal because of its open throat design.

So remember that whether you want a formal or casual look would depend on your choice of two criteria: the dress shoe style and its color. My brother actually has a gray shoe that is blucher styled with pointed tip and polished patented leather. Due to these various combinations, his dress shoe actually looked almost formal against dark colored pants and yet with a tinge of stylishness.

For more: http://www.mens-fashion-tips.com/

Randi Ingerman. Sexy!

2007-07-21T06:31:00.000-07:00

Those who you wanted to know for the American woman that makes fracture in Italy with her naked shoots.

1. She is 36 years.

2. She was birth in the Philadelphia of USA.

3. Her dimensions are: 90-58-90.

4. Her height is 1.71.

5. Studied ballet up to the age the 15.

6. She abandoned the modelling in age the 23 in order to it studies hypocritical.

7. She took small roles in the "Miami Vice" and in the films "Chinatown" and "The Two Jakes".

8. The periodical Calendar, in October 2003, entertained her naked photographs. It was exhausted in his first ten days of circulation. His sales however went very well and the next month entertaining still her 6 naked photographs.

9. She is wedded with a Italian rock singer.

10. She moved in Italy afterwards the death of her father.

11. According to American magazines, went to Europe because a lot of agencies of models in the New York rejected her because she was short.

12. For her social relations in Italy it has declared: "The first time that remained in Italy, my alone friends were the friends of my man. Now anymore they are not nor these!"

13. She believes that it has gained the respect of Italians because, as it says, it is faith in the man... something infrequent in Italian showbiz.

14. Removed after shooting of television emission in October 2003. the reason of expulsion, according to Italian magazines, was that she learned for infidelity that had made her man.

Dior Homme AW07-08

2007-06-16T05:30:00.000-07:00

Simple Luxury

2007-06-16T05:12:00.000-07:00

Eight of the finer things in life that give joy in the owning -- or at least in the looking

There are certain things so well crafted or technically precise that they make you feel smarter just for owning them, others so wonderful to look at that holding them in your hands brings a smile to your face, and some so simple and useful that they become part of your daily life, even part of your identity. Here are a few we've discovered.

Tighe Meteorite 1/1 Fountain Pen - $10,000
In this age, when clipped e-mails and stick-on notes serve as long-form epistles, a man needs a fountain pen to make a statement. And often the statement is made even before putting pen to paper. Consider the conversation starter shown here: Its base was etched from 4-billion-year-old Gibeon meteorite by Grayson Tighe, one of the most highly regarded pen makers. "Something man-made could never duplicate this amazing material," he says. The nib is the most important component of any fountain pen. This one is made of 18-karat yellow gold and tipped with iridium and rhodium for durability and smooth ink flow. While this pen is one-of-a-kind, Tighe will offer limited-edition meteorite fountain ($7,500) and roller-ball ($7,400) pens (18 of each will be made). 905-892-2734, tighepen.com

2006 Harley-Davidson FXDI35 35th Anniversary Super Glide - $16,795
The motor company's firstborn factory custom cruiser became an instant icon of American motorcycle design. Thirty-five years later, Harley-Davidson is bringing it back through an exclusive run of 3,500 serialized remakes, updated with an electronic fuel-injected 1450cc air-cooled V-twin with a six-speed Cruise Drive gearbox. Cocky as ever, the commemorative Super Glide has a "1" emblazoned on its gas tank; the glacier-white-pearl paint, patriotic graphics, and chrome highlights that adorned the original body; a fat 160mm rear tire; and of course, Harley's trademark exhaust sound. 414-343-4056, harley-davidson.com

Zai skis - $3,500 (bindings and poles included)
In the Swiss Alps, in the town of Disentis, near the headwaters of the Rhine, a former Solomon and Völkl ski engineer named Simon Jacomet created the Zai alpine ski. From the Swiss language Romansh, zai means "tough," and this beautiful plank is that and more. The surface of the ski is hand-matched brown ash framed with lacquered Titanal (a light-weight blend of aluminum and titanium). It's eye-catching to say the least; you'll be the talk of the lift line. There are practical benefits, too: The natural flex of the poplar core makes the ski handle well over both hardpack and powder. The exclusive nano-carbon bottom coating developed by Zai allows for faster skiing and precision turning. (See zai.ch for more information.) For this season, only 1,000 pairs will be made, and the skis are available in the United States through just one retailer, Gorsuch,
in Colorado. 800-563-0629, gorsuchltd.com

Tasai Damascus Cabinet Chisels - $2,300 (set of 10); Hirotomo 10½-inch drawknife - $240
Any woodworker worth his sawdust knows how much easier it is to build furniture with
a quality tool designed for the task. For tongue-and-groove work, many craftsmen won't use anything but Japanese hand-forged tools. Among the best are those made by artisan Akio Tasai, a blacksmith for more than 50 years. Tasai uses a special high-carbon laminated blue steel for his chisels, which are tough enough to cut hardwoods without losing an edge.
He burnishes the metal to achieve a wood-grain appearance that distinguishes each chisel as a Tasai. For rough shaping, the ideal tool is the 10½-inch drawknife from Hirotomo. Hand-forged from high-carbon white steel, the sharp blade stands up to heavy use. The knife's handles are made from magnolia and balanced perfectly to transfer all the energy from your upper body into the cutting blade so you are not wrestling to keep it aligned. 800-537-7820, thejapanwoodworker.com

Corum Gold Bridge Watch - $18,000 (pink gold)
The first thing you notice about this watch is its guts. Visible through the transparent face, the movement looks, well, broken, or as if it's missing something important. Working parts in most watches are typically overlapping circular gears. Here, they are aligned linearly, as if someone squeezed them between the teeth of a vise. This creates a window on each side to view -- what's that? -- the hair on your wrist! The watch has been reintroduced after 20 years as part of Corum's 50th-anniversary celebration. What's new is the "slipping spring" winding system that prevents overwinding of the delicate movement. (You have to do the old-school twist only once every 40 hours.) Order quickly. Only 150 numbered timepieces, 50 each in white gold, yellow gold, and pink gold, have been made. 949-788-6200, corum.ch

Bowers & Wilkins 802d Loudspeakers - $12,000 per pair
Diamonds are superfluous on most luxury items -- watches, high heels, wedding rings -- but these gem-equipped speakers actually back up the bling. The technology: Tweeters move faster than any other part of a speaker and, as such, are highly susceptible to distortion. The softer the tweeter, the worse the trickle-down of corrupted sound. That's why manufacturer Bowers & Wilkins, which employs 20 full-time audio engineers at its "University of Sound" in England, crafted the tweeter dome of this speaker from some of the hardest stuff on earth, industrial diamond. The result: the cleanest, clearest tone in the audio industry, the company claims. And audiophiles -- such as the engineers at the Beatles' erstwhile studio, Abbey Road, and the technicians at Star Wars director George Lucas' Skywalker Ranch -- agree. 978-664-2870, bwspeakers.com

Ralph Lauren RL-CF1 Red Dining Chair - $13,500
It's a fair guess that designer Ralph Lauren would rather be driving his limited-edition McLaren F1 than doing most anything else -- except perhaps having a nice meal at home, where he can still feel as if he's in the driver's seat. Last year, Lauren took inspiration from the F1 to design this sleek yet comfortable dining chair, part of the new Black Mountain furniture series. The chair is handmade from 54 layers of carbon fiber and has a cushiony black-leather seat and back. Four fit nicely around the RLX Dining Table ($28,500). This is an experience to savor.
888-475-7674, rlhome.polo.com

Martin D-100 Deluxe Guitar, $100,000
C.F. Martin & Co. has been building guitars and ukuleles since the 1830s. In 2004, the company, based in the hills of eastern Pennsylvania, celebrated the making of its millionth guitar with a limited-series acoustic six-string. (Just 50 have been built, signed by chairman C.F. Martin IV, and numbered 1,000,001 to 1,000,050.) The D-100 Deluxe is crafted from hand-selected Brazilian rosewood and Adirondack spruce and adorned with Victorian- and Baroque-style inlays of herringbone pearl and abalone on its back, pickguard, headplate, fingerboard, and bridge.
Since this museum-quality flattop has Waverly gold hand-engraved tuners; an end pin topped with green-tourmaline dots bordered in 14-karat-gold settings; and bridge pins, nut, and saddle fashioned from fossilized ivory, one might be hesitant to pluck out "Turkey in the Straw" on it. But that's why the company, which has equipped the likes of Eric Clapton, Tom Petty, and Stephen Stills, and also offers custom-made guitars for any artistic inspiration and budget. Just add talent. 610-759-5757, martinguitar.com

The luxury and price of a villa can beat that of the best hotel

2007-06-16T05:03:00.000-07:00

At St. John and other Caribbean hot spots, a week's stay at a villa can be cheaper and more luxurious than even the best hotel room

The benefits to renting a villa begin at the airport. There you will sit in the departure area and survey your fellow passengers, inevitably a kind of Peterson’s Field Guide to Caribbean flotsam and jetsam: the knots of senior citizens on their way to meet cruise ships; the frat boys in Señor Frog T-shirts; the would-be Jimmy Buffetts with leathery faces and thinning ponytails; the moms already applying sunscreen to their screaming kids and the dads already plotting their escape to a fishing boat or golf cart. You will look around at them and whisper to yourself, “After this flight is over, I will never see any of you people ever again. Not at the pool. Not at the reception desk. Not at breakfast. Never.”

While your cabinmates are checking in at the local upscale resort, you’ll be wandering through room after impeccably decorated room of your villa trying to figure out which one has the best view of the ocean from its private balcony. And if you’ve played your cards right, you and your handpicked companions may have paid less for your accommodations than the resort crowd did. With four bedrooms, St. John’s Hakuna Matata averages out to just $370 per night per couple—in the high season. Compare that to the nearby Westin St. John Resort, where the rack rate can be as much as $700 per night.

But beyond cost (and even beyond the undeniable tingle that saying the words “my villa” provokes), there’s a vast aesthetic difference.

A villa is somehow of a place—integrally part of the landscape—an authentic alternative to the McLuxury served up by even a well-meaning hotel chain. To stay in a private residence puts you in a community, not only of your neighbors and the locals you’ll meet at the market, but of a sort of “villa-ocracy” whose members have known how to travel right through the ages: from Italian counts relaxing in the hills of Tuscany to David Letterman taking a break on St. Bart’s.

As you may have imagined, the inaugural, stock-up trip to the liquor store is one of the great rituals of villa life. So are a host of other, usually boring, domestic chores. Like ending an evening of picking out constellations in the hot tub by throwing your bathing suit in the dryer, so it will be ready for the beach in the morning. Or telling the cook the snacks you had in mind for tomorrow’s poolside backgammon tournament.

Eventually, of course, you will deign to come down off the mountain and spend a few hours snorkeling across impossibly blue water or riding a horse over wild green hills or just lolling in the sand. And then, pleasantly sunburned and weary, you will return to your villa—up the dirt road and past the gate and up the long driveway—and, inevitably, someone will sigh happily and say, “Ah, home.”

And, for a week at least, they’ll be right.

Hot Property

2007-06-16T04:56:00.000-07:00

Climate change will affect real estate values all across America. Is Vancouver the next Napa?

The view from the terrace, 11 floors above Miami's trendy South Beach, is dominated by a sweep of Atlantic Ocean that edges along a narrow arc of beach and stretches out to a flawless horizon. It is the kind of view that has enticed millions to invest in a booming South Florida real estate market. Now, after three years of devastating weather events, that boom has gone bust, and even after carefully pricing the condominium to undercut several others for sale in the building, the owner had to cut the price not once but twice before it sold. At a loss. "The market is flooded with properties," says Phyllis D. Hugunien, a Realtor for FX Realty Corporation. "They aren't selling. We're seeing price reductions of $20,000, $50,000, and more. Buyers are nervous about the future."

So it goes in post-Katrina Florida, New Orleans, and the Mississippi Gulf Coast. While scientists and politicians quarrel over just how much impact climate change is having on the planet, the market has made its own decision. Anyone who owns property in these regions has watched his investment wither. And anyone thinking of buying property there will have to pay a "global warming premium" in the form of higher insurance rates.

Homeowners elsewhere shouldn't feel particularly secure either, according to Andrew Logan, director of insurance at Ceres, a nonprofit network of investors concerned with environmental sustainability. "The hot spot for now is Florida and the Gulf Coast, but looking to the future, climate change is going to be a huge issue in the whole country," he says. Insurance rates are already rising, and some companies are limiting coverage all the way up the Eastern seaboard to Massachusetts. Why? There's an increased risk posed by rising sea levels coupled with the prospect that unusually destructive hurricanes will be drawn northward as the Atlantic Ocean grows warmer.

What of these other hot spots? Suppose you want to buy property and you're looking at a 30-year mortgage. Should you consider the impact climate change might have on its value three decades from now? Insurance companies do. "Anyone thinking of making an investment in a property should consider what it will look like in 20 to 30 years," says Robert Muir-Wood, Ph.D., chief research officer at Risk Management Solutions. Will there be snow at your ski chalet? Will the shoreline stay put under your beach house? What about storms and the overall ecosystem? "If you don't find out, someone else will," says Muir-Wood, "and he'll use that information to devalue your property if you ever want to sell it."

Thanks to a report released in February by the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC), the information that would devalue your property is easy to get and quite authoritative. The report states unequivocally that the earth is heating up as a result of the accumulation of greenhouse gases in the atmosphere. Over the past century, average temperatures increased 1.4 degrees, and they're projected to rise 3.5 to 8 degrees over the next hundred years. Sea levels rose by six to nine inches in the 20th century and are projected to rise anywhere from seven inches to two feet over the same time frame going forward. And these numbers are on the conservative side, because the panel is barred from considering hypothetical conditions. Estimates of sea-level rise, for example, do not include the levels that would be reached if, say, Greenland's ice sheets continued to melt at an accelerated rate. Just two feet in sea-level rise would engulf much of South Florida and the Keys, Texas's Padre Island, and barrier islands along the coast from Maryland to the Carolinas. At 15 feet, it's good-bye Florida, Cape Cod, Long Island...you get the picture.

The effects won't be uniform around the globe. The poles are likely to grow disproportionately warmer than the planet's midsection. Precipitation patterns also will shift poleward, exacerbating drought conditions in temperate regions. And the warming will produce more extreme weather conditions everywhere, more powerful hurricanes in the Gulf, more flooding along rivers in the middle of the country, less snow in some areas, more in others. The time to assess the relative risks of buying a cottage on Lake Michigan or a Miami Beach condo is now--before the next storm hits.

South Florida and the Keys

Okay, this may seem like piling on, but if there were ever a place where the risks of freaky weather should be factored into real estate decisions, this is it. Even scientists who won't swear that climate change guarantees more hurricanes that are more powerful do believe rising sea levels and run-of-the-mill storms could make Florida a challenging place to own property, if for no other reason than the insurance costs. Most companies won't write homeowners policies here, and those that do have been raising premiums at double- and triple-digit rates. To take up the slack, the state was forced into the insurance business. In fact, the largest insurer in Florida is Citizens Property Insurance, a state-owned corporation that holds the policies on 1.3 million households. Citizens couldn't hold the line on premiums either, and Florida found itself in a crisis that state lawmakers tried to solve by legislating a premium cap. The plan would increase subsidies for both private insurers and policyholders. How? By transferring more risk to Floridians. "There are limits on how much liability the state can take on without being overwhelmed financially," says Ceres's Logan. "If Miami were hit by a major hurricane, the state would be on the hook for most of that damage. Where are those tens of billions of dollars going to come from? The taxpayers."
Barrier Islands Along the Atlantic Shore

Hop on a boat in New York City and you can cruise down the coast to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, without venturing outside an inland waterway created by a chain of barrier islands. These slivers of sand have, for centuries, taken the brunt of whatever mischief the Atlantic threw at the coastline. But with its new climate-change-driven ferocity, that mischief is beginning to take its toll. Most vulnerable are the heavily developed islands from Atlantic City, New Jersey, to Rehoboth Beach and Bethany Beach, in Delaware.

The problem for all the barrier islands--and the beaches of Florida--is erosion. For decades, these communities have been fighting a more or less successful war to save their shorelines, but climate change is tipping the balance in Mother Nature's favor. Take Rehoboth Beach. "In the last hundred years, erosion on the Delaware coast has eaten up about three feet of shoreline a year," says Stephen P. Leatherman, Ph.D., director of the Laboratory for Coastal Research at Florida International University, in Miami. "If the rate of erosion doubles, which is possible with current climate-change projections, erosion losses would jump to six feet per year." Roll those numbers out over the life of a 30-year mortgage, and Rehoboth Beach loses a whopping 180 feet of shoreline. "Right now, most of the houses along the shore are within that 180 feet," says Leatherman. Buy a house on the beach and you could easily lose it before you've paid for it.
New England Ski Resorts

The relationship between warming climates and skiing seems obvious: no freezing temperatures, no snow. "Even if you're making snow, the temperature outside has to be less than 32°F," says Robert Mendelsohn, Ph.D., a professor at Yale University.

And even if you didn't mind trudging across grassy fields and up the lift to get from your ski chalet to a trail covered in man-made snow, simple economics threatens these operations. Bruce McCarl, Ph.D., regents professor of agricultural economics at Texas A&M University, coauthored a report in BioScience that states the cost of making snow at -12ºC is five times cheaper than at -2ºC. A big resort can spend more than $100,000 a night making early-season snow. Shorter, warmer ski seasons and significant increases in snowmaking costs add up to an economic double whammy. In the next few decades, many ski areas will become more expensive to operate and may have to be abandoned, says McCarl.

Wine Region of Northern California

Growing grapes is easy. Growing grapes that make good wine is hard. Since the 1970s, one of the most productive regions for good wine grapes has been the Napa and Sonoma valleys of Northern California. Ironically, part of the reason for that success has been global warming, according to Rama Nemani, a research scientist at NASA's Ames Research Center at Moffitt Field, California. As warming moves northward, it can push marginal climates into a sweet spot that is beneficial for a while. In Northern California, the climate trends that began in the 1970s ushered in a period of high-quality vintages. In those 30 years, the frost-free season expanded by about 40 days. "That's an incredible amount of warming," says Nemani, "and it allowed the growers to leave grapes on the vine a lot longer so that the berries could be harvested at the optimum moment."

As the warming continues, the sweet spot moves farther north, and Napa and Sonoma's time may be coming to an end. Last year, the area suffered through periods of 103°F temperatures. "The vineyards can handle temperatures in the mid 90s," says Nemani, "but not that high." What if extreme weather becomes more common over the next 10 to 20 years? "If you look at the spread of vineyards, you see every decade that more are moving north, no doubt about it. Washington and Oregon are beginning to produce the quality of wines that Northern California does." A study published in the 2006 Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences estimates that the number of American vineyards will drop by 81 percent by mid-century, with most of the wine production limited to the Northeast, Northwest, and a narrow strip along the West Coast.

And now vineyards in British Columbia are making good wines. "The Canadians are rubbing their hands together over the prospect of wineries on Vancouver Island and the Okanagan Valley. They think they're going to hit the jackpot with global warming," says David Graves, one of the owners of Napa's Saintsbury vineyard. There goes that sweet spot.
Rocky Mountains, Colorado

One of the most beautiful excursions in the United States is along Trail Ridge Drive over the Continental Divide. The road starts on the front range of the Rocky Mountains and climbs above the tree line into the rarefied air of the 11,000-foot Milner Pass. Once across the divide, the road winds down into a high valley where Grand Lake, the state's largest, is surrounded by mountains blanketed in thick, green pine forests. At least, that's how it was a decade ago. Today, those slopes aren't green. They're covered by dead, rust-brown trees, all killed by an onslaught of the mountain pine beetle.

The losses are staggering. In each of the past two years, the beetles killed up to 80 percent of the lodgepole pines on almost a million acres in the northern Rockies. Some of these trees are 70 to 80 years old, so it will take a hundred years to get things back to where they were. "There have been insect outbreaks as long as there have been trees, but the outbreaks we're seeing today are unusual," says Bill Romme, Ph.D., of Colorado State University's forestry department. "The beetles' life cycle has sped up, which means there are many more beetles emerging. They've spread farther north and to higher elevations. It's all being driven by the increased temperatures."

The impact goes well beyond the unsightliness of dead trees. As more pines are felled by the beetles, ski slopes at Rocky Mountain resorts will find their runs unprotected from wind. Wildlife could be decimated by a loss of habitat. And, of course, there's the risk of fire. "If someone is trying to sell you a mountain cabin, and 80 percent of the trees around it are standing dead, I think you'd ask yourself what would happen if a lightning bolt hit nearby," says McCarl, of Texas A&M. Indeed.

The IPCC's 2007 report made headlines around the world because it stated "with 90 percent certainty" what the pine beetles in Colorado and vineyard owners in Napa Valley have known for some time: Global warming is a reality, and it's playing havoc with the pocketbooks and investments of ordinary people all across the country. The only uncertainty is how quickly the world will respond to the warnings and what the planet will look like in the end. "If the warming is held in check, on the lower end of the range that we think is possible, good things are going to outweigh the bad, by and large," says Mendelsohn, of Yale. But if nothing is done and the warming is allowed to become more severe, "it's clearly going to be very harmful."

By: Nancy F. Smith for Best Life

One Night Stands

2007-06-16T04:46:00.000-07:00

In our modern dating society, the term ‘one-night stand’ is used loosely. Millions of people are getting together for a one-time romp in the sack. I don’t know about you, but I’m a little confused as to what a one-night stand really is.

In my opinion, one-night stands occur when people meet for the first time, experience an instant sexual attraction, and in a few hours (or maybe at the end of the night) are having sex. After it’s done, they say ‘sayonara’ and never see or hear of each other again.

But when I talk to men and women and tell them I have never had a one-night stand, no one believes me. And usually, men and women have different takes on what a one-night stand really is.

One guy told me that a one-night stand is a fling. He said that a one-night stand occurs when you meet someone, have sex with them for a short period of time (in his case a few weeks), and then you split up and never talk to each other again. I told him that’s no one-night stand, because he talked to her after the fact and continued having sex with her for the next couple of weeks. In my book, that’s a full-out fling. A one-night stand is a one-time deal.

Let’s get it straight, a one-night stand is exactly what it states: one-night of sex with a relative stranger, and the next day you go your separate ways. Let’s not get it confused with a fling, where you have sex with someone repeatedly, even if you then cut it off and never see each other ever again.

The majority of single men and women I know have had at least one one-night stand in their lives. I do find this is more common with men than women. However, more women have likely had one-night stands than care to admit it. Meanwhile, men are often known to brag about their one-night affairs. Regardless, here are some tips and warnings about one-night stands.
Don’t Forget the Condoms
Bottom line: If you’re going to have a one-night stand, make sure you have condoms on hand, because you probably don’t want a cold shower to replace a night of drunken sex.

Check your one-night stand list
We all have our standards; in dating, the clothes we wear, and even with the food we eat.
So why not have standards when it comes to one-night stands? It’s wise to choose someone whose name you will have a hard time remembering, have nothing in common with, and who has the cash for their own cab fare.

Don’t give out your phone number
Imagine having sex with someone you barely even know, then asking for their number so you can “keep in touch”. Kind of late to be getting to know each other, don’t you think? Sure, we all want to be polite after a one-night stand, but let’s face it, it’s only out of courtesy. So forget it. Save the courtesy for your acquaintances and just leave without a phone number; your one-night stand has been accomplished.

Truth or Dare?

2007-06-16T04:34:00.000-07:00

By Eric J. Leech

Up for a game of Truth or Dare? We certainly don’t play as often as we should now that we’re adults; so let’s play a few rounds for old time sake. You might just remember what used to be so fun about it:

Truth or Dare?
Truth- 70% of all men who earn over $60,000 a year cheat on their partner, while only 16% of men who make less than $5,000 a year cheat.
Dare- Send your partner into a strip club with $60,000; if they come out with less than $50,000, you can probably assume they weren’t faithful.

Truth or Dare?
Truth- The bedroom has been found by surveys to be the most creative room in the home for the truth to be stretched.
Dare- Give your partner permission to party all night with their wildest single friends. Upon stumbling drunk into bed wearing a condom on their ear, ask them where they have been and then ask them the same question in the morning at the breakfast table. It’s guaranteed the two stories won’t be the same and the yarn around their cereal bowl will probably be the most truthful.

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Per capita, there are said to be more twenty year old virgins today than there were back in the late 1950’s.
Dare- Find one of them… I dare you… I double dog dare you!

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Statistically it’s been found that both men and women have their first orgasm while alone.
Dare- Define ‘alone’ using today’s sexual standards? Probably somewhere along the lines of three midgets, a donkey, one shaved hamster, a cardboard toilet paper roll and three web cams… just to name a few!

Truth or Dare?
Truth- An unnamed British doctor was quoted as saying an Olympic athlete’s peak performance should occur within 90 minutes of sexual intercourse. He further hinted that this practice should follow every event for maximum gold medal achievement.
Dare- Convince your current boss to initiate a similar standard to your own work/office duties, stating that it would boost your current performance output by ‘leaps and bounds’ or more appropriately by ‘shrieks and wobbly office equipment sounds.’

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Statistics show that 67% of men prefer women who shave their pubic region. The Brazilian (everything goes) bikini wax was the most preferred method of hair removal.
Dare- I dare any man to get a full fledged Brazilian bikini wax… there are two kinds of people that touch a man there and a man wouldn’t want anything to do with either of them!

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Dr. Nicolae Adrian Gheorghiu of Romania has developed an electric pulsing device that is capable of giving a woman as many as 16 orgasms a minute. He boasts its inevitable replacement of the human male within the next several years.
Dare- I dare Dr. Nicolae to walk outside of his office building after hours, even with as many as five stout bodyguards protecting him. These bodyguards would then proceed to kick the living crap out of him once they got him outside the door (assuming they were all men of course).

Truth or Dare?
Truth- A man’s appendage is proven to shrink in the presence of watching sports; especially when their team is victorious.
Dare- I dare any man to get laid while watching a winning hockey game naked on the couch with a beer in one hand and a bowl of chili in the other!

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Sir Isaac Newton, the brain tank who theorized about earth’s gravitational pull, is claimed to have died a virgin at the age of 85.
Dare- Abstain from sex for anything over a year and see if you can even vocalize the word ‘gravity’, much less theorize about it.

Truth or Dare?
Truth- Statistics show that 40% of all people at house parties, who use the restroom, snoop around the inside of the medicine cabinet for any signs of personal/sexual artifacts.
Dare- At your next party, dump out your medicine cabinet except for a cucumber, banana, carrot stick, bottle of hot sauce, ear of corn and a jar of K-Y Jelly. Throw a cattle prod underneath the cabinet to really get the rumors flying…

Source: umm.ca

Five Tips For Buying a Home Entertainment System

2007-06-16T04:31:00.000-07:00

By Ross MacIver

Looking for a new home entertainment system? Here are five tips for choosing the best model for your home environment.

1. Choose a system that can be expanded. Most of your music collection may be on CDs, but with the growing popularity of DVD audio you don't want to be left behind. Even if you are only interested in stereo sound make sure you buy a system that can be adapted to new technologies. This includes video as well as audio mediums. Buy a stereo system for now, but make sure it has surround sound capabilities.

Also consider whether you want your home entertainment system accessible in different parts of the house. An expandable system allows you to place speaker systems and playback modules in different rooms so that you can enjoy home entertainment throughout the house.

2. Buy a system with enough power. This goes hand-in-hand with the previous tip. Don't buy a unit which has just enough power for your current needs, but rather, think about how you will be expand it in the future. Surround sound speaker systems require more power than stereo, and satellite speakers systems installed in other rooms also require extra power.

Dedicated power amps for different parts of your home entertainment system can make a vast difference in the quality of sound. For example, a subwoofer amp can take the load off the rest of your system will providing massively deep bass sounds.

3. Choose a system that matches your entertainment preferences. If you are mainly interested in DVD video a surround sound speaker system can add amazing authenticity to your viewing experience. On the other hand, if you mostly listen to classical music, divide your budget so that you can get a good set of stereo speakers. If you like rap or hip-hop you should choose speakers designed for bass heavy music -- a subwoofer is a necessity.

4. Make it backwards compatible. Many people still have a sizable collection of VHS tapes and vinyl records. Rather than throwing out these valuable sources of entertainment, make sure your new entertainment system can handle them. 5. Buy the best you can afford. It's a waste of money to buy inferior components for your home entertainment system. You will quickly become dissatisfied with them and end up ditching them. If you have a limited budget, divide it up wisely. Rather than starting with a full-featured audio and video home entertainment system, concentrate on a few components. As long as your system is expandable, you can continue adding new features as your budget allows.

About the Author
Ross MacIver is an audio enthusiast and author of the Audio How To Section of the http://www.selected-audio-reviews.com/.

Sexy nurse video

2007-06-16T04:29:00.000-07:00

Female Sex Secrets

2007-05-19T09:23:00.000-07:00

There are many things that men don’t know about women’s wants in the bedroom. It’s not because men don’t care, it’s just because the subject either hasn’t come up or she’s too shy to offer you this information. While every woman is different, there are some things all women can generally agree on when it comes to sex.

Because couples who communicate their needs and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, we’re giving you five feel-good secrets she’s been hiding.

SECRET 1: She likes period sex
Generally, this is true, but there are rules. It can tend to get very wet very quickly; throwing a sausage down Niagara Falls may be a more appropriate description. And make sure you are both showered and clean. The other problem you may face is temporary vaginal dryness. If she uses tampons, expect a little uncomfortable friction after she removes it to have sex, and prepare by having some lube handy. She will warm up pretty quickly, but dry sex is painful and unpleasant, so don’t blow your future chances by being too forthright in the entering department. The bonus of period sex is she is likely to be quite randy -- hormones make this a positive (but obstacle-laden) time for nookie. Don’t try to go down on her unless you have a death wish or share morbid vampire fantasies because she will knock you out of the way faster than you can say “What’s that taste?”

SECRET 2: She doesn’t like never-ending sex
This is faking-it territory. Don’t believe the hype: Being the man means being a man and knowing when to just sit back and relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor. A happy girl on your hands is great, so don’t blow your own rep by trying to prove yourself. Yes, love machines exist, but aren’t they wired to just keep on pounding away? Aren’t they made of plastic and rubber? Women want a lover, not a love machine. Women adore orgasms as much as the next man, but one is good -- just make it count. Two is a bonus (but the bonus need not include strenuous and lengthy attempts to achieve) and after that, well that all depends on the situation. Know when to relax into her arms and enjoy the smell of her hair. No doubt, if she is still up for it she will -- in no uncertain terms -- let you know.

SECRET 3: She thinks fingers can be unpleasant
When using your digits to pleasure your woman, just remember that the entrance to the vagina has a large number of nerve endings compared to deeper inside the vagina -- use this knowledge to your advantage. The point is to give her pleasure, so keep to the pleasure zones: the outside entrance to the vagina, just inside the vagina and the G-spot. When manually stimulating her start off with one finger, and after tickling the outside entrance, gently and wetly enter her body. Start stroking in a come-hither motion on the front wall of her vagina. Here you will find her G-spot. Be gentle; if she wants you to go deeper or harder she will show you by pushing herself onto you. It can get a little uncomfortable for her to have half a hand jamming and slamming away, so always ask before putting another finger in and avoid trying to reach her cervix. Clean, trimmed fingernails are lovely; mucky claws and paws need not apply.

SECRET 4 : She likes trying new things
There are many things she has always wanted to try, but may never have felt comfortable enough to ask for or to initiate. Things she may be afraid of include: anal sex, anal fingering (you or her), bondage, fisting, outdoor sex, and role playing. None of these are as hard core as you both might think; ordinary people do them all the time with very nice results. A fun and easy way to find out what new things she wants to try out is to swap a sexual to-do list with her. Each of you writes a list of things you would like to try together, then swap it and get busy.

SECRET 5: She’s horny in the morning
Guys and morning wood have been waking sleeping women since the dawn of time. Generally, it can be safely ignored by the not-so-keen woman by pretending to be asleep. If you want to try a different tack, try sliding your moist erection gently between her thighs, just brushing her vaginal lips. Take a little bit of time, and sure enough, just like a beautiful flower, she will (hopefully) open up and let you in because you are unobtrusively enticing her. The trick to morning sex is getting her from sound asleep to highly aroused before 8 a.m. Oral sex also works very well, but the thigh trick is less effort; do what works best for you. A tip is to moisten your penis before doing anything with it. Saliva or lube works; it takes the hard work out of it for you and replaces that “I just woke up and you're mauling me” feeling with “Oh, that feels nice.” Not everyone is a morning-sex fan, so if your girl isn’t too keen on an early morning rise and shine, there are some easy steps you can take to encourage her without making a scene.

Source: askmen.com

Who is Reon Kadena?

2007-05-19T09:13:00.000-07:00

Reon Kadena was born February 19, 1986, in Osaka Prefecture, Japan. Naturally busty from an early age, Reon entered the world of modeling in her late teens under the stage names Yukira and Minamo Kusano.

Despite her youth, many of Reon’s earliest jobs were in revealing nude photo shoots, although she eventually made the transition into more conventional bikini modeling in 2003 with the release of her first film, Triple-H. The low-budget production featured Reon posing provocatively in a wide variety of arousing outfits and swimwear.

The film proved to be a big success and Reon delighted her fans the following year with two new productions, including Leon and Girl’s Desire. The titillating films, which followed the same format as Triple-H, instantly vaulted Reon into the same stratosphere as legendary Japanese idols like Kaori and Toshimi Horiguchi. Girl’s Desire was an especially big hit thanks to the film’s steamy bathroom tub scenes and risqué costume play.

2005 proved to be another big year for Reon as she starred in the films Style and the provocatively titled Virginity. Her growing popularity also landed her guest spots on some of Japan’s most popular game shows, as well as appearances in men’s magazines like Mecha ii, Urecco Gal and Pent-Japan.

Reon capitalized upon her growing popularity by further entering the mainstream in 2006. In addition to appearing in Make You Happy and My Reflection, two more of her intimate low-budget films, she also made her big-screen debut in God's Left Hand, Devil's Right Hand, a terrifying horror film helmed by accomplished Japanese director Shusuke Kaneko. Glimpses of Reon can also be seen in Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater, a popular computer game littered with digital posters of Japan’s most alluring models.

Porsche Panamera

2007-05-19T09:09:00.000-07:00

The Supervisory Board and the Board of Management of Dr. Ing. h.c. F. Porsche AG, Stuttgart, gave their approval today for the development and production of another Porsche model line. To be called Panamera, the new car will be a premium-class sports coupe with four seats, four doors, and a choice of front-mounted engines driving the rear wheels.

Scheduled to enter the market in 2009, the Panamera will be the fourth model line from the Stuttgart carmaker following the 911®, the Boxster® and the Cayenne®. The new car's name is derived from the legendary Carrera Panamericana long-distance race.

Production of the Panamera is to be in Leipzig, where Porsche already builds the Cayenne SUV and the Carrera GT® supercar. The final decision will require further detailed talks between the Board of Management of Porsche AG and the Management of Porsche Leipzig GmbH with representatives of the employees. Porsche's total investment in the new model line, including development, will be more than Euro 1 billion and will come entirely from the company's own funds. Expected sales are at least 20,000 units a year.

'The Panamera is a perfect fit for Porsche,' said Dr. Wendelin Wiedeking, the President and CEO of Porsche AG. 'It has all the typical DNA characteristic of a genuine sports car. In terms of performance, design, and driving dynamics, it meets Porsche's high standards in every respect. Through this sports coupe we are making our customers a highly attractive offer in the top performance segment.'

Porsche will develop and build the Panamera using the company's own resources. 'We will be developing a separate platform for our fourth model line at our Weissach R&D center,' said Wiedeking. 'There are no plans for a joint venture with another car maker, but to ensure the profitability of this new model line we will cooperate more closely than so far with selected system suppliers.'

Production of the Panamera in Leipzig would potentially create some 600 new jobs there. In the course of the project, approximately 400 more new jobs will be created at Porsche's original plant in Stuttgart-Zuffenhausen, where the engines for the fourth model line will be built, and at the Weissach Development Center.

Like the 911, the Boxster and the Cayenne, the Panamera will bear the 'Made in Germany' stamp of quality. Domestic share of the Panamera's overall assembled value will be approximately 70 percent.

Porsche Cars North America, Inc. (PCNA), based in Atlanta, Ga., and its subsidiary, Porsche Cars Canada, Ltd., are the exclusive importers of Porsche sports cars and Cayenne sport utility vehicles for the United States and Canada. A wholly owned, indirect subsidiary of Dr. Ing. h.c. F. Porsche AG, PCNA employs approximately 300 people who provide Porsche vehicles, parts, service, marketing and training for its 208 U.S. and Canadian dealers. They, in turn, provide Porsche owners with best-in-class service.

Colleen Shannon, The World's sexiest DJ

2007-05-05T06:34:00.000-07:00

Playboy Magazine's 50th Anniversary Playmate - Colleen Shannon - " The World's sexiest DJ" has been popping up all over the place these day's, starring in major motion pictures, television, magazine covers, major print modeling campaigns, and DJing the biggest superclubs, venues, and events all over the world. In addition to prominent roles in the motion pictures "Sci-Fighter" and "Miss Castaway", Colleen is the female lead in the upcoming theatrical release "The Passing", which also stars Paul Gleason (Van Wilder, Not Another Teen Movie, Die Hard).

Colleen has also just completed her role as a DJ in the new Shannyn Sossamon (40 Days and 40 Nights, Rules Of Attraction, The Order, A Knights Tale), Gary Busey, Michael Madsen motion picture "Chasing Ghosts". Her next role will be in the Film "The Gene Generation", being produced by Dean Devlin (Independence Day, The Patriot), and Kim Winther (The Day After Tomorrow, Daredevil, We Were Soldiers, Freddy got Fingered), and directed by two time New York Film Festival winner Pearry Teo. And in very hush hush news Colleen has been tapped to play a featured role in a new major motion picture based on a 80's-90's hit television series. More on this to come. In the way of television, Colleen has wrapped shooting her role in superproducer Barry Josephson's ("Like Mike", Tom Hank's "The Lady Killers", "Hide and Seek", Wild Wild West) new TV project "FCR". Colleen has also been hosting several shows such as the Showtime Network's new series "VIP Access", and "The Red Carpet", interviewing some of the biggest stars in the world, and will be hosting several episodes of "Wild On E!".

She has also been appearing on numerous television shows ranging from ABC, MTV and FOX, through ESPN, HBO, and the Style networks, and has shot several shows for Much Music in Canada, as well as many music shows in Mexico. Over in the UK she has become a hit sensation due to her staring role on the hit television show "Love Island". She has also been appearing on and will continue to make appearances on dozens of TV series in the UK. She has just started shooting her roll as the new host of the brand new network series "VIP Passport". She can also be seen as the lead in several TV commercial campaigns ranging from AT&T to Bacardi, and music videos from Dido to Smashmouth. There is big modeling news as well. Since being named Playboy Magazine's 50th Anniversary Playmate, a lot has been happening. Colleen has just signed with the prestigious European Premiere Modeling Agency who also represents super models such as Naomi Campbell and Vendela, as well as movie star/celebrities such as Paris Hilton, Kate Hudson, Lucy Liu, Kelly Brooke, Nikki Hilton, and many, many others, and Identity One PR for PR in the UK. She will be releasing a 2007 and 2008 worldwide distributed calendar and poster with the same company that produces calendars for sexy stars such as Tera Patrick, and musical giants such as Bob Marley.

She has shot a 6 page feature for Maxim, and will be featured on the magazine's cover insert, and she will be the featured model on the cover of Maxim's "Behind the Scenes" DVD that will be releasing attached to the issues cover. She has just been featured in Zoo Magazine's (FHM's sister mag in the UK) 100 Sexiest Women in the World pictorial along with superstars such as Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Lopez, Pam Anderson, and Carmen Electra. Colleen actually debuted in the top 20 along with stars such as Halle Berry and Christina Aguilera! Add to that full features in several international mags such as "Loaded" Magazine "OK" Magazine, "Playboy", and "FHM", and many covers including "SuperStreet" (making history as the first female ever to grace the magazine's cover), "IN", Canada's "MUM", and a major event's deal with Mac Cosmetics, and it safe to say that you will see her gorgeous face and physique just about everywhere you look. And as if that all wasn't enough, Playboy will even be releasing a Colleen Shannon, stand alone, International Special Edition magazine, to be followed by an International tour early next year!!! On the musical side of things, there is a lot going on. Having become known as "The World's Sexiest DJ", Colleen has been receiving features in some of the music industries top magazines, including "XXL", and "Music Connection" just to name a few. She has headlined with Sting in Atlantic City, Snoop Dogg in Vegas, Fat Joe in Trinidad, and Lloyd Banks in Barbados among others, and has shared the stage with some of the biggest DJ's in the industry including: The Crystal Method, Paul Oakenfold, DJ Rap, Donald Glaude, Funk Master Flex, Jazzy Jeff, Beej, Bad Boy Bill, and many, many others. She has become the industries foremost female celebrity DJ, headlining events coast to coast ranging from the Beverly Hills star studded gala launch of the new fashion line by top designer Joyann with DJ AM (Nicole Richie's fiancé) covered by every one from Entertainment Tonight, to Access Hollywood, to star studded events thrown by entertainment giants such as Warner Bros.

Colleen was the headline DJ at this years Pamela Anderson hosted Mac Cosmetics Fashion Week launch party in New York. Speaking of DJ AM, Colleen has just joined AM, Mark Ronson, Samantha Ronson, and GrandMaster Flash, as the newest resident DJ at the #1 rated celebrity hot spot in the US, Las Vegas's Pure Night Club. Colleen was the focus of several entire episodes of the new Spike TV series "The Club". This show goes behind the scenes of club life. Colleen was the focus of the "DJ episode" in which the cameras followed her from the moment in which she got off the plane in the morning, until she performed at the Vegas superclub "ICE" that night. During the episode, 15 of the worlds best DJ's were flown in to participate in a DJ battle/contest. Colleen judged the contest for world famous producer/DJ Paul Oakenfold and chose the three finalist. Colleen then returned to the show to introduce the finalists to Paul Oakenfold, and she and Paul judged the finals together. The cameras followed Colleen and Paul as they talked business deals, hung out at the club and judged the finals. The winner of the contest opened up for Paul and Sandra Collins at the club in a later episode. The newest major development is that Colleen has just accomplished something that no other female DJ in history has ever done before. She has just inked a deal with top Performance DJ cartridge and needle/stylus manufacturer ORTOFON to release her very own signature cartridge. To date only a couple of the industries biggest superstar male DJ's have ever had this honor. Last year, Ortofon (who reps legendary DJ's such as Grandmaster Flash, and is the official and only cartridge used yearly during the prestigious DMC DJ World Championships) released the "Q" signature cartridge designed and endorsed by Iconic World Champion DJ and turntablist DJ Q-bert. This year Ortofon will unveil the "CS" co-designed and endorsed by Colleen. The set will feature Colleen on the box, and a special surprise inside. In addition, ortofon plans an extensive marketing campaign that will include an international tour, major print campaign, TV spots, and cross promotions with some of their other superstars including Q-bert. The deal is even more impressive when you note that her deal with Ortofon is exclusive, meaning that Colleen and her DGI Artist labelmate/touring partner Tamara Sky will be the only North American based female DJ's to be given endorsement deals by Ortofon for some time to come. They will also be the only female DJ's to be repped by ortofon on a world wide level!!! At this years Winter Music Conference in Miami, Colleen was seen everywhere (literally). Her new deal with Mackie meant that her image and name (along with DJ Muggs of Cypress Hill on the other side) was used in all it's glory on no less than 100 taxis which ran up and down the city for the duration of the conference and beyond. Billboards and posters of Colleen representing the brand were also all over the city, and on the backdrop of the stage during the International Dance Music Awards, where Colleen presented along with other lady DJ's of note including Kelly Rowland (Destiny's Child), Rhiannon, Sandra Collins and DJ Rap. In addition to shooting her new roll as the host and DJ of the brand new network series "VIP Passport", Colleen is currently working on the title track to two motion pictures with her producing partner "Poet Name Life" (Black Eyed Peas, Fergie's solo album, Justin Timberlake, Travis Barker/Blink-182, Will.i.am., Mya, David Foster), and is in the middle of negotiating her first major record deal with one of the industries biggest labels. Her 1st album, which features superstars like Will.i.am (of Black Eyed Peas), Seth AKA Shifty Capone (Crazytown), Bad Boy Bill, Donald Glaude, and many others soon to be announced. Colleen was also a headline performer along with many major recording artist's and DJ's at this years ESPN X-Games. Colleen recently presented an award along with the Crystal Method, world famous producers Don Was (Rolling Stones), and JJP (No Doubt) at the DTS Surround Sound Awards, honoring such artists as Beck, BT, Elton John, and Herbie Hancock. Colleen has just returned from the UK where she played 7 of the hottest clubs in London including a performance at China White attended by many celebs including Janet Jackson and Jermaine Duprie, and several venues in Ireland. The press was enormous. She will even be presenting an award at one of the UK's biggest and most prestigious award ceremonies, the MOBO Awards which will feature performances by Beyonce and Justin Timberlake. You'll be able to see her spin at DJ dates throughout the new Year that include Japan, Australia, Germany, Spain, Paris, London, Costa Rica, Guatemala, El Salvador, Sweden, Puerto Rico, Europe, Switzerland, Indonesia, Ireland, Ibiza, Mexico, South Africa, as well as the US. Exclusively managed worldwide by DGI Artist Management, who has enlisted many of the world's top agencies, including Chaotica (Paul Okenfold, The Chemical Bros, Prodigy, Roger Sanchez, Dirty Vegas, Sandra Collins, Perry Farrell, Adam Freeland) out of the US, Concorde (The Prodigy, Above and Beyond, Girls Aloud) out of the UK, and Brad Entertainment (Armin Van Buren, Beyonce, Usher, Pink, Benny Banassi, Darude, Mark Oliver, Warp Bros, BK, BT, Remy, Tommy Lee, Funk Master Flex, DJ Whoo Kid, Nelly, Snoop Dogg, Pink, 50 Cent, Method and Red, Chingy, D12, Outkast, Fat Joe, Twista, Kanye West, Ludacris, Black Eyed Peas, Ja Rule, P Diddy, Ciara, Lou Bega) out of Canada, Colleen looks to be going places where none of her peers have gone before. All this, and it's been less than 2 years. Can you imagine the possibilities?!!!!

Visit her myspace profile: http://www.myspace.com/djcolleenshannon

Myspace Hot Girls No 1: Kim Loan

2007-05-05T06:16:00.000-07:00

"I'm more than just a model; I'm a business woman with drive and ambition." -KimLoan

She wrote at myspace:

I am an average girl who grew up in a small and conventional town in Louisiana. To be raised by a conservative family who values traditions, life seemed to be fairly simple and to dream was a reality out of reach and not being able to work towards your dream became just a daily routine. At a young age, I witness my parents struggle so hard in life and yet earn so little, which has prompt me to set goals far beyond anyones imaginations in that little town. As hard as it was for me to sacrifice my haven, which I have called a home for many years, I have yet to learn about the hardships of life. I had to leave my hometown in an attempt to search for bigger and better opportunities. I found myself greatly involved in doing promotional works and absolutely enjoy it! Being in the business at such a young age and be perceived as somewhat naive, I had to be cautious of allowing others to take advantage of me or being manipulated by people who have been in the business longer. With such an abundance of work, my childhood life was non-existent. The pressure of working makes me feel as if I never experienced my teenage life, and at times, I feel as if life has unfairly burdened me with responsibilities beyond my age. Nevertheless, I feel fortunate to be given the opportunities to do what I do!

Growing up was never an easy task for me. As strange as it may sound, I did not have that comfort of having any girlfriends around. My height and weight had contributed to my feeling somewhat inferior to the rest of the girls who had this ideal slender body image. I felt like a recluse who had been excluded from many events that most teenagers go through in life. At one point, it ruined my self-esteem and my self-confidence faltered tremendously. They succeeded in making me feel so unimportant, but they have not tarnished my sense of self. Being surrounded with constant negativity, I took upon a task to fulfill my need of self-recognition and autonomy. I promise myself to take criticisms as motivational factors to achieving my aspirations. I was careful of selecting who my true friends are, and many times, I found myself being alone and handling ordeals on my own! It was hard for me to trust any girls that I ended up establishing closer friendships with guys than girls. This has helped me understand this male-dominated world. It has enabled me to interact and negotiate from a male perspective. So watch out guys, I know every step and move you make! =)

I have now instituted my promotional business in New Orleans for over nine years. I am constantly working on organizing and producing special events. My company, which is now known as D & D Media, LLC, has become a national phenomenon from producing events nationwide to establishing the infamous Psychotrance DJ Battle Competition tour. I am now situated in Houston, TX & Brooklyn, NY which has become my winter and summer homes! I just recently attained my commercial real estate license. I am now getting a step closer to making my dream a reality. Prestigious Models, as well as my media company, was originated in, New Orleans. I began my agency in 2002. It started out as a small car show, and I gathered many of my girlfriends to be the models for that show. Little had I known that it was a start of a wonderful experience for both me and my friends. I decided to take it up to a higher level by producing my first Exotic Imports Calendar! I was greatly astonished by its success! I feel extremely fortunate that it took off the way that it did, and I never expected for it to go this far! I am so grateful for the continuous love and support of my family, friends, and my fans. Without you guys, I would have not made it to where I am at today. You have given me a chance to live out my dream!!! In return, I hope to reach out and inspire others to not be afraid to dream and go for it, because dreams do come true! I know, because I am living mine! Always believe in yourself. With a little faith in yourself, you can accomplish your biggest dreams! Dont let anyone dictate your self-confidence nor let anyone dictate what you are capable of! I have learned through experiences that if you ever come up with an idea, as silly as it may seem, dont be afraid to pursue it. You never know what difference you can make or the impact you can leave on other people until you try! Dont be afraid to fail, because God would not give you anything you cannot handle!

She is perfect and elegant.

Dress for success

2007-05-05T06:05:00.000-07:00

The guys in the lab coats are hard at work on your suit coats, and the results deliver new levels of comfort and class.

Science improving style? Yes, sir, and the future looks comfortable. Take the word of men whose lives depend on what they wear: U.S. servicemen. Recent army studies have shown that uncomfortable clothing can interfere with soldiers' short-term memory and mess with their reaction times. That holds true whether you're literally under fire or only metaphorically dodging grenades. Mark Newton of Gore-Tex brand calls it the comfort correlation: "The psychological and physiological states are inseparably linked." Here are new uniforms for the everyday soldier, judged by their wrinkle and stain resistance, moisture wicking, breathability, and comfort. Why not put every advantage to work for you?

The Job Interview
You flash the suit, they show the money
So it's your second interview for that position with the six-figure salary and the five-star office space. High-tension moment? Not really, if you can ensure that they literally won't see you sweat. The worlds of fabric technology and traditional tailoring meet in this slideshow. Perry Ellis and Hart Schaffner Marx are pioneers in using lightweight, high-tech fabrics that look cool, and feel cooler. Pair them with the Air Clifden split-toe shoes on this page, for the sole (and comfort) of a running shoe, and style straight from the craftsmen of Florence, Italy.

The Workday
If your clothes work hard, you can take it easy
Nanotechnology, the science behind Perry Ellis's Nanotex suit, works on a microscopic level--a nanometer is 3 to 5 atoms wide--to create fabrics that repel and resist stains. So there's no reason to cry over spilled milk (or coffee). Tip: Don't bust out a new suit for a big meeting; wear it a few times first, so you feel comfortable in it. The ease you'll display will encourage people's confidence in what you have to offer. For the rest of your body, remember that fit is as crucial to comfort as fabric. Brooks Brothers, for instance, offers body scanning that can deliver custom clothing to your door in 3 weeks.

The First Date
Underwear can seal the deal, or break it
After weeks of IM innuendo, she agrees to go out. Now it's time to look the part you've been playing electronically. That begins with the layer closest to your skin. The new Calvin Klein Flexible Fit line is made from 91 percent cotton and 9 percent Lastol XLA fabric, for better shape and stretch. Advanced fabric technology helps, but natural cotton is tried and true. In tests by the military, soldiers wearing cotton scored the highest on memory-related tasks--second only to those who wore nothing at all. Keeping your mind sharp and your body cool (nothing breathes like cotton) will make it easier to remain your charming self all night long--until it comes time to remove even the last layer. And as the last stitch comes off, your memory kicks into a higher gear, as the military has shown us. Good thing, too: There's so much worth remembering then, after all.

The Weekend
Kick-back cool
A weekend's activity--that mix of errands, kick-back time, and socializing--can stretch any man's ward-- robe. It comes down to versatile styles in fabrics that stay comfortable during every stop on the to-do list. "In the industry right now there's an enormous focus on improving the 'hand' of fabric--how it feels to the touch," says Maureen MacGillivray, Ph.D., a professor of apparel merchandising and design at Central Michigan University. Her colleagues have used thermal cameras and other technology to measure the "microclimate" between the body and clothing. Combine go-anywhere style with touch-me fabric--and make it moisture wicking--and you have this sweater from Zegna Sport. Your personal microclimate has never felt so temperate.

A porn star confession

2007-05-05T05:23:00.000-07:00

From maximonline.com an interview of Dana DeArmond

MF: What was your first foray into the porn industry?

I started with girl/girl films, then moved on to getting tied up and whipped. It was fun, and a good way to experiment with my own sexuality.

MF: Your new film, Chemistry, is part of a new genre of "reality" porn, in which scenes aren't scripted and you do what you want. Was it fun to make?

Definitely. Porn should be more about reality than fantasy. The industry is growing and becoming more mainstream. I think it's making people more comfortable with their sexuality. A movie like Chemistry is just people having a good time.

MF: How about your personal life? Does working in porn have an effect on your relationships?

Without question. I go through phases where I get really super interested in certain things. Like I'll be really into getting slapped around. Then I'll just want to do really vanilla stuff, or I'll want to have sex in the shower all the time, or I'll get interested in something really kinky.

MF: Last question: You look amazing on film. Do you do anything specific to keep in shape?

If you have sex regularly and with a lot of enthusiasm, it's pretty easy to stay in decent shape. Reverse cowgirl position is really good for your legs. [Laughs]

I like this girl!

Hamann Lamborghini Murcielago LP640

2007-05-05T05:14:00.000-07:00

- Aerodynamic-components provide impressions of racing motor sports
- double-pipe stainless steel rear silencer
- Wheels 'Edition Race' in 20 inch
- Carbon-look interior set
- Complete interior kits to customer preferences on individual basis

It looks like a Stealth-Bomber on four wheels. It is one of the most masculine looking sports car and it is fast. The Lamborghini LP640 through its appearance gives a clear impression it's not just for show. Hamann decisively set its goal to send a clear message and sharpened the Italian steer's horns. Hamanns modifications through look, driving dynamics and sound create a distinct difference.

Maintenance of road contact is most essential when one is pushing a super sports car to the limit. To achieve greater downforce on the front and rear axle Hamann offers a front spoiler as well as a rear wing. Whoever prefers to show their affiliation to motor sports can order the parts in Carbon-Kevlar instead of the fiberglass version.

Hamann applies further aerodynamic components in form of a two-part rear diffuser with additional air hoses for the extendable side air intakes, side sills as well as a two-part front wing and Carbon-pendants for the original side intakes in the sills in front of the rear wheels. Furthermore, a central running air box on the roof brings back memories of past Lamborghini Diablo GT-R days. Naturally, these parts are also available in Carbon-Kevlar or fiberglass.

Impressive sound and stunning rims

The Hamann double-pipe stainless sports rear silencer (2x120mm end pipes) emits a sound similar to that generated from race tracks announcing the arrival of the blood-curdling steer. Positive side effect; an even sportier rear look. Export customers can extend their exhaust system with a Hamann sport metallic catalytic converter.

Also for individualization of vehicles within this high performance calibre, a choice of new wheel design is inherent. Hamann suggests its own creation 'Edition Race'. This multi-pieced, forged light alloy metal wheel with black wheel spider, 'Y' spoke design, Titan bolts and high polished rim flange utilized for Lamborghini Murcielago LP640 comes in the combination 8,5Jx20' front and 13,0Jx20' rear. As expected, Hamann also offers here a complete wheel set with typical tires sizes 235/30 ZR 20 (FA) und 325/25 ZR20 (RA).

Hamann prepares the cockpit of the Super-Lambo providing even more sports racing atmosphere. For this, the tuners from Laupheim, Germany offer an 8-part carbon-look interior set. The race car look is established through instrument cockpit bordure, the air bleed jet, the gear shifting panel as well as the cigarette ashtray console. Naturally, Hamann offers each Lamborghini customer preferred alterations on an individual basis. For instance, extravagant leather furnishing in a variety of colours is possible or additional of multi-media articles.

Story by Hamann at: supercars.net

Beyonce

2007-04-14T09:54:00.000-07:00

Ask Beyonce what she wants people to hear when they listen to Dangerously In Love, her debut solo album, and the multi-platinum-selling pop/urban recording artist answers, "My range. I want them to hear all of the musical influences from hip-hop to rock to jazz, there's even a Shuggie Otis sample. I want them to really hearthe talent. I know that folks love me as a pop star. Now I want them to understand me as an artist."
That they will. Musically challenging and lyrically honest, Dangerously In Love is more than just a solo CD from a superstar. It is everything you'd expect from Beyonce and more than you could have hoped for. Another side of someone we've loved for years, Dangerously In Love is equally divided between seductive mid-tempos, lush ballads and fiery club bangers, providing a sharp focus on who Beyonce is right now: as a performer, as a woman, and as a creative force to be reckoned with. The vibe is more mature, more playful, more deeply passionate and sexually aggressive. Dangerously In Love is the sound of a grown woman clearly staking her claim in the world and, in the process, redefining expectations of who she is.

A 21-year-old Houston native, Beyonce Knowles is a founding member and chief songwriter of Destiny's Child, one of the biggest selling female acts of all time. With many of the group's hit songs co-written and co-produced by Beyonce, Destiny's Child has sold more than 33 million records worldwide. When Beyonce won the 2001 ASCAP Pop Songwriter Of The Year Award, she became the first African-American woman -- and the second woman ever -- to receive that honor.
Led by founding members Beyonce Knowles and Kelly Rowland, Destiny's Child burst on the scene in 1997 with their multi-platinum single, "No, No, No," from their self-titled album. That success was dwarfed when Destiny's Child's The Writing's On The Wall was released in 1999. The album would go on to sell more than 10 million copies worldwide, driven in part by three Top 10 hits: "Jumpin, Jumpin," "Say My Name" and "Bills, Bills, Bills," which spent 9 weeks at ..1 on the Billboard RandB singles chart.

A year after Michelle Williams joined Destiny's Child in 2000, the group recorded Survivor, which debuted at ..1 on the Billboard 200 album chart. Survivor was certified double platinum four weeks after its release and has gone on to sell more than nine million copies worldwide. In 2001 Destiny's Child took home two Grammy awards: Best RandB song ("Say My Name") and Best RandB performance by a Duo or Group ("Say My Name"). Destiny's Child has won numerous other awards, among them Billboard Artist of the year, NAACP Image Awards, American Music Awards, Nickelodeon Kid's Choice and The Sammy Davis Jr. Award for Entertainer of the Year at the Soul Train Awards. The group has toured worldwide and performed at many high profile events including The Michael Jackson 30th Anniversary Concert Special and the Concert For New York City.
Given the fact that the general public is so familiar with chart-topping songs such as "Say My Name," "Independent Woman, Part I" and "Survivor," it's fair to enquire how Dangerously In Love differs from a Destiny's Child project. "Naturally the songs on my album are going to share some similarities," Beyonce admits. "But this time because I only had to write for myself, my songs are much more personal. I also wanted beats that were harder and to be able to collaborate with other people. Basically this record was a chance for me to grow as a writer and a singer. There are more ballads. The vocals aren't as precisely produced and because it's just me, there aren't as many harmonies. The experience was very liberating and therapeutic. I felt free, because I could go into the studio and talk about whatever I wanted, but in many ways it was actually harder to be on my own creatively. I depend so much on Destiny's Child (Kelly Rowland and Michelle Williams) to tell me if they like something or not. I'm so critical of myself that it's scary to have to depend on your own instincts."

Helping Beyonce trust those instincts are an impressive array of musical collaborators, among them Missy Elliot, Jay-Z, Sean Paul, Mark Batson, Mario Winans, D-Roy and Mr. B, OutKast's Big Boi, Rich Harrison, Fanatic, Scott Storch, and the legendary Luther Vandross on "The Closer I Get To You." Beyonce shares co-executive producer credits on Dangerously In Love with her father and manager Mathew Knowles. She took an active role in all aspects of the album: from writing and choosing material to producing, mastering and mixing the tracks. Beyonce pays tribute to her father on the hidden bonus track, "Daddy," which was produced by Beyonce and Mark Batson.
The sexy first single, "Crazy In Love," featuring Jay-Z, was co-produced by Beyonce and Rich Harrison. Jay-Z returns the favor for Beyonce's part on his hit "Bonnie and Clyde 03." With a beat that Beyonce says is "so hard it makes your heart hurt!," "Crazy In Love" is about that moment when you realize you're falling into love and looking crazy but you simply don't care. The abandon continues on "Speechless," produced by Fanatic. "As soon as I heard the track it inspired me," she admits. "It's very sexy, very sensual. The sort of ballad that I've never done before. This song is definitely a population increaser!"
Laced with an Arabic ambience, fused with a ghetto-fied edge and encompassing a sample from Donna Summer's "Love to Love You Baby," "Naughty Girl" is uptempo and party perfect: a sexy fantasy about having that one night where you lose all your inhibitions, head to theclub and work it like a naughty girl. "Many of the songs on the album examine aspects of relationships, and this is one element."
Also sexy is the dancehall-Arabic flavored "Baby Boy," featuring the red hot Sean Paul. "I knew Sean had to be on my album because I love his approach," she says. "'Baby Boy' is another song about a fantasy and it's one of my favorites."

Such unabashed and upfront emotions might come as a surprise to long time fans but make no mistake, Dangerously In Love isn't a rejection of DC's sound. "I love Destiny's Child and I am a member of the group, "she asserts. "We haven't broken up. We're going to continue to tour and record and be a group. We've recorded a song, 'I Know,' for "The Fighting Temptations" soundtrack. We all decided a long time back to explore solo projects and I'm the third member of the group to release my own record. Things like working apart keep the fire going and keep the fans eager for you. I'm not trying to get away from DC or the legacy we have. I just wanted to show a different approach and the growth I've experienced. "
That growth is evident in Beyonce's burgeoning acting career. In 2001 she starred in MTV's "Carmen." In 2002 she appeared as Foxy Cleopatra in "Austin Powers in Goldmember." This year she will co-star with Cuba Gooding Jr. in "The Fighting Temptations." She has two more features currently in production and can also be seen on the small screen in a series of Spike Lee-directed commercials for Pepsi-Cola. She is also the spokesperson for L'Oreal.

Do Bad Guys Get the Girl ?

2007-04-14T09:44:00.000-07:00

If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy, Mr. Bad Boy, always gets the girl !! If we remember the bad guys at school and college with the best looking babes it appears that the movies could be right. The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys ? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls, we see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, is it us, what is going wrong? You see men are confused. Men like to refer to stereo types and work from them. We are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy, but then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides and be a modern man holding the baby.

Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends mean, never calls, is rude and unhelpful and shows little respect appears to have a fan club developing. Life my friends is often unfair. Okay let us look at what is going on with this scenario.

Interest. Yes, interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and are a law unto themselves. They do what they want. They go where they will and they answer to no one. They are interesting. Tow the line, do as you are told and you are dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not. Generally.

Bad Guys are a challenge, we all love a challenge. Women love a challenge just like guys. If something is a challenge the end results must surely be worthwhile? Of course and bad guys are a challenge. The girls who go after a bad guy want to keep them to themselves and will do a great deal to keep hold. The more you want them, the greater there is a chance they may walk away. Women love to feel good about themselves and getting their bad guy, at least for a while, satisfies that urge. This appeals to some people and the greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort to keep them. There may be a lesson there.

Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they are about and don' really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Some can become almost caricatures of themselves but that doesn't make them any less attractive. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos. Somewhat out of shape if Mr. Soprano doesn't mind me saying, but immensely attractive all the same.

What have we got if we combine these facets. Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality. That equals sexy. Is it any wonder therefore that such types of guys often get the gals. It doesn't mean to say that we like them and it doesn't mean to say that this is fair or a good thing. But it can be natures way.

I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. No not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our social arsenal of dating weaponry. It is first the way you perceive yourself that matters. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life then this will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go round being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.

The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics and analyze within yourself what is it that you think partners like and how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.

Striptease Songs

2007-04-14T09:37:00.000-07:00

The visual caress of a well-executed striptease can turn almost any man into a light-headed, panting puddle on the floor. And that’s just the impersonal work of a stripper. Getting a girlfriend to agree to a personal erotic dance is one of life’s great pleasures. But if you think getting her to do it is tough, getting her to do it well is even harder. Sitting there while a girl self-consciously flails around can be the ultimate mood killer.
However, you can help by choosing the music. The right song can make all the difference in the world. Pick the wrong one and watch the clumsy fumbling begin, but pick the perfect one, and watch her lose herself in the music. With so much at stake, it’s only fair that we give you a few suggestions. We’ve dug deep too, going beyond clichés like Marvin Gaye’s “Sexual Healing” or strip club staples like “Leave Your Hat On.” Pick your favorite, dim the lights, sit back, and enjoy the show.

"Eyes Without a Face", Billy Idol
You wouldn’t think a sneering, wannabe punk rocker from the ‘80s could produce anything worthy of a spot on this list. But this 1984 power ballad is tailor-made for a deliberate, sensual striptease. It starts off slow, with Idol crooning about a long-lost love before the cooing of songstress Perri Lister, whispering the title of the song in French, joins him. That’s hot enough, but then the song starts to build up until a wall of trademark Idol guitars take it to the next level. Hopefully, your girl will follow suit and kick it up a notch too. Envision her swirling her hair or ripping her shirt open, then envision what you’ll do to her after she does that. Settle down, big guy.

"I'm a Slave 4 U", Britney Spears
Sure, she’s become a world-class train wreck and she has Federline’s stank all over her, but that doesn’t mean her handlers couldn’t write and produce a sexy song for her back in the day. This is basically an anthem for bad little girls, precisely the role you’ll be looking for her to play.
Behind a throbbing techno beat, everyone’s favorite little mouseketeer has a lyrical “coming out” party. She admits she’s young, but she also admits she can’t control herself and wants to give in to her urges -- perfect, inspiring instructions for a girl taking her clothes off in front of you.

"Cream", Prince
Of all cities in the world, it turns out that Minneapolis produced one of the most prolific and sexually charged artists in music history. That, of course, is Prince, and his body of work features songs like “Dirty Mind.” From that fertile mind comes this disco-esque romp that is sure to bring out her wild side.
Layered on top of porno-sounding guitar riffs are lyrics like “You got the horn so why don’t you blow it/You are filthy cute and baby you know it.” It definitely puts the “fun” in funky and is the perfect song if she is a bit hesitant to try this. Prince shamelessly enjoys himself while playing “Cream,” and this enjoyment is contagious.

"Justify My Love", Madonna
The Material Girl caused quite a commotion with this 1990 single. The saucy video was banned by MTV and she recorded remixes that used bible verses in conjunction with the explicit lyrics. The nerve! It was cowritten with Lenny Kravitz, whom Madonna admitted she was shagging at the time of the recording. Their sexual energy is evident, as jungle drums drive the rhythm and Madonna’s coquettish voice moans about “wanting and waiting.”
You’ll be “wanting and waiting” to do very nasty things to the girl who dances to this song for you. If she lets the red-hot song take her away, you’ll be all set to justify your lust.

"Sex (I’m a)", Lovage
Faith No More’s Mike Patton and DJ extraordinaire Dan the Automator collaborated on the relatively unknown 2001 release Music to Make Love to Your Old Lady By. But don’t let the deliberately cheesy title fool you; this great album is filled with legitimately sexy songs. The highlight is “Sex (I’m A),” a super-hot back-and-forth between Patton and nymphet Jennifer Charles of ‘90s pop group Elysian Fields. They sing of virgins, one-night stands and making love together -- the perfect recipe for a good time.
The throbbing beat will set the mood, but the overdubbed, orgasmic moans and groans will have both of you scrambling for the song to end so you can make your own little soundtrack.

Bertone Barchetta Concept

2007-04-14T09:29:00.000-07:00

Bertone presents the Barchetta concept car in celebration of its 95th anniversary. Based on the floorpan and mechanicals of the Fiat Panda 100 HP, the Bertone Barchetta is an open-topped strictly two-seater sports car that calls to mind the Italian racing cars of the 1950s. In this case, the design explicitly cites the Fiat 500 with Barchetta bodywork created by the young Nuccio Bertone in 1947 as a one-off for his personal use in races.
The decision to celebrate the company's 95th anniversary with a minimalist yet sophisticated model is perfectly in keeping with the Bertone philosophy. Since its very earliest days, the company has interpreted cars by Italian car makers with an elegant style that emphasises their personality and technological content, with an unparalleled passion for sportiness.
Bertone's choice of the Fiat brand to celebrate its 95th anniversary was both natural and emotional. Natural because Fiat is the Italian brand par excellence. Emotional because the birth of Bertone as a coachbuilder of 'special' vehicles is closely linked to the history of the Fiat brand. The historic relationship between the two companies has lasted for more than eighty years and has generated more than fifty highly successful models counting concept cars, one-offs and production cars, from the 850 Spider to the X1/9, from the Ritmo Cabrio to the Punto Cabrio.

Styling
The Bertone Barchetta is the product of innovative styling which still manages to evoke the historic traditions of the company. The compact, muscular body, with its high, taut waistline, is defined by two aluminium shells joined by a large glazed surface that crosses the doors and extends into the bonnet join line before spawning the low, wraparound windscreen.
The first impression is of a tensed body, characterised by fluid volumes and clean-cut lines, creating classic, dynamic proportions. The result is a car which, in keeping with the best Bertone traditions, is completely above fashion; if anything, it makes its own fashion statement with an uninhibited, futuristic style that projects the concept of the Barchetta – a historic icon in the legend of Italian motorsports – into the future with purposeful elegance and sophisticated irony.
The exterior
The upper shell is entirely hand beaten and polished by the master panel beaters still working for Bertone today. This single piece of aluminium extends like a cloak from the front tip of the bonnet to embrace the upper part of the sides and rear arches, terminating in the tail. In the side view, the aluminium sheet twists at the level of the rear wheelarch, creating a muscle that melts away into the tail volume. This is a typical Bertone styling cue, imbuing the car as a whole with a powerful sense of sporting aggressiveness.
The lower shell originates from a large sideskirt that tapers towards the rear wheelarch, contributing to the sloping effect of the side.
The decision to extend the glazing to the doors was taken for both functional and emotive reasons. Functionally, it improves visibility, whereas emotively, the solution emphasises the sensation of freedom that only open-topped driving can produce.
The rearward opening scissor doors, hinged around the rear wheelarch, are a Bertone patent. This is in keeping with the company's historic attention to the specific issue of accessibility, interpreted always with surprising solutions, such as the cockpit canopy of the Testudo (1962), the double gull wings of the Marzal (1967), the hinged windscreen of the Stratos 0 (1970) and the large gate-like sliding doors of the Villa (2005).
The front features LED lights and a closed, floating grille embossed in the metalwork. The rising bonnet line is interrupted by an air vent for the engine. The rear volume is framed by LED lights which point up the muscular width. At the centre of the tail volume is a small luggage compartment, with a cover trimmed in the same leather used for the interior.

The cabin
The cabin, delimited by the wraparound windscreen and rear roll bar and furnished with sophisticated minimalism and minute attention to detail, is directly inspired by the 1947 Fiat 500 Barchetta. The anatomic seats, upholstered in natural leather, are fixed and sculpted directly into the metalwork. A console area between the two seats includes a stowage tray and an iPod dock.
The adjustable dash is anchored to two exposed rails and painted in glossy white. The instruments are essential and easy to read, with a speedometer, gauges for water and oil temperature and a fuel gauge.
Air flow within the cabin is assisted by two centrally mounted exposed fans, covered by a protective grille The gearlever is machined from a solid billet of aluminium and is hand polished. As with competition ‘Barchetta' models, the driving control mechanisms are all exposed.

Designer Jeans

2007-04-14T09:22:00.000-07:00

It’s becoming increasingly rare nowadays to find a workplace that demands a suit be worn on a daily basis. Though jeans were once relegated to weekend or outdoor activities, the casual office dress code means that denim has become the new uniform for life: It can be worn at work, at play, and everywhere in between.
That being said, since you wear jeans so often and they take quite a daily beating, it’s not wise to invest $500 in every pair of jeans you purchase. On the other hand, because you wear jeans on a regular basis, you shouldn’t balk at shelling out a bit of cash for at least one or two pairs of high-end jeans, especially considering you’d spend three times as much on a suit you might only wear twice a year.
Mixing up your regular-priced jeans with a couple of splurge-worthy jeans will increase the versatility of your wardrobe and make you look like you spend more on your threads than you actually do. There’s just one caveat to heed when buying expensive denim: Avoid trends. Dropping big bucks on a pair of jeans so trendy they’ll look ridiculously dated in a year’s time is completely absurd.
Choose your pricey denim from among these labels, and the amount of wear you get out of them will more than justify your investment.

Gucci
It’s hard to get any more suave than Gucci, and these jeans are a gorgeous example of what those clever Italian designers are capable of creating. Beautifully cut with a straight leg and a classic medium wash, these are faded just the right amount, and the 10-and-a-half-inch rise means that they’ll sit perfectly on your body -- not too high and not too low. Of course, the Gucci label is imprinted on a leather patch on the back and all the rivets are engraved with the name of the renowned fashion house. All these features ensure that these jeans will look great on nearly everybody in addition to being completely appropriate for any occasion, save the most formal.

Paul Smith
Made exclusively in Japan from hot British designer Paul Smith and woven on an antique loom, these jeans have an irregular finish that will become super comfortable over time. The dark, natural indigo color will match all your casual and dress shirts and will mellow with a lot of wear to yield a lovely patina. A five-pocket, straight-leg fit makes they are great for pairing with pretty much any shoe.

Edwin
Though not technically considered designer denim in Japan, from where Edwin hails, this label has developed a cult-like following stateside, and a pair of these is hot property. Available in sizes 28 to 36, these jeans are cut to flatter pretty much everybody and are extremely comfortable. The look is a gently used one and the color is a classic, distressed blue. The back pockets are evenly spaced on the rear, meaning your butt will better than ever in these babies. You can literally wear these with everything, from sporty casual looks with trainers and brightly colored nylon jackets to night-on-the-town styles with dress shirts, smart shoes and quirky ties. Think of them like the cooler Japanese cousin to your favorite pair of Levi’s.

7 For All Mankind jeans
If you can’t be bothered to spend hours at the gym, just pick up a pair of these jeans to make your legs and your butt look out of this world. They sit low on the waist with ingeniously positioned rear pockets and are cut slim through the knee, flaring slightly at the ankle opening -- a fit guaranteed to flatter many less-than-perfect body shapes. The super saturated, lightly distressed coloring also means these jeans are incredibly slimming, giving the illusion of long legs. A hint of Lycra in the fabric also allows the jeans to really move with your body. Whether paired with a blazer or a T-shirt, these are going to look hot. And since the distinctive “A” signature of 7 jeans is recognized by virtually everybody, these babies are worth every penny.

Levi's jeans
Even if your morning routine consists of rolling out of bed and pulling on a pair of jeans from the floor, if those jeans are a pair of well-cut Levi’s, you’ll always look presentable. These Levi’s exemplify the quality of fabric and cut you should expect from a company that’s been in the denim-manufacturing business for over 130 years. This pair has a gently-used, much-loved appearance due to the dark blue vintage wash with whiskering on the thigh. An antiqued leather patch on the back completes the lived-in look of these jeans, and of course the expert cut of Levi’s combined with a slim-fit, boot-cut leg makes these becoming on almost everyone.

Diesel jeans
A touch different than most jeans, but not so crazy that your friends will be able to spot you a mile away, these jeans will instantly make you look stealthily hipper. The dark blue color means you can wear them with almost anything, but everything you pair these with will be “funkified” thanks to the subtly quirky details on these jeans, including decorative stitching on the fly, slanted, square back pockets, and an inner-thigh patch. Diesel is a superstar when it comes to making slick, fashion-forward pieces, so you’ll be in good hands with a pair of these downtown jeans with an uptown edge.

Why Do Some Men Pay For Sex?

2007-04-14T09:15:00.000-07:00

Until I began researching this article, I was of the opinion that any man who paid for sex was either a pervert or so homely looking that he couldn't get a piece of the proverbial pie for free. But then I thought, do guys ever really get sex for free? The simple answer is "no"; there's always some price to pay, no matter how big or small.
But I digress. My inspiration for this article was a particular male friend of mine, Dave, who, as good-looking as he is, insists on seeing a particular escort every couple of weeks rather than finding himself a girlfriend to settle down and enjoy life with.
"Why Dave?" I asked, "Why do you insist on paying a woman who cares nothing for you to keep you company and get your rocks off?"
"Because," he replied, "she brings no emotional baggage to the table, or bed as the case may be; I don't have to listen to her problems, she listens to mine; and best of all, she can give most porn stars a run for their money in the sack. And all I have to do is give up a few hundred bucks. Not a bad investment, right?"

it's cost effective

So, I gathered, sometimes women simply aren't worth the headache. And considering some of the women I know, some guys would probably pay them just to go away.
Then again, isn't comfortable familiarity worth a fight or two? "But I have familiarity; I see the same woman all the time." Hmm, Dave is making me feel somewhat obsolete as a girlfriend at this point.
Aren't there any advantages to having a steady girlfriend, or wife for that matter? Of course there are, but that's not what I'm here for today. I want to know why men would opt to pay a woman for a business transaction in which sex is the barter.
So I hit the streets, bars and lounges in my area of the world and, although some guys made it clear that they would never pay a woman for straight out sex, others freely admitted that, among other reasons, paying for it is far easier than having to play the meet and greet, with only the slight possibility of conclusively greeting a woman's meat.
So without further ado, here's what some guys had to say about hooking up with women in the world's oldest profession:
"Considering I just escaped from a five-year marriage that ended with me paying her to sit on her fat ass and enjoy the fruits of my labor, the last thing I want is a commitment with another gold digger. What I prefer is paying a hot woman to give me exactly what I want without complaining or insulting me. At least that way I know what her intentions are right from the start and I can't fault her for it. To these women, I am the greatest lover, I have the greatest penis and I can do no wrong. And that's the way, un-huh, un-huh, I like it."
-Jake, 34

More comments that'll make your head, yes that one, spin..

"Well, I'm originally from Holland, and prostitution is not only legal there, it's much cheaper than it is here. The thing is, there are brothels there and you know that the women in them are disease-free -- unlike the heroin hookers you may find in the streets. Although I sometimes pay for sex here, it's only because I can have dirtier sex with such women; my girlfriend refuses to go down on me, and escorts -- I don't trust street walkers -- are willing to fulfill my every desire. For the right price, that is."
-Hans, 46

"I simply don't have time to go on four dates with a woman before she even lets me kiss her. So why would I bother spending hundreds, if not thousands, on a woman who may or may not sleep with me, when I can hook up with an incredibly hot chick who fits my physical criteria and will get on her knees upon command? Maybe if I met a woman who really blew me away -- no, not that way -- I would let go of the prostitute thing and go the way of a serious relationship, but for now, I'm quite comfortable living it up on the single side of the spectrum."
-Michael, 39

"To be quite frank (laughs), my wife really let herself go and managed to gain 70 pounds in the last year. I really do love her and she's great with our kids, but man, I can't stand seeing her naked. I can hardly bring myself to touch her. I began going to strip joints to get back that look I used to have at home, but I simply needed to get my rocks off at a certain point and masturbating wasn't cutting it. Of course, it's not the same considering I put on two condoms and engage in straight sex -- no kissing or foreplay, unless she wants to go down on me, but even then it's with a condom because of herpes and all -- and head home right afterwards. I told my wife and of course, she cries about it. What I really want her to do is cry off about 70 pounds, however. Only then will either of us be happy again. I mean come on; I married a mermaid, not a whale."
-Franco, 28

i can understand

Okay, so things are starting to make some sort of sense to me. Of course, I wouldn't be the happiest camper if I found out that my man was paying for sex. First, it would shatter my ego because I'll think that I suck, or perhaps don't, in bed. Then I would get angry because he's cheating -- and yes, it is cheating.
Of course, sex with prostitutes, escorts, hookers, or whatever fancy name you'd like to attach to them, can make a man feel lonely after a while, as many of the men I spoke with admitted.
Being loved by another human being can't compare to getting your rocks off for a price. And although some guys may beg to differ, I think that, in the end, there is a reason why people pair off and commit to each other.

And no, it's not because women make you.

This interesting article is from Askmen.com

Rihanna

2007-04-14T09:07:00.000-07:00

If nothing else, it has been an eventful and eye opening year for Barbados born songstress Rihanna. In addition to recording one of the most popular singles of 2005, the hypnotic "Pon De Replay" (which bass bumped out of more car windows while igniting a slew of barbeques last summer), she won over the masses with her charming Bajan persona.

"So much has happened in my life, I feel like I've grown five years in a year," she gushes. No doubt, by the time Def Jam Records released Rihanna's debut album Music of the Sun, it was obvious that this young woman was more than a one-hit wonder. With a work ethic reminiscent of Motown sisters back in the day when soul reigned supreme, Rihanna traveled throughout the world.

2005 saw Rihanna rocking the mic on tour with Gwen Stefani, making crowds sweat in Japan, posing for magazine covers in Los Angeles and shooting her first film role for Bring It On Yet Again. This was a long way from the quiet life she led in Barbados in the parish of St.Michael. Robyn Rihanna Fenty has come through her musical initiation process unscathed. And now she is poised for everything that 2006 may hold as she readies to do it again with her sophomore release A Girl Like Me.

"I grew up so much this past year. I had no choice. To pursue my dreams, and with their support, I left my entire family in Barbados to move to the States. It was a little scary to have no friends or family and all of a sudden step into a recording studio," recalled Rihanna.

"2005 taught me the dedication and responsibility it takes to make this dream a reality. Waking up at 5:00 am to start rehearsals, the training, the schoolwork, interviews, video shoots, going all day; it always seemed glamorous but it is real work. My love for music and singing will never change but the rose colored glasses are no longer so rosy."

"Many times over the past year, I didn't have anyone my age with me. When recording this album, I wanted it to seem like I was having a personal conversation with girls my age," says the eighteen-year-old singer. "People think, because we're young, we aren't complex, but that's not true. We deal with life and love and broken hearts in the same way a woman a few years older might. My goal on A Girl Like Me was to find songs that express the many things young women want to say, but might not know how."

Dropping from the harmonic heavens to the groovalistic dance floor, Rihanna has returned with another single that will have listeners begging the d.j. to play it one more time. Produced by Jason Rotem, the sizzling "S.O.S." is bringing the summer heat early this year. With its hypnotic beat and enticing melody, "S.O.S." utilizes the electro-funk of Soft Cell's '80s classic "Tainted Love" to create a soulful anthem of young love.

"I got excited when I first heard this track and three days later, it was recorded," Rihanna says. Turning heads with its rebel sound, "S.O.S." has been used as the theme song for their NIKE latest women's line, which can be viewed on NikeWomen.com. "Making that commercial was yet another new experience," she says. "It took six days to shoot, but working with choreographer Jamie King (Madonna and Shakira) was amazing."

Focusing on progressing as an artist, Rihanna has recorded a compelling track of heartbreak called "Unfaithful." Penned by her label-mate Ne-Yo and Stargate, the song documents the tragic decay of a relationship when another person starts cheating.

Yet, in this instance, it is the girl who has strayed. "On a lot of records, men talk about cheating as though it's all a game. For me, 'Unfaithful' is not just about stepping out on your man, but the pain that it causes both parties."

Perhaps the most surprising track is the rock meets island vibe of "Kisses Don't Lie." Evan Rogers and Carl Sturken, the principles of her production company, SRP, used a mixture of Caribbean elements, electric guitar and a mesmerizing bassline." Coming from Barbados, I really hadn't heard that much rock music," Rihanna confesses. "Touring with Gwen changed my perspective. So, when I was discussing this project with L.A. Reid, Chairman of Island Def Jam Records, I made sure to say I want to experiment with some rock."

During the recording of A Girl Like Me, Rihanna jet set down to Jamaica to record with Sean Paul on the yardie duet "Break It Off." Smiling, Rihanna explains, "I have so much respect and love for Sean Paul. He took me to visit the Bob Marley Museum before going into the studio, which was an amazing experience. When we finally got to the studio, I felt as though Marley's spirit was in the room with us."

With A Girl Like Me, the beautiful singer proves that her breakthrough was no fluke. After selling 1 million copies worldwide of her debut Music Of The Sun, once again, the summer belongs to Rihanna

Aishwarya Rai

2007-04-14T08:57:00.000-07:00

Aishwarya Rai (Ash) is one of Bollywood's pre-eminent leading ladies. This Indian darling burst upon the world stage when her striking beauty, poise and commanding intelligence won her the Miss World crown in 1994. This former architecture major soon became one of India's most famous models landing a prestigious Pepsi campaign and appearing in Vogue Magazine. India's top Bollywood directors were soon lining up to work with Ash. Her film debut in Mani Rathnam's 'Iruvar' (1997) received critical acclaim and her performance in Aur Paar Ho Gaya' (1997) directed by Rahul Rawail garnered her the Best Female Debutante Award. In 2000 she was awarded Best Actress by FilmFare and Zee Cine for her work in Sanjay Leela Bhansali's "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam", in that same year, nominated for Best Supporting Actress for her special appearance in Aditya Chopra's Mohabbatein (2000). In 2001 Ash was nominated for FilmFare's Best Actress Award for Satish Kaushik's "Hamara Dil Aapke Paas Hai".

Ash's star continued to rise in 2002 working again with Sajay Leela Bhansali in 'Devdas'. 'Devdas' is the most ambitious and most successful film in Bollywood history. It became the first Bollywood picture to ever receive a special screening at this year's Cannes Film Festival and broke box-office records in India and the United States.

2003 brought even more exciting opportunities. Ash became the first Indian actor to be a member of the jury at the Cannes Film Festival. She is also the latest member of the elite L'Oreal Dream Team, joining beauties Catherine Deneuve & Andie MacDowell as their international ambassador. She graced the covers of India Today and the prestigious TIME Magazine. Time Magazine has also listed her on their list of the "100 Most Influential People in the World Today". She has graced numerous covers worldwide including USA, UK, China, Russia, Israel, United Emerites, Italy, Spain and France. Ash was also listed on Rolling Stone Magazine's annual "Hot List", Hello Magazine's Most Attractive Women in the World", Stuff Magazine, FHM magazine, V-Life from Variety Magazine, GQ Magazine, New York Times Magazine, Harper's & Queen and countless others.

2004 saw Aishwarya take on the leading role in her first English language film for Gurinder Chadha in "Bride & Prejudice". She also became the first Indian female to be immortalized in wax at the world famous Madame Tussaud's wax museum in London.

With over 17,000 websites dedicated to her, Ash finally launched her "Official Website" www.AishwaryaWorld.com

2005 started with appearances on "60 Minutes", "David Letterman Show" and the most watched television program in the world the "Oprah Winfrey Show". Aishwarya's career continues to grow even stronger - she will soon be seen in Mistress of Spices for director Paul Berges, Jag Mundhra's Provoked, Sanjay Gadhvi's Dhoom 2 and legendary film producer Dino De Laurentiis's The Last Legion opposite Colin Firth and Sir Ben Kingsley. The Queen of Bollywood is already becoming the talk of tinseltown and is currently in negotiations on two major motion pictures.

Mayra Veronica

2007-04-14T08:54:00.001-07:00

As Featured on Extra's Star Profile on Dec.2/06, One of FHM's "top 100 Sexiest Women In the World" three years straight, Mayra Veronica has graced the covers of magazines from FHM to Maxim as well as Men's Edge, Smooth, King, Smoke, Maxim En Espanol, Open Your Eyes, Cosmo Fl, Urban Male and many others. She has been featured in countless commercials including Nike's own television campaign opposite Lebron James and EA video games has created a new video character after her in their Def Jam 3 video game which is scheduled to be released in March of '07. Mayra has recently been voted by the US Military Troops as their "Favorite Pin UP Girl" after being one of the nation's top-selling calendars in '04,'05,'06.
After her release in the popular magazine FHM on Aug 2003, Mayra became a household name. The feedback on this layout got her on FHM's 2004 calendar and landed her a spot on their A-list top 100 sexiest women in the world issue for 2004, 2005 and again in 2006. This notoriety made her own calendar one of the top selling calendars in US bookstores for the Hispanic market and made her site one of the top 30 celebrity sites hit with over 3.7 million hits bi weekly to date. Her name continues to be one of the top keywords for Web surfers.
Now Mayra's musical passion arrives unbounded with her debut Latin Internationally Distributed Album: "Vengo Con To'" produced by Roy Tavares and Kike Santander.
Making the transition from television as a regular on the national Univision Networks "Don Francisco Presenta" during her three year run, to a recording artist, Mayra has had music in her soul almost from birth. As a very small girl, Mayra Veronica can recall sitting by her father's side as he played "Cenicienta", a Cuban song about Cinderella. Now she's found a glass slipper of her own two decades later with almost fairy-tale success as an in-demand entertainer.
Born Mayra Veronica Aruca Rodriguez on August 20 in Havana Cuba, Mayra's family moved to the US when she was 5 years old and they settled in one of Miami, Florida's Cuban communities. Mayra studied ballet for 12 years in all, taking a break when adolescence took over and she grew "voluptuous" she laughs now. She also won various honors in a number of beauty pageants, including second runner-up as Miss Miami and Miss Hispanic America. When it became clear that a career in dance was not to be, Mayra turned to acting, but not before graduating from Florida International University with a major in psychology and a minor in business, applying those skills later as her entertainment career blossomed.

Traveling back and forth from the Big Apple to home in Florida, Mayra studied at the famed Strassberg Institute for acting, earned roles in stage plays, and was also signed as a spokes model for the giant Univision television network. At home in Florida, she became a host for the Miami television entertainment magazine, “Miami Hoy,” writing, producing and editing her own segments as she interviewed a roster of celebrities, ranging form Donald Trump and Hugh Hefner to Burt Reynolds, Oscar de la Renta ,Tim Allen and Marc Anthony. Mayra also starred in feature film roles, in PBS productions, independent films such as “Tumbe”, and appeared in nationwide Spanish language ads for a wide array of companies including Loreal, Ford, Colgate, Burger King, Coca Cola, and Allstate. She then landed the role on Univision’s “Don Francisco Presenta”, in which viewers embraced her nationwide, making Mayra one of their top female personalities (Mayra is also the #1 most downloaded female personality on the Univision website).
The launching of Mayra's music career continues the stunning rise of this star who has been named "the sexiest woman alive on Latin television" by FHM magazine as she prepares for her world promotional tour and her debut American Album created by top industry producers. What’s her motto? “Fear Nothin' and if you do...stare fear back in the eye and tell it: Just Watch Me! “

2008 Volvo C30

2007-04-14T08:47:00.000-07:00

Introduced as a concept car a few years ago in Geneva, Volvo has not only announced the production of the sporty C30 hatchback, it has announced that this car will come to America later this year.Due in showrooms in summer 2007 as a 2008 model, the C30 is a three-door hatchback that's some 9 inches shorter than Volvo's current small car in the U.S., the S40 sedan.Targeted at young and young-at-heart drivers, the C30 will be powered by a 218-horsepower turbocharged five-cylinder T5 gasoline engine with 236 lb-ft of torque available from 1500 to 4800 rpm.According to Volvo officials, the turbocharged engine makes the lightweight C30 accelerate from a standstill to 60 miles per hour in 6.2 seconds.At the North American debut in Los Angeles, Volvo Cars of North America President Anne Belec said the company wants "to bring new customers in when they are young" and hope to keep them in Volvo vehicles over the years.The C30 seats four, with individual, bucket-style, back seats that are moved a bit toward the center to provide forward visibility around the front seats.Belec said Volvo will offer a variety of accessories for young, active buyers, including snowboard and bicycle racks. Also offered will be optional two-tone body kit combinations that can add contrasting-color lower body pieces.Volvo's Senior Vice President and Design Director Steve Mattin said the company decided to put this option into production after receiving good response on the subtle two-tone appearance on the C30 concept car.As with all Volvos, the C30 will offer plentiful safety features including curtain airbags, anti-whiplash front head restraints and advanced body structure.
The company will announce pricing closer to the C30 on-sale date.

Things To Remember When Borrowing Money

2007-04-14T08:43:00.000-07:00

Whether you're starting a small business, remodeling your home or just paying some bills, from time to time you'll need to borrow money. Whether you choose to use your line of credit or take advantage of some equity in your home, you'll want to know what you're getting yourself into before you sign the deal. Here are some things to consider.

1- Shop for the best interest rate
The main thing that you'll be comparing when you're looking for a loan is the best interest rate, which is essentially the price of the money. It's easy to fall for a good sales pitch, but a prudent borrower does his homework. Ask several banks for quotes and then do the same with brokers. You'll get an idea of the price range, but don't be afraid to tell the lowest-priced broker that you think he can do better, especially if other quotes are close. Of course, you need to make sure that you're comparing apples to apples, so be certain that your loan quotes reflect the same amount and time period, and be sure to account for fees.

2- Consolidate your loan
Loan consolidation can have two advantages:
A- It's easier to manage one bill at the end of the month instead of three or more.
B- You can lock in a low interest rate.

Of course, you take a risk; if interest rates continue to drop, you may not be able to reconsolidate, which means you'll be paying more for your money. But if they rise, you'll be sitting pretty.
3- Use equity
Your home equity is actually your money, and sometimes it pays to use it. You can take equity out (essentially, get a check from the bank equal to some or all of your equity), or you can open a line of credit against your equity (essentially using your home as security for the loan). Because this is a secured loan, you should get a better interest rate than a credit card, but on the downside, if you default, you could lose your home. If you take out a home equity loan, make sure you do so to finance a worthwhile project.

Use that line of credit and whatever you do, avoid payday loans..

4- Utilize your line of credit
If you don't own a home or don't want to use your home equity, you can use your line of credit. Essentially we're talking about a credit card. While charging it is almost never the foundation of solid financial planning, a credit card has its merits. First, they're great in an emergency. Second, you won't have to justify your plan to anyone before you charge, which means that you have ample flexibility. On the downside, you're going to pay higher rates. However, you should always try to negotiate a lower rate with your credit card company. Remember; credit cards are a competitive business and it never hurts to ask for a deal.

5- Check the fine print
Whenever you sign a loan document, you'll need to check the details. Two big issues to keep in mind are default and early repayment. Default means that you did not pay on time, and you'll want to know when you're technically in default (30, 60, or 90 days), and what that means (does the whole balance become due; can they seize your assets?). On the other hand, you'll want to know about early repayment. It may sound odd, but some lenders charge a penalty for repaying early. After all, the sooner you pay, the less interest they make. So you'll want to know if you can do that without a penalty.

6- Avoid payday loans
Companies that advertise cash loans with no credit check and no collateral make their money by doing volume business and charging outrageously high rates (upwards of 300%) and penalties. Those companies prey on the desperate guys out there, and they should be avoided at all costs.

7- Maximize your credit score before you borrow
The price you pay for the loan will depend greatly on your credit, so if you're planning to borrow in the immediate future (six months out), check your score and see what you can do to improve it. If you've missed payments on credit cards and utilities, make sure that you make timely payments for the next six months. And take that time to clear up any mistakes or outstanding issues on your credit report.
Borrowing money
Shopping for a loan can seem like a daunting task, especially if you've never done it before. But in a lot of ways, a loan is just like buying a car or a major appliance; they all come with different features and prices. Once you get beyond the intimidation factor, you'll see that with multiple sources, you'll be able to compare apples to apples. So do your homework.

Source: Askmen.com

Anna Nicole Smith Diaries at Auction

2007-04-09T12:42:00.000-07:00

Two diaries penned by Anna Nicole Smith in the early 1990s reveal a troubled young woman professing to be deeply in love with octogenarian oil tycoon J. Howard Marshall II, and often depressed and concerned about her weight and eating habits.

"I've been really stressed out lately and depressed and I can't quit eating. I feel like a pig," the former Playboy Playmate, who died Feb. 8 in a Florida hotel from a drug overdose, wrote in an entry dated Aug. 16, 1992.

The starlet's journals, made available exclusively to The Associated Press on Thursday, are among several pieces of Smith memorabilia going up for public auction in a few weeks by Heritage Auction Galleries of Dallas.

One diary is a purple and green Hallmark hardbound book that includes a handwritten message on the inside cover: "This diary belongs to Vickie Smith. Do Not Read!"

Smith, whose real name is Vickie Lynn Smith, noted — in a very freeform style — the beginning of her relationship with Paul Marciano, CEO of Guess Inc., where she eventually replaced Claudia Schiffer in the company's jeans advertisements.

"O my Gosh!! Paul Marsiano called today to see if I got his books also I'm gonna go to San Antonio to do photo shoot," she wrote on June 23, 1992. "I'm so excited!! I can't believe this. This could be it." The entry ends with five hand-drawn smiley faces.

Two days later she details a trip to a Nieman Marcus store where she bought $3,000 worth of clothing.

"I'm so happy they look great," she wrote. "I hope it empresses Paul Marsiano. ... I'm starving!! I've been starving myself."

By August, Smith revealed a disdain for eating and sex, and growing frustration with Marshall, who was 63 years older than Smith. The two married in 1994.

"I've been really stressed out lately and depressed and I can't quit eating. I feel like a pig. Howard has been buying me som jewelry but he call me 15 or 20 times a day it drives me crazy. I love him but he aggravates me somtimes," she wrote. "I don't no what to do about Paul hes strange guy. I hate for men to want sex all the time."

The entry ends with a large underlined "Chow!"

On June 13, 1992, she wrote that she was hung over and stayed home to watch a movie, adding that she "Took a Zandrex!"

An autopsy report showed Smith died at age 39 on from an accidental overdose of at least nine prescription drugs — including a powerful sleep aid — and that there was no foul play.

Her second diary is a much smaller spiral-bound paperback Guess Kids calendar from 1994. The individual entries are not dated but describe her relationship with Marshall, who was ill and died in 1995.

"Hes so very weak and fragile When I touch him Im afraid he might break," she wrote. "If Jesus desides to take him I dont no what I'll do. I love him so much it hurts me to site and watch him when hes hurting I just want to hold him touch him let him no how much I care."

After Marshall's death, the Texas high-school dropout who became a topless dancer took her fight for his estimated $500 million fortune as far as the Supreme Court.

That ongoing battle could make her infant daughter, Dannielynn, very wealthy. Howard K. Stern, her lawyer-turned-companion, and two other men have claimed to be the baby's father.

The auction house obtained the journals from an anonymous German businessman who purchased them and other items on eBay for more than $500,000 several weeks ago.

Doug Norwine, director of music and entertainment memorabilia at Heritage, said the man decided to auction the diaries after securing the publishing rights. Opening bids will start a $20,000, Norwine said, and he expects the diaries to fetch as much as $100,000.

Make your date delicious

2007-04-09T11:05:00.001-07:00

The Legality Of Escort Services

2007-04-09T06:38:00.000-07:00

Escort services is usually described where companionship is hired for a night of entertainment or for more a night of intimate but non-sexual services, such as massage. For the most part, these services are legal in the U.S. The state legislatures however recognize the reality that escort services are part of the adult entertainment business and pass various measures to control these services and to ensure that they are distinct from prostitution which is illegal everywhere (except strangely some outlying districts of Nevada).
The most obvious reason for this is anxiety is over the exploitation of minors. Others are rooted in an intolerance of prostitution in American culture since the prohibition era and the recognition that it is often a front for other organized criminal activities.
Different approaches are taken by different states. Some use a regulatory approach and attempt to control the activities that take place through indirect means. Utah taxes escort services where they advertise themselves through partial nudity (leaving the obvious loophole of advertising through fully but glamorously dressed females). North Carolina uses zoning laws to establish and maintain boundaries between adult entertainment areas and other 'family' zones. California law requires escort services to have a police license, thus allowing 'unsuitable' businesses to be closed without the necessity of proving criminal charges.
Both federal and state legislatures use anti-trafficking legislation to prevent adult services being sold across state lines again to prevent the exploitation of minors or foreign nationals.
Finally, all states use traditional anti-prostitution legislation to deal with escort services or escorts who step over the line. There are various legal positions on where this line is but most states take it that an explicit ('verbal') offer of genital based sexual activity in return for an explicit offer of money constitutes prostitution. This does not, however, prevent an escort being hired for other services and deciding on a personal basis to have sex with the customer. And in some states or cities (Seattle, for example) if money put down in return but it is not made verbalized that this would happen then prostitution is not deemed to take place.
In most cases, the prostitute is arrested and charged. Different states and districts take different views of the customer. There is evidence of inconsistencies in the application of the law, depending on local tolerance of the activities. The owners of escort services may be indicted but only if it can be proved that they 'knowingly' ran the escort agency as a prostitution service.
The legality of Internet advertising of escort services is also questionable. An advert which is legal in California may break laws in Florida. The age of consent also differs between states meaning that simply entering the site and viewing a picture may leave the individual open to charges of pedophilia. Many sites have taken to posting legal warnings but the technology forces them to leave the decision to enter the site to the customer's discretion.

The UK legal system is often a version of the jokes about good news and bad news.
Prostitution - exchanging participation in sexual activities for money or other goods - has always been legal in the UK. It's actually arguably more acceptable to charge for your sexual skills than your cooking or brewing skills - you need a certificate or license for the latter two!
However, many of the activities that prostitution often involve are illegal.
The legal situation in England and Wales has changed over time, and keeps changing. A government consultation on sex work laws, Paying the Price, was held in 2004 and we await developments from that. The London market is booming since the EU expansion in May 2004 and with a flood of gorgeous women coming to work to the UK - there has never been a better time from a customer's point view as the competition in the business is fierce. So if you find your girl from a reputable Escort Agency, or call one of the independent london escorts you are guaranteed to have a good time.
Escort services do provide a tantalizing and for the most part enjoyable experience. Do your research and go in with your head free of assumptions. In short, as in any area of adult entertainment, discretion is the better part of value.

Habits That Destroy You

2007-04-09T06:28:00.000-07:00

We all have weaknesses. It's only natural, we're primitive beasts called men. We all have that one soft spot that goes against all the common sense, logic and experience we've gathered. Such a weakness can get us into trouble, and can cause us to lose credibility and respect.

That weakness can be a fondness for alcohol, a love of illicit drugs, a gambling habit, an inability to control your debts, being unreliable, an incapability to keep your mouth shut, having a sex addiction, or being a brute who idolizes Mussolini. I'm not immune. As much as I practice what I preach, I have a weakness too, and it's always been the sight of an angelic brunette with legs that can melt butter (and at times that weakness spreads to Eastern European blondes with racks that would make Costco blush).
Though said brunettes can cause my most primal urges to get the better of me, I can still keep it my pants. It's a habit that won't destroy me. Sure, I have mistresses, but they are all kept firmly under control so that it does not affect the rest of my life. I especially keep my "weaknesses" away from my businesses, so that the two never cross paths. So I have some habits -- some bad, some good -- but I'm smart enough to know when a habit gets out of control and has the potential to wipe me out. Some people can't make that distinction, so this article is for you.

sign of weakness

A bad habit proves you have weaknesses and a lack of discipline in some aspects of your life. How that habit controls your life shows how disciplined you are. But we can't get away from the fact that you are still weak and vulnerable in one area of your life. I've covered the dangers of appearing weak before. Having the appearance of weakness makes you a target for your enemies. They have found a loophole in getting to you. By having a bad habit that can destroy you, you open yourself to being exploited. Bad habits also affect your reputation.
When you lose control (i.e. you can't help but gamble when you hear the faintest sound of cards shuffling), it takes a toll on your reputation too -- you are seen as fallible and a potential liability. In my world, liabilities end up in the East River. You don't want anyone to think you're unreliable and unsavory; putting doubts in people's minds about your reputation is bad for business. It also has a snowball effect. Imagine if my enemies think my brunette/leg fetish is out of control. They think they found a way to wound me. Next thing I know, these cafones start sending every auburn-haired girl with a great arse in the county my way, until I put myself in a compromising position and they have a safe way to take me out. I've done it to others; why couldn't it happen to me too?

Check out the most dangerous habits a guy can have...

breaking down the habits

Alcohol: Booze can go from a nice accompaniment to a meal to controlling everything you do. All it takes is one moment with the wrong alcohol, at the wrong place, and at the wrong time to open your mouth and say things that will haunt you for a lifetime. Then you'll have a real reason to drink. Recovering from the damage to your rep caused by the bottle can take years.
Drugs: Like alcohol, they make you lose control, logic and reason. Unlike alcohol, they can be a more expensive habit and unlike being found face first in a pool of your own vomit, you end up in the can for dealing or doing the junk. Drugs screw with your brain, which is why the cocaine lords in Colombia don't touch their own supply. Like alcohol, by the time it's doing you enough harm to destroy your life, you'll be too souped up to do anything about it.
Gambling: The problem with gambling is that it doesn't take long for your gambling debt to eventually land in the hands of people you don't want knowing your name. You become known as a degenerate and you add no value to your life. In fact, you end up destroying everything of value in your life because the vig is so high, you can't help but sell off your liver to pay off the juice. Debt is a great way to destroy even the strongest of men.
Sex addiction: When your penis is making decisions your brain should be making, it's inevitable that you'll make a stronzo out of yourself. Sex and an addiction to women can cloud your judgment, make you easily influenced by a pair of T&A, and eventually burn associates who will look at your obsession with the opposite sex as a good scapegoat to screwing you over, or questioning your decisions and rationale.
Being a big mouth: Not being able to keep your hole shut can be a very nasty habit. Not only do you risk saying things you shouldn't, wrecking your reputation or being perceived as untrustworthy, you can screw someone up the arsehole pretty badly. That could cost you big time, unless you like wearing cement shoes.

getting over bad habits
Look, I'm no freakin' therapist over here, but there are some things you can do to get rid of the bad habits. I know it's not easy, I know it takes time, willpower, love, hugs, and a good shot across the head, but be a man, grow some testicoli , and get it done.
1- Be aware of your problem
If you are getting beaten up, losing your friends, end up in the hospital more times than Michael Jackson, max out your credit cards, or are always told what a jerk-off you are, maybe it's time for you to go up a hill for a few hours to get some perspective on your life. If you can't see that something is wrong, you're hopeless. If you need people to point out your stupidities, you have no chance. Either open your eyes or get out of town.
2- Be disciplined, not half-arsed
If you don't put all your effort into coming correct, you're doomed to fail. Like anything in life, things done half-heartedly end up being sloppy, inferior, and prone to breaking under minimal stress. Don't be a fool, don't waste your time, own up to your faults, and change .
3- Change your circle of friends
Unfortunately, too often we are a product of our environment, and if that environment is rotten, guess what happens to you? Stop hanging out with losers and people that are a negative influence. If they don't add value to your life, they are sucking it away. Friends either help or hurt, otherwise they are just strangers. A wiseguy that purposely got out of the business is not going to get too far by hanging out with wiseguys still in the business, is he?
4- Sabotage yourself
Sometimes, we need the crap beaten out of us for the truth to sink in. Sometimes we need to be taught a tough lesson in order to learn. So maybe you need to set yourself up for some severe consequences that will scare you halfway to Bangkok to get your life back on track. Turn yourself in, rat on someone connected, screw with the wrong guy's wife; do whatever it takes for you to hit rock bottom and wake up.

zero sum game
Like every bad habit, you are essentially playing poker with your life. Your bad habit makes you happy, it brings you a little bit of a thrill, you can feel like a winner after, but it can also screw you six ways to Wednesday (and to a back room for a beating with a bat). In the end, you have to ask yourself if the pleasure of the habit outweighs the risk it poses to the rest of your life, and take your chances if it does. As much as I love brunette tail, it's a zero sum game.

I know that, for all the pleasure they give me, they have plenty of downsides. I love to gamble on prizefights, but not enough to sweat if I lose big. I love a good wine, but not enough to lose my composure by overindulging. Control your bad habits or, better yet, get rid of them. We're human and we're imperfect. It doesn't take much for a vice to highlight those imperfections, so why not do something about it?

Source: Askmen.com

Rules of Stress-Free Travel

2007-04-09T06:22:00.000-07:00

Once upon a time, air travel was a glamorous adventure. Now, it's more of a calamitous misadventure. Here's how to get from place to place without feeling like part of a cattle drive

1206_art_travel.jpg So a whole group of weary travelers picked up their carry-ons and moved over to the new gate. And waited. An hour later, a second plane landed and taxied in. Passengers got off. It would only be a short time, we were told, before we boarded and headed to Hong Kong. We waited. And waited. And then, materializing out of a doorway, came the same shy and embarrassed airline employee.

"Very sorry," she said, "but this plane is more sick than the other plane...so...we will take the first plane!" And, like dutiful (and dumb) sheep, and without even questioning the agent as to how sick any of the carrier's planes were, we all marched quietly back to the first malfunctioning plane, boarded, and somehow made it to Hong Kong.

A few days later, I found myself on an Aeroflot flight to Moscow. The flight was not only oversold but also overcrowded. And not just by passengers, but by what seemed like hundreds of oversize horseflies. We actually roared down the runway with a standing-room-only crowd of 12 people in the aisle, desperately holding on to the sides of passengers' seats as we became airborne.

And the flies? No problem. The flight attendants apparently were used to this problem on Aeroflot, and, without even cracking a smile, walked down the aisle handing out...flyswatters! Talk about in-flight entertainment.

When it comes to airplane horror stories, I have more than my fair share. I travel nearly 400,000 miles a year, and I've seen just about everything that can go wrong when you fly. I've experienced three emergency landings. My flights have been hit by lightning five times, once so severely that it burned a grapefruit-size hole in the plane's tail. I've been on aircraft that have lost engines and other parts of the plane in midair.

And once, my flight landed safely only to be broadsided on the ground...by a catering truck. I've been laid over in London, delayed in Des Moines, marooned in Khartoum, and stuck -- more than I care to remember -- in 35E. But I've lived to tell the stories and learned a lot along the way. So this holiday season, don't put yourself blindly in the hands of the airlines, hotel chains, and car-rental companies.

Use these 21 rules of stress-free travel, and seize back a little control. You'll reduce the stress and the strain on both your mind and your wallet.

TALK TO A HUMAN
Your new travel mantra for 2007: human being. While it may seem cheaper and easier to book your flight on the Internet, remember that many Web sites pose as informational when they are, in fact, transactional -- trying to push the sale. I'm not saying not to use the Internet; I'm just saying not to book your flight there first. Instead, quickly go online and find out which airlines service the route you want to take, then type in gethuman.com, which will tell you how to maneuver quickly through the customer-service tree of your chosen airlines. Now, pick up the phone.

START WITH THE PRICE
Let's say you're calling to make a reservation for a flight from Chicago to San Francisco. The first question the agent will ask you seems reasonable enough: "When do you want to travel?"

Don't answer that question. Instead, respond with a question: "Before I answer that, can you just go to your screen and punch up all the published fares on the Chicago to San Francisco route?" This will take the agent about four seconds. "Now," you say next, "scroll to the bottom of the list. What's that fare?" (Since no airline wants to promote their cheapest flights, the lowest fares are buried at the bottom of the screen.) Work your way up that list, finding the best fare for you with restrictions you can live with. Then, and only after you get the lowest rate possible, go to the Internet and see if you can find a deal that beats what you have.

Remember, once you make an airline reservation, you have 24 hours in which to book it. During that 24-hour window, you can go to the Web and see if you can beat that human-being deal. Be sure to check out farecast.com, a new site that actually predicts airfare prices on routes at the 55 busiest airports in the U.S. It's a good guide.

Also check out farecompare.com and my new favorite site, airfarewatchdog.com, which constantly searches travel databases for little-known, sometimes hidden, fare deals. For last-minute deals, check out site59.com, which does an excellent job of unloading unsold inventory.

RESEARCH YOUR FLIGHT
Each month, the U.S. Department of Transportation publishes a list of flights with the worst on-time records in America -- by route, airline, and flight number. In one listing, USAir flight 1619 between Philadelphia and Atlanta was reported late 100 percent of the time. And there are dozens more that are late more than 95 percent of the time. You can also get real-time information at flightstats.com. It lists how often a flight is canceled, diverted, or late.

STAY FLEXIBLE
If all the flights to your destination city are booked, think alternate airports (Providence instead of Boston, Oakland instead of San Francisco, Milwaukee instead of Chicago, to mention just a few) or routings that get you to Hawaii, for example, through Denver, Phoenix, or Las Vegas. You'll almost always save money and in many cases have less stress (and fewer delays) because you'll avoid the giant airports. For example, Midway has fewer delays than O'Hare, and Long Beach has a better record than LAX.

NEVER CALL TOLL-FREE NUMBERS
The same thing applies to making a reservation for a hotel room. Never call the 800 toll-free number to find a hotel room from a large chain. You'll only be connected to a third-party clearinghouse with a mandate to sell rooms at a designated price -- no room to negotiate. Instead, call the hotel directly.

But don't ask for reservations -- they'll just reroute you back to that 800 number. Instead, ask to speak to the manager on duty or the director of sales. They are the best arbiters of their room inventory. If the Schmidlap wedding party canceled last night and they suddenly have 60 rooms to sell, that 800 number (or the chain's Web site) may not have that information.

You're now in the best negotiating position. And an even better reason to talk to a human being at the hotel: You've established a relationship. Look for that person when you check in and you stand a much better chance for an upgrade.

CALL DURING FOOTBALL
Always try to call a hotel at 4 p.m. on a Sunday to make your reservation. Why? That's the one day each week that hotel revenue managers -- the folks who set and control room rates -- aren't working. You're in a better position to negotiate, since the hotel knows that an unsold room is revenue they'll never recoup once the sun rises.

DON'T BE BLINDED BY STARS AND DIAMONDS
Forget hotel ratings systems. In many destinations, stars are a government designation for how much the hotel is charging, not a reflection of quality. It just means you're paying more for your room. Stars and diamond awards are great for hotel-employee morale and are used by hotels to justify charging a higher rate, but how does that benefit you? It doesn't.

MAIL YOUR LUGGAGE
There are essentially two types of luggage: carry-on and lost. That's why I haven't checked a bag on a domestic flight in eight years. If I need to tote more than I can carry on, I simply ship my bags ahead to the hotel. I use FedEx, but there are more than 17 other private courier companies that perform the same door-to-door, room-to-room service.

In addition to DHL and UPS, check out luggageconcierge.com, luggagefree.com, and virtualbellhop.com.

I save an average of two hours of my life every time I fly by not checking bags. I don't have to schlep, I don't have to stand in line at the airline counter, I don't have to stand in line at the TSA, and then, when I land, I don't have to stand in that refugee circle around the baggage carousel, hoping against hope that my bags were actually on the same flight I was. Where are my bags? In my hotel room. How cool is that? How much does it cost? As little as $40 per bag. But the real question -- and a rhetorical one at that -- is, how much is it worth?

Because of issues with customs, it's not always a good idea to send your bags ahead when you are traveling internationally. In cases like that, if you must check your bags, practice some basic common sense: Always put an identification tag on the outside of each bag (but list only your name and cell-phone contact number), and do the same on the inside of each bag. Airline baggage conveyor belts can devour ID tags, but this way, if your outside tag gets ripped off, someone from the airline can still reach you.

IGNORE DEPARTURE TIMES
If you call the airline and ask if your flight is on time, you'll be sorry. More often than not, the airline agent will interpret your question to mean, "Is the flight scheduled to leave on time?" That's meaningless. Instead, ask to be given the tail number of the aircraft assigned to your flight, and then ask where that aircraft is. If you're scheduled to fly from Boston to Atlanta in two hours, but the aircraft assigned to your flight is still in Belize, well, now you know you're not leaving on time before you ever leave your house or office.

GO WHERE YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO GO
Since you won't have any bags to check, follow my advice and save even more time and aggravation. If you have an early-morning flight from a dual-level airport, don't have your car drop you off at departures -- it will be jammed with vehicles and people -- but at the empty downstairs arrivals area. Who is arriving at 6:30 in the morning? No one. No traffic, no lines. Get out of your taxi and just take the escalator upstairs and through security to your gate. And when you land, there's absolutely no reason to go to arrivals, which will be a zoo. Get picked up at the empty departures level.

UNDRESS FOR SUCCESS
Before you leave for the airport, put everything metallic you're taking with you -- watch, keys, coins, jewelry, pens, chains, et al -- in ziplock plastic bags and pack them in your carry-on. Dress on the other side of security, please! This will save five minutes per passenger. Do the math: It makes so much sense.

IGNORE THE DEPARTURES BOARD
If the airlines ran the shipping business, the departure boards would still show the Titanic as "on time." Look at the departures board for only one piece of information: the gate from which your flight is scheduled to depart. Then go immediately to the arrivals board. Check to see what is arriving at your gate. If nothing is arriving at your gate, then you can enjoy the luxury of not being disappointed at the counter.

INVOKE RULE 240
The airlines definitely don't want you to know about this one. It's a rule that has been around for more than 20 years, but unless you invoke it, don't expect the airlines to volunteer it. And here's what it means: In the event of a delay or cancellation for any reason whatsoever (except those caused by weather), if you invoke rule 240, the airline must endorse your ticket over to the next available flight -- not their next available flight, which might not leave until next Tuesday. One word of caution: Some low-cost airlines, like JetBlue and Southwest, which have no interline arrangements with other airlines, are not covered by the rule. But each of the legacy airline carriers (American, United, Northwest, Delta, US Airways) is still governed by 240.

NEGOTIATE YOUR PHONE BILL
Yes, phone and Internet charges are negotiable, as long as you make a deal ahead of time. Before you take your room key, tell the person at the front desk you want your phone and Internet charges bundled -- a flat fee of $10 or $15 a day for unlimited Internet and domestic long-distance calls. More often than not, the hotel will agree to the deal. This also applies to other annoying charges like resort fees and use of the hotel gym. Negotiate everything up front.

STAY BELOW THE EIGHTH FLOOR
Modern firefighting equipment doesn't have the capacity to easily fight fires, or rescue people, higher than eight stories. Staying on a lower floor is especially important in third-world countries, where fire-safety regulations and procedures aren't quite as strict as they are in the U.S.

FOLLOW THE BOOSTER PUMPS
Most high-rise hotels cannot maintain adequate water pressure. As a result, many have installed booster pumps in their buildings. The pumps aren't necessarily on alternating floors, just different floors. So when you check in, ask the front-desk clerk to call engineering and find out what floor the booster pumps are on. If, for example, the answer comes back that the pumps are on 4, 6, 9, 11, and 15, then ask for a room on either 4 or 6. Why? Because when you walk into your room on a floor where there's a booster pump, you'll be guaranteed a decent hot shower no matter what time of day you need it.

ASK ABOUT CONSTRUCTION
Now that you've made friends with the front-desk clerk, ask another question: "How close is my room to the construction?" Virtually every hotel runs on a constant cycle of renovation, which means that, at any given time, an entire floor (or floors) is closed for reconstruction. If you don't ask that question, you could be given the keys to the Jackhammer Suite.

GERMPROOF YOUR ROOM
Short of wearing a biohazard suit, you need to do three things immediately upon entering your room: First, always pack some sanitizing wipes, and use them to wipe down the TV remote and the phone handset. Second, walk over to the bed, pull off the bedspread and throw it into a corner of the room. Never look at it again. Never touch it again. And last but not least, go into the bathroom. Turn on the hot-water faucet and place the water glasses under that faucet for at least three minutes.

Why? Hotel maids are heavily tasked to clean between 12 and 16 rooms per shift. And if your room is one of the last three she worked on, chances are your maid ran out of time and didn't replace the water glasses from the last guest. Instead, she probably wiped them down with the dirty towels left lying on the bathroom counter.

THINK LOCALLY
Once again, using an 800 number to reserve a car may not get you the lowest rate or the best car. Check out rentalcars.com for great comparison prices at the local level. Another tip: Rent a car on a Saturday. Why? Many cars suddenly become available on Saturday when customers who reserved them for the weekend don't show up.

TAKE PICTURES
Since you probably travel with a digital camera, why not put it to good use? Walk around the rental car and look for dings and dents. If you see any, activate the camera's date-and-time option to stamp on each photo, and snap a few shots. Show them to a rental-agency employee, and get his or her full name. This will take all of five minutes. Later, if the company claims you banged up the car (and these repair charges can be draconian), you'll have proof the damage was preexisting.

GET YOUR OWN GAS
In some cases, rental-car companies will charge you north of $6 a gallon to fill up your tank when you return the car. Save some real money -- and time -- by going to gasbuddy.com, which lists the cheapest gas stations along your route, and then fill up the tank yourself. Since time is also money, traffic.com will get you customized traffic information for your trip, and the info can even be sent to your cell phone.

Take Naked Pictures of Your Girlfriend

2007-04-09T06:18:00.000-07:00

The nudie picture is a time-honored tradition that dates back to the crude cave drawings of our primitive brothers. And now, thanks to the availability of digital cameras, it's within reach of the average Joe. But how do you get from seeing your mental vision to actually having skin shots of your girl that are masturbation-ready? Follow our lead, you budding artiste you.

1) Make Sure You're Both on the Same Page
Before you invest in expensive lights, a tripod and a beret, you need to make sure your girl is down with the program. "The prospect of having someone take naked photos of you is a little like your first foray into anal sex—it's a little scary and it might be painful," says pro photog Paul Sarkis, who has taken many a naked picture. "It's your responsibility to make sure it's a good experience that she'll want to repeat. If she's worried that she might end up on myexgirlfriend.com, assure her that she'll get to keep the negatives or memory card. Asking someone to bare their bod for you requires a level of trust that you've got to earn."

2) Set the Mood
So you've convinced her posing nude will benefit world peace. Good show! Your next step is to put her In the Moment so you can create your best work: sexy music (ask her what she likes), soft lighting (candlelight or pink lightbulbs work best—anything else is unflattering) and the pièce de résistance, a theme. "Go for the classic tub shot," advises Dana Braverman of bootyparlor.com. "Think Marilyn Monroe, 1950s pinups, glamour girls. Every woman looks fun and sexy in a bubble bath, and a hot, steamy bath is also a great way to relax your girl and get her camera-ready."

3) Don't Be Sleazy
Though the inner cigar-chomping pig will be dying to get out, curb the urge—it's just going to turn her off. Says Connie, "I had a boyfriend take pictures of me in a schoolgirl outfit, and once we started getting into it, he was all about the porno 'Oh yeah!'s and 'Suck it!'s. After a while I realized it was more about him than it was me, which is fine, but I feel like I was mislead. Initially, I thought he wanted pictures of me, but judging from all the shots, all he wanted was pictures of his johnson in my face." In other words, save the porno action for another time when you're both seasoned at this.
4) Get Her into It
That's not to say, of course, that porno doesn't have its place in this experiment. "What we suggest is playing her favorite X-rated movie in the background—what better way to loosen up?" asks Sheila Rae, proprietrix of erosboutique.com. "Not only will it turn her on, but it'll give her inspiration for posing. And if she gets really taken by it, sex toys are always great fun—and great photo props." Better yet, join in with her for a little while before stepping back behind the camera. Then everyone wins!

5) Show Your Appreciation
You're getting close with your lens, you're translating the images in your head into reality, you're ignoring your flash, you're following her lead. What are you forgetting? Positive reinforcement will only encourage your subject, as Mitch found out. "I'll be blunt—it made me hard," he says. "And the more aroused I got, the more she teased. After a while it wasn't even about the camera anymore, and we wound up having amazing sex…though the shots I took of her afterward were pretty awesome, too." Spoken like a true pro.

6) What to Do with the Evidence
Though you might be tempted to show the fruits of your labors off to everyone you meet like a proud father sharing shots of his kids, a word to the wise: Don't. "I once went to a wedding where the bride and groom had set out an album at the reception that was filled with naked photos of themselves. It was kinda cool that they were willing to share such an intimate side of themselves with their closest friends, but lots of people just felt like that they didn't need to see that," says Sarkis. "I'd say that unless your friends are regular witnesses to your naked frolicking, naked photos are something that should stay between partners." Or between your palms, if you catch our drift.

Grey’s Anatomy Star Kate Walsh

2007-04-09T06:05:00.000-07:00

On TV, Kate Walsh is a sexually charged, romantically confused, fiercely intelligent surgeon. But TV isn’t real life.... In real life, she’s not a surgeon.

Kate Walsh can’t understand why her ass is so damn hot. It’s Manhattan in the 1990s, and Walsh’s breakthrough role as Grey’s Anatomy’s Dr. Addison Montgomery-Shepherd is a decade away. For now, she’s just a struggling waitress on a first date, riding in a BMW 5 Series, and unfamiliar with one of the newest features in luxury cars. “When you don’t know what a seat warmer is or that you’re sitting on one, how do you tell a guy you’re out with for the first time that your ass is burning up?”

Bimmer Man had superb tickets to Così fan tutte at the Metropolitan Opera, which is why Walsh—an opera fanatic—stuck it out, even when her date began taking bizarre liberties. “I get into the car, and the first thing this guy does is spray me with perfume,” says Walsh, laughing. “I don’t even know where it came from. Maybe it belonged to the last woman he killed.”

Today, Walsh has a BMW with heated seats of her own, and she can buy her own perfume, thank you. Dressed in layered lacy camisoles, a denim skirt, and knee-high Christian Louboutin boots the color of a Pacific sunset, the 39-year-old Walsh looks younger in person than she does as the romantically tormented—and tormenting—neonatologist she plays on TV. Her ivory skin is smoother, her cheekbones are more chiseled, and her features—that fiery red hair, those icy blue eyes—are much softer than those of her preternaturally unflappable character who has loved (and let go of) two of prime time’s most dominant McAlpha males. Across the table at Puran’s Restaurant, in the hip but discreet L.A. neighborhood of Los Feliz (where she owns a two-bedroom home that her recent success has helped her to buy and now renovate), Walsh is warm, friendly, inviting, and endearingly kooky. She is far more interested in learning about her dinner companion than she is in talking about herself. It’s not because Walsh prefers to be hidden, but rather that she possesses a quality increasingly rare in the solipsistic world that is Hollywood: inquisitiveness. kateinline1_1.jpg

“I’m curious about everything in life, and lately I’ve been obsessed with my own mortality and the very real notion that life is short,” says Walsh. One reason for that is her encroaching 40th birthday, in October. Another has chased her since the death of her father, an Irish immigrant who later became a union leader (her mother is Italian), when she was 22. “That was the first hit I had of ‘Oh my God, it ends.’ ” That awareness of the fragility of life propels her need to get everything in—to travel and read and explore and cook and drive fast cars (she recently bought a 1985 Aston Martin)—yet she is trying at the same time to figure out a way to slow down. “I feel torn between having the time of my life and wanting very serious things, like a surplus of love for a family and all that,” says Walsh. “But what’s in front of me right now is work. Often, I think it would have been so great if this success had happened when I was 27 or 28, but then again, I wouldn’t have had the maturity back then to deal with it and not end up in rehab.”

Walsh can’t remember a time when she didn’t work. At 14, she manned the cash register at a Burger King in Tucson, Arizona, where she moved with her mother, stepfather, and four older brothers and sisters (two of each) after her parents divorced (the family spent its first 11 years in San Jose, California). Before that, her stepdad, a prison psychologist, paid her $5 a page to type up psychological profiles of inmates he treated. And in the past several years, she has worked regularly, if not recognizably, as an actress in both TV—as Drew Carey’s girlfriend on The Drew Carey Show, for which she plumped up with a fat suit—and films, like Under the Tuscan Sun, in which, coincidentally, she played the lesbian lover of Grey’s cast mate Sandra Oh.

But it’s her testicle-torquing turn as Patrick Dempsey’s cuckolding wife that has seared her into our consciousness. Originally, her role was written into only five episodes, introduced in the first season’s finale, in May 2005, as a noirish, wavy-haired, scarlet-lipped vixen in black Prada heels, the heartless siren who dared to cheat on McDreamy and was now singing her song to lure him away from Meredith Grey, the show’s title character. “I was aggressive and catty and witty,” she says. “It was fun.” inlinequote.jpg Fun, yes, and convincing. So much so that Walsh’s tough-talking trollop proved too tantalizing to let go, and the show’s producers decided to extend her role. Good thing, too, as the episodes she had recently filmed for a new sitcom called The Men’s Room never made it to the airwaves. “My last job before Grey’s was playing a transvestite Las Vegas showgirl on CSI,” she remarks. “Let’s just say I was pleasantly surprised with the news.”

Walsh adapted easily to the pressures of working with a talented ensemble cast on the hottest, most successful set in television. Asked for her reaction to the blowup over Grey’s cast mate Isaiah Washington’s antigay remarks, she insists there has been “no fallout on the set, really,” but she can’t seem to hide her anger at the distraction. “We’re plowing through and working really hard and leaving it up to the powers that be. It was definitely sad. It’s annoying. And it eclipsed our Golden Globes win, which I was upset about.”

Despite the distractions, Walsh soldiers on, as she has always done when life hasn’t abided her desires. As a tomboyish little girl, all she wanted was a set of walkie-talkies. Instead, her parents gave her a CB radio. Her handle was Katie-Kat, a childhood nickname. “I was in the fourth grade talking to truckers,” she said. “I loved it.”

In high school, she tried out to be a song leader, which is something like a cheerleader but with more dancing and less athleticism—“Sort of like what the Laker Girls do,” she says. For the audition, Walsh dressed in a gold leotard and tights, rubbed her body from head to toe with gold powder, and sang “Twilight Zone,” a 1982 demi-hit from the Dutch hard-rock band Golden Earring. Walsh had the lyrics down, but for reasons she still can’t explain, her body froze. “I did the same dance move over and over for the entire song, and the judges just stared at me.” Walsh didn’t make song leaders, no surprise. But she did make the shot-put team, and even earned a junior varsity letter. “That’s when I learned my strength lay in hurling heaving, massive balls.”

Walsh began her acting career studying at the Piven Theatre Workshop, in Chicago. It was in the Windy City where she made lifelong friends with screenwriter and director Adam McKay, who later introduced her to Will Ferrell. (The three of them worked together in the 2005 comedy Kicking & Screaming.) She continued on to New York with the hope of doing theater and independent films, but steady TV work determined her career choices, while sometimes undermining her romantic ones.

“I need to do with relationships what I’ve done with work,” says Walsh, who admits to having leaped into not-so-appropriate liaisons as an escape from the stress of her day job. “In the past, I’ve been work, work, work—and then I’m done and ’cause I’m tired and desperate, I’m like…YOU!” she shouts out, as though grasping for the nearest warm male body. The result has been passionate unions with men who weren’t good for her but were “too tempting and snaky and delicious and sexy” to resist. In some ways, these passionate mismatches served their purpose for Walsh. “In the past, I think I’ve looked to men to slow me down and help me rest,” she says. “Picking people who weren’t so available allowed me to be selfish.”

But Walsh realizes that perhaps she wasn’t the only one who was being selfish. Men have often had difficulty with her commitment to work, and her most recent serious relationship came to an end shortly after she secured her part on Grey’s Anatomy. Often, she has found herself landing a consuming role, she claims, only to have the man in her life say, “Hey, I know you’re an actress, but you’re really going to do this?” kateinline2_1.jpg

Not so ironically, perhaps, Walsh seeks in a man the same characteristics that are just beginning to emerge within herself: consistency, compassion, and the ability to be present in the now. “I’m a bit of a late bloomer,” she says, although it’s clear that, until now, Walsh simply hadn’t been ready for the constancy of a domestic partnership. “I realize it’s a juvenile fear, but I haven’t wanted to be in a relationship where I’m doing a downward dog and some guy is just like, ‘I hate you. I hate it when you do whatever that thing is that you do that I hate.’ ”

These days, though, she looks forward to being hated, loved, and everything in between. She slips into a stream-of-consciousness ramble about the perfect romance: “It’s a weird dance, when we’re in the same physical space but doing our own thing, and I’m here and he’s there and sometimes we’re madly and passionately f--king and other times I’m like, ‘I don’t even know who you are.’ But that’s real and you get through it and you keep going and you love him, but sometimes you don’t, and you want to have sex with him, but if not, that’s okay too, because in a little while, an hour or a day or a few days later, you will.”

And this future as-yet-unknown guy whom the willowy 5-foot-9 Walsh will mostly love but sometimes hate doesn’t have to be an Adonis.

“I don’t need someone with a hot body. He can be fat or overweight and have a belly. It’s very much about style and substance and humor, interest, curiosity, and being really smart.” And literate. When it comes to books, Walsh is an unabashed Anglophile and pores over works written by modern British authors both dead (Joseph Conrad, Evelyn Waugh) and alive (Ian McEwan is her current favorite).

As Grey’s winds down its third season, Walsh finds the boundaries between herself and her character beginning to blur, perhaps a bit more than feels entirely comfortable. “With an hour-long drama, you start playing a little closer to who you are, because the writers hear you and are around you and they start writing for you,” she says, explaining how her character became more vulnerable and complex.

When first preparing for her role of Derek Shepherd’s wayward wife, says Walsh, “I remember wondering, Why did she cheat? Why? Why? Why?” But later, as Addison becomes more three-dimensional and more human, it becomes evident. “She was lonely in her marriage,” says Walsh. “Without it, she’s now lonely at Seattle Grace.”

This is where art becomes a little too much like life for Walsh. “Here I am working 13-, sometimes 16-hour days, and trying to date and it’s so new to me to date more than one person at a time. Sometimes I feel like, What am I doing? Am I becoming my character, or is my character becoming me?” says Walsh, who hopes the show’s writers settle her into a happy relationship sometime soon. “I’m starting to get a little superstitious here. I definitely identify with my character in that, romantically at least, this is not where I thought I’d be at 39.”

Still, finally becoming known as an actress (rather than just working as one) and, yes, being so busy, has forced Walsh to reset her priorities. She no longer looks to men to relax and relieve her stress, and often rejects wild nights out in favor of quiet evenings at home alone, drinking wine in front of the fireplace in her flannel pj’s, a good book in her hands, and her dog, Lucy, and cats, Billy and Pablo, by her side. “Part of me is like a 19-year-old boy who wants to go out and party,” says Walsh, “but there’s another part of me that’s 80 and needs to go home before I break.”

Understanding such things about herself has prepared Walsh for what she hopes is her next big thing: love. “I love my life, but I’m also eager to share it. I’m a total romantic, but also reticent and skeptical, ’cause I think some people have a lot of flowery rhetoric and love to write a 16-page e-mail describing everything they’re thinking about you, but it’s more about their own proselytizing and not necessarily knowing how to actually show up.”

And she doesn’t mind if the man who finally does show up is carrying along some personal baggage. “You don’t want to date a guy who’s 39 or 40 and hasn’t been in a committed relationship before and doesn’t have a romantic history,” she says. “Because that’s the guy who sprays perfume on you and puts the seat warmers on.”

Source: bestlifeonline.com

Famous Quotes To Live By

2007-04-09T06:01:00.000-07:00

Great men have lived before us and their experience should be a blueprint for our future actions. Here are ten quotes from extraordinary men who have accomplished extraordinary things and who have something to teach us about life, wealth, and character.

1. "Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal." -Henry Ford

If you remain focused, problems don't matter. Let's say you're considering expanding your company -- are you going to be deterred by the fact that you don't have enough employees to cover all the bases? Of course not, it's just a minor predicament. Keep your eyes on what you want to achieve -- the great innovator tells us -- and it will fly you forward on its own. Hurdles will be nothing but illusions.

2. "Be true to your work, your word, and your friend." -Henry David Thoreau

Who better than a famous humanist philosopher to tell us that loyalty always reaps benefits? Whether in your business or personal life, standing by your word, ideas, and comrades will always earn you the admiration and respect of others. Quid pro quo: if you're nice to others, others will be nice to you.

3. "Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly." -Robert Francis Kennedy

While it's true that we must always calculate the risks before venturing into the unknown, Bobby Kennedy reminds us that if you don't try anything, you won't get anything. Risk big, win big. The Wright brothers knew they were facing death when they tested their flying prototypes. But where would our society be without airplanes nowadays? Aim higher than you think you can achieve and you will surpass yourself.

4. "The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing." -Socrates

That Greek philosopher was one deep dude. Don't be afraid to acknowledge your ignorance and learn new things. People admire those who admit their mistakes or who feel no shame in asking about what they don't know. You don't know anything, realize it and take the necessary steps to rectify it. Enroll in continuing education courses and ask your colleagues when you need further clarifications; check your pride at the door.

5. "Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it." -Dwight D. Eisenhower

This man achieved the highest military rank and became President of the United States because he mastered this art form. The best way to handle people is with a word of encouragement and a smile. Be kind toward subordinates; they work well when they're happy.

6. "The buck stops with the guy who signs the checks." -Rupert Murdoch

The media mogul offers a lesson in practicality. He who has money has the final word over just about anything. You can get the best table at a fully booked restaurant, get out of a traffic ticket, or get a massage the way you really want it. There might be rules and laws, protocols to follow, and authority figures to respect, but none of this matters if you have money to throw around.

7. "Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great." -Mark Twain

Twain might have been a popular author and humorist, but the man knew how to turn out a quote. In essence, he means: think big and encourage others to do the same -- you'll be appreciated for it. A charismatic leader will make you believe that you are destined for an exalted life as well. So listen only to the advice of people whose judgment you trust and by the same token, go out of your way to praise others.

8. "Most people give up just when they're about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touchdown." -H. Ross Perot

Although he's certainly driven this one home, Perot's point is to always go the extra mile, as you never know how close you really are to success. Is that why he didn't run for President in the last elections? Uhh... Nevertheless, if you constantly push yourself, victory might be closer than you think. For example, should space exploration have been canceled after the Apollo 1 disaster?

9. "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." -Aristotle

Basketball great Shaquille O'Neal recently paraphrased it as: "Excellence is not a singular act, but a habit. You are what you repeatedly do." Who wants to argue with Shaq? Don't be satisfied with mediocrity; aspire to brilliance and do so continuously. If Shaq didn't give his 110% every game, he'd be the tallest used car salesman in America. Always strive for your best and let that be your calling card.

10. "The way to get things done is not to mind who gets the credit for doing them." -Benjamin Jowett

A 19th century English scholar who became famous for his translations of Plato's work, Jowett was also a man of the cloth. He suggests here a lesson in humility: Don't be self-centered -- teamwork always achieves more. The New England Patriots are what they are because they unite their strength behind the pursuit of a common purpose. The objective is more important than the celebration of your person.

source: quoteland.com

Are you single... tooo long?

2007-04-09T05:49:00.000-07:00

In the hustle and bustle of this crazy world, we all crave a little companionship. Some guys, however, seem to be better at finding it than others. There are those who can reel in the women with ease, while others struggle like amateur anglers using cotton tied to a drinking straw.
Being single for too long can have some profound ill effects, and not just on your libido. Fly solo for an extended period of time and you'll go beyond just losing your game -- you'll turn you into a socially contorted creature that would make Frankenstein seem like Brad Pitt.
If you've been single for a while and find that you're always struggling to get a date or can't even make it to a second one, there could be a reason behind it. Here are 10 signs that you've been single for far too long.
Number 10
You're out of touch with dating
For starters, you cannot remember when Valentine's Day is. You're definitely out of the game when February 14th rolls around and you're confused at the sudden influx of pink and red. Valentine's Day is a good marker by which to gauge your period of singlehood because it's a holiday we need women to remind us about. If it has been really long -- if your last Valentine's experience involved the foreign kid with braces in the second grade -- then you need more than a brush-up on your romance skills.
Another indication that you're out of touch with the dating world comes when you take your dating tips from movies like Swingers ("You're money and you don't even know it") and About a Boy. Let's not forget that these are romantic comedies. If you're taking notes while everyone else is laughing, it's a problem.
Number 9
There are no women in your life
Not only have you stopped dating, your life is devoid of any female companionship whatsoever. You have no female friends. Colleagues of the opposite sex seem to avoid you. Your friends won't even talk to you about women anymore, either because they're embarrassed to or they figure you're so out of the loop that you'll have nothing meaningful to contribute to the discussion.
If the only female relationship you have is with your mother, you need to change that -- quick. The influence of a maternal figure over too long a period of time can be very detrimental, particularly to the chronic bachelor. As far- fetched as it may seem, you may come to unwittingly rate the women you meet on how they measure up to your mama. If you find yourself looking for a love interest that wears floral blouses, has a '70s perm and will tuck you in at night... seek help.
Number 8 You're desperate
Loneliness is a terrible thing, and desperation is its ugly child. There are some key signs that desperation has taken hold of your mind like a giant mutant squid. An extreme example could be that you're considering putting in for a mail-order bride. Whatever you may tell yourself, there is nothing chivalrous about joining in matrimony with an unseen woman that makes her living collecting pennies from wishing wells in a country ravaged by civil war.
Of course, there are other, more subtle signs of desperation. Owning a blow-up doll is definitely one, as is referring to it as your "companion" or "life partner." You know you've truly hit rock bottom when your family from the Southern parts suggests that your cousin Lurleen is still single, and you start to see the logic behind such an arrangement.
Number 7 You don't care about etiquette
The influence of a woman is one of the only things that keeps men presentable. In the absence of one, you will see your sense of etiquette slowly disappear, like an asteroid into a black hole.
It starts with a general disheveled appearance, then dining manners become a thing of the past. Things escalate from there, and soon you're eating like a literal pig -- quickly and without utensils, accompanied by a chorus of bodily noises like farts, burps or both at the same time. Not that you need food or any other props to repulse the opposite sex. When in the company of females, you have no discretion when scratching your crotch or readjusting your underpants -- sometimes using both hands.
Number 6 You're addicted to porn
There's a good chance that you need to get out more when your primary form of entertainment is pornography. There's cause for concern when you get upgraded to VIP status at the local sex shop or adult video center, and all new arrivals are reserved for you under "Gold Status." If said new arrivals are the opening step in a weekend celebration that involves breaking out the "Pleasure Box," complete with lotions, pumps and inflatable "companion," it's time to re-evaluate your priorities.
A porn obsession becomes especially dangerous when it begins to poison the rest of your life. It should be worrying when you take to referring to everyone in your office by porn star-style names, like calling Tricia in accounting "Trish the Dish."
Another sign that your viewing habits are out of whack comes when you start regarding porn stars like Asia Carrera as normal actresses, in the same category as Hilary Swank and Kate Winslet. If you hear yourself bringing up Jenna Jameson in a discussion of those overlooked by the Academy, then your porn obsession is obvious to everyone but you.
Number 5 You're looking to science
You've given up on finding a real female companion, and are now looking to the world of science to provide you with one. You follow any developments in the fields of bioengineering and virtual reality with great interest. In fact, you may have even sketched out some of your own blueprints you drew on a cocktail napkin.
You may not be conscious of this secret wish, but it's always in the back of your mind. And you really need to shake it, because it's just not healthy.
Number 4 People think you're gay
Because you don't hang around women and there's no evidence that you have any interest in them, people start believing that you swing the other way. Maybe you've noticed that a usually foul-mouthed homophobic colleague is rather PC in your presence. Or maybe your buddy has started bringing his gay cousin George over all the time, and people seem to always be prodding you two to chat or leaving you in rooms alone together.
Don't get angry at them for jumping to conclusions. Since you spend all your time preparing get-togethers with buddies and none of it on dates with women, what do you expect them to think?
Number 3 You read too much into things
Your unfortunate addiction to pornography has shrouded you in a fantasy life where all women desire you. Every innocent encounter with a female becomes loaded with meaning. When the chick at the drive-through window hands you your burger and fries and says, "Have a nice day," you hear, "I want you now."
When the girl in the elevator takes a second glance at the piece of food on your lip, you read it as a soul-searching gaze of passion and start daydreaming of an erotic rendez-vous in the broom closet. Even the bag lady on the corner seems to purse her lips at your stature.
Every kind gesture and polite nod has you believing that love is in the cards. But take a look at your hand and you'll see that you're really holding the Joker.
Number 2 You're awkward around women
A good reason why you have no relationships with women is because you have no clue how to behave around them. You stare at women, and when they catch you doing so, you believe that they're not just flattered, but aroused (another unfortunate offshoot of your pornography addiction). When you actually string together a few dates with a girl, you blow it by doing something weird like buying her lingerie on the third date (you've been out of the dating world for so long that you've forgotten the proper sequence of a relationship).
If all that's not weird enough, you're mean to women. You'll be cruel to them in front of your friends just to show the guys that it's not that you can't pick up, but that you don't care about chicks. One on one, however, your true desperation will come out, and you'll be unusually nice -- sketching them out all the more.
Number 1 You find faults in all women
Another unfortunate side effect of being single for too long is excessive pickiness. You find faults with every woman you come across, and most of your criticisms have no basis in reality. You seek out ridiculous and microscopic flaws in even the most beautiful women: uneven teeth, wide pores, an elongated nose, or elbows that look like they might chafe you.
Maybe you've deluded yourself into thinking that you really are a superlative catch. But it's likely that you're now so frightened of pursuing women that you use artificial pickiness as an excuse not to do so.

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If any of these symptoms apply to you, not only do you need help, but you needed it six months ago. You've been alone too long and it's taking its toll on your physical and mental state. Read these signs for what they are and get back into the game. You need a hot injection of womanly love... stat!

Kinky Things She Loves (But Won't Tell You)

2007-04-09T05:34:00.000-07:00

Him: Nothing?
Her: No. Nothing.
Him: How come? I touched it like you told me to.
Her: Well, what if you, um, bit it a little?
Him: You mean like this…?
Her: Ouch! Cut it out! Let’s just forget about it.

Hit a sexual slump? Don’t worry, it happens. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, per se; it just means that you probably need to work on spicing things up in the bedroom (or in the kitchen, or on the floor, or in the shower, or against the wall, or in the car, or in an elevator, or in the stairwell).
Most women need more than a “wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am” approach to sex. They need excitement, passion, heat, and… kink? Some women, however, may be unsure how to approach the subject, simply because “nice” girls aren’t supposed to like whips and chains. But you’d be surprised how many of them do!
Next time the two of you are lying in bed and you’re contemplating whether or not to fake a headache, try asking her if she might like “something different.” Here are seven kinky things your gal might be fantasizing about, but is probably too shy to tell you.
1- Stroke It
Masturbation is a healthy part of life, so why not share it with your partner? If you’re not too shy, put your guard down and let her watch as you get acquainted with yourself. The whole voyeurism element has a certain mystique that might appeal to her. The big perk for you is that after she watches you please yourself, she might get a few new ideas or tips on how she can improve the way she pleases you.
2- Fender Bender
Anal sex is a century-old position, but it tends to have a negative stigma attached to it. This might be why some couples have yet to venture into this unknown territory, and why some women might be a little shy when it comes to suggesting it. You can start slowly by spooning -- the position in which you both lie on your sides, so that her back is facing you. This is a very slow and intimate way of initiating anal sex. Once you’ve mastered this, you can graduate to full-fledged, passionate anal sex (you know, the kind you see in movies).
3- Tough Love
Is she a control freak? Then maybe she’d like to try a little S&M. This is the practice by which you become submissive and let her boss you around with a few props, such as whips and handcuffs. It might get a little painful at times, so before the hot-wax and nipple-pinching ritual begins, make sure you’ve established a code word, like “zebra” or “mac and cheese,” so she knows when to stop the torture (I mean, the titillating, sensual love-making). You may be wondering, “What’s in it for me?” Well, you get to help her live out a lifelong fantasy, and you make her feel happy and secure in your relationship in the process. Plus, you get to see her in a hot leather outfit.
4- Gadgets and Gizmos
Sex toys are a fun and exciting way to put some heat back in the bedroom. You can take baby steps and begin with heated and flavored massage oils, then try applying some orgasm-enhancing lubricant to her genitalia, and finally, you can use a vibrator on her.
Once you’re both feeling a little more adventurous, you can tackle the world of dildos and anal probes and beads. Use them on her, let her use them on you, take turns, or find a way to use them on each other at the same time. Regardless of how you do it, this bit of kink is sure to kick-start a heated sexual frenzy.
5- Curtain Call
If you dabbled in theater in high school, you now have the chance to star in your own show. Role-playing might be on her “Must Try” list of kinky fantasies. Map out interesting scenarios or pick real-life sexy couples to model yourselves after, then grab some fun costumes and let your imaginations guide you.
You might feel a little silly at first, but after a few “rehearsals,” you’ll probably start to like it. Some characters, like her French maid or your sultry Latin cabana boy, might start to make regular appearances in the bedroom. You might also like to tape this little production; you can watch it together afterward over some popcorn.
6- Shall We Dance?
It’s no secret that most guys would love to see their significant other do a private sexy dance for them. Some couples even go as far as to have poles installed in their bedrooms. But have you ever thought about how you would fare dancing with that pole? I bet she has.
Why not surprise her with a sexy little dance of your own? Throw on one of her favorite songs, and just go for it! Feel free to do a little practice dance in front of the mirror when you’re alone. And don’t worry about making a fool of yourself -- she’s likely to be so touched that you went through the trouble that she won’t even notice your two left feet.
7- Three’s A Crowd
For the more adventurous, thrill-seeking woman, adding someone new into the mix might be interesting. That’s right -- having a threesome isn’t only your fantasy. Some women have also entertained the idea. For those of you who are deterred by the idea of sharing your woman with another man, or just by the idea of being in bed with another man, don’t worry because another female fantasy that might come into play here is her desire to be with another woman.
Something important to note -- before you start running a list of her friends through your head as possible candidates -- is that threesomes might be dangerous for a relationship. So, make sure you discuss it thoroughly beforehand and you both understand what the boundaries and limits of this romp are.

Source: Askmen.com

Cigar Etiquette

2007-03-31T09:24:00.000-07:00

The courteous smoker knows that even though smoking cigars may be a great source of pleasure in their life, not everyone enjoys the taste or smell of a quality cigar. The importance of not offending others while enjoying a good stogie cannot be stressed enough, particularly considering that the fervor of anti-smoking campaigns is still in full swing. It is therefore especially important remember that while smoking a cigar it can be very difficult to gauge the smell or discomfort that others may be experiencing. Also keep in mind that clothing, furniture, and even the walls will build up a respectable residue from cigar smoke. For these reasons it is exceptionally important to learn to become a considerate and courteous cigar smoker, so that each cigar may be enjoyed with a clean conscience.
When living with non-smokers find a well-ventilated area of the residence where both smoker and non-smoker accommodated. It may be tempting for a smoker to lock himself or herself away in an office or bedroom, but this is not likely to a good idea unless it has a window. Not only is the smoker more likely to inhale dangerous levels of the toxic air from his or her own cigar, but ultimately this is not likely to separate the non-smokers from the smoke adequately to provide for their comfort. If at all possible, go outside to smoke. Put a comfortable chair to relax in on the porch, or make arrangements in any other open area where smoking can be comfortably enjoyed. It is important, particularly in the case of children and the elderly, to get as far away as possible from non-smokers. Remember that cigar smoke contains many carcinogens and irritants that non-smokers have no protection against.
The courteous and respectful smoker will only light up where legally permitted when it is necessary to smoke a cigar away from home. Any bar, restaurant, or hotel where smoking is prohibited should be maintained by both smoker and non-smoker alike as a smoke-free zone. The courteous cigar smoker will also make sure of the preference of those around when he or she is planning to light up in a designated smoking section. When with someone who does not smoke, or whom might dislike cigar smoke, ask his or her permission. Try to be as considerate as possible about smoking, such as striving to make sure the smoke isn't wafting in the direction of someone who is bothered by it. If possible, sit near an open window or space, if air is being drawn away from the crowd by it. Pay attention to whether the air conditioner or other air currents are moving the smoke in the direction of other people. It's also polite to check to see whether anyone around is eating. Secondhand smoke from a discourteous smoker is guaranteed to ruin the meal of a non-smoker.
The cigar ash is also a concern of the courteous cigar smoker. When smoking away from home, make certain to dispose of ashes in a safe manner, such as an appropriate container. Always keep in mind that ashes can easily blow away--lower quality cigars are especially prone to this. Safeguard against ash blowing near or onto other people, and don't litter with ashes.

About the Author:
Richard Brown is an author for several well-known online magazines, on shopping and products and product tips topics.

Body And Mind - Sex And Stress

2007-03-31T09:21:00.000-07:00

Have you ever wondered that the role of testosterone in enhancing libido and enhancing erections in men cannot be its only role? There are many other roles and biological effects of testosterone other than its known presence in bodily fluids. It has been blamed for excess hair loss (medical name-Androgenetic alopecia) although the molecular steps of hair loss in men and women are not fully understood.
This hormone is secreted in the testes of males and the ovaries of females, although men produce more of it. Various kinds of mental behavior are not only subject to influence by environment and genetics but also day-to-day hormonal changes. For example, stress can also inhibit testosterone synthesis and hence lead to decreased levels of it secretion.
Some goods news has recently emerged. Recent studies have shown that to keep stress at bay you should frequently engage in penetrative penal-vaginal sex. Unfortunately many people from all walks of life find that under stress, they do not have the desire to have sex and even creates undesirable side effects such as sexual dysfunction.
A brilliant study (Biological Psychology, volume 71, page 214) showed that sex but more preferably intercourse is much more effective in combating stress then other sexual activity such as masturbation. As intercourse is more linked with less blood pressure and less stress this cause’s better psychological and physiological function. Also orgasms for women during penile-vaginal intercourse are better for physiological behavior but not so much for orgasm during other sexual activities. As some of us are nervous about speaking in public or stage fright as its commonly called are being recommended to have sex (not on the stage of course) for the stress calming effect.
It is thought when a couple makes love the neurotransmitter oxytocin released relaxes the body and decreases blood pressure hence also preventing stress. Oxytocin is secreted by the brain and other organs including the ovaries and testes. It is believed that oxytocin is significantly decreased during the stress and infusion of the hormone relieves stress in animal models thereby suggesting a role in regulating some physiological responses to stress.
In the light of such elegant studies and lack of public stress programmes such as screening by government agencies aimed at improving recognition, treatment, and reducing stress and depression primary prevention has become necessary. As stress and depression has become a common disorder with serious many unwanted side effects both in men and women, penetrative penal-vaginal sex could be a primary stress prevention strategy.

About the Author:
N. Singh, PhD. is the editor of http://www.eStressHelp.com. Please feel free to use this article with proper referencing and outgoing link.

Buying Lingerie For Her

2007-03-31T09:15:00.000-07:00

Most men know nothing about picking out lingerie, which is understandable because it can be confusing. What type of lingerie to buy, what size, what color - how is a man to know? Here is a little guide to help you when choosing lingerie for that special someone.
There are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Remember that you will not be wearing this - she will and you should go out with the intent on getting something she will like. If she is not into lacey, tiny, see-through teddies, chances are if you buy that, she will not be in much of a mood to wear it and you may never see it. So keep what she likes in mind.
If you do not know, check out her nightgown/lingerie drawer before you leave. Check for material type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and most importantly, size. She may be flattered if she wears a large and you get her a small, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you may find yourself in trouble. Avoid anything that says "control" on the label. Those items are used to firm and flatten tummys and rears and she would probably not appreciate receiving them as a gift.
Another thing to remember is if the store offers to wrap the lingerie let them. Dainty lingerie will look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from your cousin's birthday. Presentation is part of the package with lingerie. Also, if you are uncomfortable in the store, check out online stores that sell lingerie. You can always start at Victoria's Secret, but most major department stores like Macys and Nordstroms also sell lingerie. Final note - remember to keep your receipt just in case it is the wrong style, size, or color.
Now, what type of lingerie is available? Just about anything you can think of! Ask yourself what the occasion is. Is this to let her know you love her? If so, something crotchless or see-through probably will not send that message. But, if it is for Valentine's Day or your anniversary, something a little more risqué might be appreciated. Bras alone have many different styles including push up, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded.
If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out what she has in her drawer beforehand and definitely make note of the size - of both the bra and panties. Most places sell at least one pair of panties that match each bra, but some will sell several so you can mix and match. It will help to know what type of panties she likes to wear too - thongs, briefs, or high cut bikini.
When it comes to sleepwear, it can be just as confusing. One type of sleepwear is babydoll pajamas. They usually have very thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and are very short with matching panties. You will find most of these made out of silk or satin, materials that always make a woman feel good about herself. But, if she feels her breasts are too big or too small, or thinks her stomach is too big, you might want to avoid babydoll pajamas.
There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll pajamas, these are a little longer and a little better at concealing problem areas such as breasts, butt or stomach. They too are usually made of silk or satin.
Gowns are full-length versions of the babydoll. Many are see-through or lacey and can help put your woman in the mood. Babydolls, slips, chemises, and gowns may also come with a robe.
A pajama set might not sound too sexy, but if it is silky, and buttons up the front, it can make your woman feel very sexy, especially if she is a plus size (size 18 or larger). Boxer sets have become very popular lately. The tops are tight, with thin straps and usually a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with normal t-shirt tops.
If you are really looking for lingerie to spice up your love life, take a look at Frederick's of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over 50 years. They have a wide variety of garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one piece), crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings - items that may not be available at many stores that sell lingerie.
What type of lingerie you should get your love depends a lot on her self-esteem. Many big woman love sexy little teddies, but some will shy away from them, for fear of exposing too much of themselves. Most stores sell lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is really athletic, a boxer set might be something she would like. Thin women will look good in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.
When shopping for lingerie, try to keep in mind what she likes. If you purchase something similar to the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will probably make her happy. But, keep the receipt just in case!

About the Author:
Jessica Valentine is a successful writer and publisher interested in women’s apparel providing valuable tips and advice on finding sexy lingerie, lingerie fit, and lingerie buying guides for men. Read her most recent report, "Styles To Make You Look Like a Lingerie Model".

Yoga And Sex

2007-03-31T09:12:00.000-07:00

Kundalini Yoga-- This age old yoga practice is quite wary of other ancient religious practices for gaining elevated spiritual state. While most of the religious practices prefer ascetism and sexual abstinence as a way to uplift soul, Kundalini yoga considers carnal indulgence as a medium to increase self exploration. This practice of yoga lays great emphasis on leading a healthy sexual life.
Kundalini yoga suggests to “feel sex” instead of “merely performing sex.” According to this Yogic philosophy there could no better way to mutual exploration process than act of copulation. This yoga vehemently condemns the widespread connotation that sex is an impediment in attaining higher state of being.
Kundalini yoga practice is basically termed as fiery practice as it requires you to be very active. It doesn't help you in gaining increased level of sexual prowess but also contributes to your worldly success by providing you with required mental peace and energy. The concept of kundalini says that spinal sexual energy is potent enough to offer great mental strength and wisdom.
The energy associated with kundalini concept is said to be of most powerful kind that flows in an energy canal inside the body that is known as Shushumna. Along with it there exists an additional canal in men and women. In women this additional channel of energy is termed as “Pingala” while men possess “Ida” canal of energy.
The kudalini suggests male and his female partner to first attain equal level of energy before going for copulation. For that they are first directed to get indulged in various tantric yoga meditations and asanas that help them attain complete rejuvenation as well as higher level of being. And energy gained after undergoing these Tantric Yoga practices happens to be unmatchable. Equipped with incredible energy and elevated physical and mental state a couple could experience optimum sexual pleasure and mutual exploration.
The hallmark of kundalini Yoga lies in its philosophy of strong connection between carnal indulgence and spirituality. But many people find it too difficult to get accustomed with refraining from orgasm that is not a preferred kundalini practice. According to the concept avoiding orgasm could result in increased level of kundalini energy in the body.
Kundalini's way of masturbation results in great physical and mental relaxation. Like other yoga forms kundalini is also gaining world wide popularity. You can also opt for kundalini for above mentioned advantages, but I would suggest you to take up kundalini practices in consultation with an expert tantra yogi only.

About the Author:
The author writes about a number of different topics. For more information on yoga visit http://www.therealyoga.com/ and also visit the article pages: http://www.therealyoga.com/what-is-yoga/ and http://www.therealyoga.com/your-body-and-yoga/

Fast Cars, Super Cars

2007-03-31T09:08:00.000-07:00

For the rich and famous it seems to be a statement of success when they own the very expensive fast and super cars. These fast, super cars will usually be found in areas such as Hollywood, Las Vegas, or New York since these are the places where the rich and famous usually work and live. In other countries you might find royalty and upper members of government sporting these cars but few members of the working class will ever have the money to buy one.
Fast Cars, Super Cars – Looking At The Models
The exotic Ferrari Modena is a popular Ferrari model which offers a six speed transmission, a V8 engine, and will get about 11 to 16 mpg. With a price tag of $152,000, this car is capable of doing 189 mph and reaching 60 mph in 4.2 seconds.
One of the top of the line super cars, which is also a fast car, is the Lamborghini. The current Sypder is considered to be one of the most popular super cars available. Voted as the most beautiful car in the world, the Spyder sports a V10 which reaches a speed of 195 mph with the roof up and 191 mph with the roof down. It comes with a price tag of $195,000. Its lightweight aluminum frame allows the car to reach faster speeds and it can do a quarter mile in 12.2 seconds, reaching a speed of 122 mph.
If you want to come down a little closer to earth you might want to take a look at the Dodge Viper. It also offers a V10 which can reach speeds of 190 mph, will do 0-60 in 3.8 seconds, and a quarter mile in 11.9 seconds. The Viper is rated for 10 to 20 mpg and comes with a price tag of $80,000. This makes the Viper a super car which is a fast car with a more affordable price tag.
A never-ending classic super car is the Corvette which is put out by none other than Chevrolet. This American icon has been around for several years and continues to improve with age. Available in a coupe or convertible, you can choose from several color combinations. You also have the choice of a 6 or 7 liter engine, and the starting price is about $66,000. These cars have withstood the test of time and continue to be one of the most popular sport cars on the market today.

About the Author:
Gavin Drake is a self confessed "Petrol Head" and loves fast cars. He races in a number of championships in the U.K and runs Fast Cars Info.Com where fellow petrol heads can come chat, share photo's and catch up on the latest automotive news.

Restaurant Etiquette

2007-03-31T09:02:00.000-07:00

Patrons of a restaurant and employees of a restaurant both need to follow some simple rules of etiquette in order to make each dining experience more enjoyable for everyone.
When dining out at a restaurant it is important to for diners to use some common sense so as not to disrupt the meals of other diners. Restaurant patrons should also treat all restaurant employees fairly and with respect. On the other hand, anyone working at a restaurant should also do the best they can to serve their customers well.
A restaurant’s staff should always work hard to be as neat and clean as possible. When preparing a table for the next set of customers, the wait staff should take their time to thoroughly wipe off the tables (as well as chairs and benches when needed). Wait staff should also place the dining utensils and plates neatly on the table. At fancier restaurants, you will probably even have been instructed on a certain way of setting the table. Take the extra few moments to follow this protocol. Your customers will appreciate a clean and neat table.
As a customer, you should always do your best to arrive on time when you have made reservations at a restaurant. Please keep in mind that there are many other patrons that may be dining at the same locations that evening. If you realize that you are not able to keep your reservations or that you will be more than a few minutes late, call the restaurant to explain the situation. The restaurant staff will appreciate your honesty and thoughtfulness when you call.
If you are a server or hostess/host at a restaurant, you are likely to receive calls from time to time when a customer needs to change or cancel a reservation. Be patient and understanding when you receive one of these phone calls. Your customer may very well have a good reason as to why they will be late. Make every effort to still accommodate the customers if they will be arriving late to the restaurant. Do not treat the customers rudely or unfairly because they have arrived late. Also, if someone calls to cancel their reservations you must be polite. Things do often come up in life that are beyond our control. The customer has not purposely decided to make your shift difficult by canceling their reservation.
As a customer it is important to be considerate of other diners at the restaurant. If at all possible do not take your cell phone into the restaurant with you or place your phone on vibration mode so that it does not ring in the middle of the meal. Do not answer your phone unless necessary. This can be distracting to other customers at the restaurant and may be taking time away from a nice meal with your own family or friends. If your party that is dining is rather large, please do have an enjoyable time. But also do your best not to be too noisy and distracting to other customers. They will most likely show you the same consideration.
When you take your children out to a restaurant with you there will be times when they may get excited, bored or even cranky. Do what you can to teach your children good manners when eating out. Try to bring some crayons and a coloring book with you or other quiet activities to help your children to be on their best behavior.
Even at the best restaurants, there may be times when your food does not meet your satisfaction or is not exactly as you ordered. Perhaps there is a new cook who forgot to add or leave out a particular part of your meal. Maybe the waitress made an error when taking down your request. Sometimes the meal does not take as good as you would like. If you are not satisfied with your food, try to be polite when explaining this to your waiter/waitress.
Explain to your waitress (nicely) that your meal is not satisfactory. Do not be accusatory or rude. Try to carefully explain what you do not like about your meal. For example, perhaps you ordered your steak well done and it is too rare. Maybe you asked for the cooks to hold the peppers and onions on your cheese steak hoagie, only to discover onions and peppers. Calmly explain why you are not satisfied with your food.
Hopefully the restaurant will be able to help you feel better about the error with your order. They may offer to take back your meal in order to make it better for your tastes. If you do not want to wait for your meal to be prepared again, they may offer you a discount off your meal or a coupon on your next visit to the restaurant. Be reasonable when the restaurant tries to accommodate you when you are unhappy about your food.
Restaurant employees should always be kind when someone is not satisfied with their meal. Show the customer patience and respect. Do whatever you can to resolve the situation to the satisfaction of your customer. Also, if you are a cook at a restaurant, make every effort to provide customers with their request even if unusual or out of the ordinary. If they want their meal plain and do not want various items that you think “make the meal” accommodate the customer. Everyone has their own individual tastes as well as diets they like to follow.
Customers should always try to remember to thank your waitress or waiter before you leave the restaurant. If you see any of the other helpful employees of the restaurant, thank them or wish them a good day/evening as well. When leaving your tip, take into consideration the service you received. It is acceptable to leave a little less when service was not up to par. However, if you were well taken care of by the wait staff, try to leave a little higher of a tip if you can. On average the standard tip is 15-20% of the price of your meal.
If everyone follows a few simple tips at a restaurant, everyone is likely to have a good experience eating out. Happy Dining!

What’s In A Handshake?

2007-03-31T08:59:00.000-07:00

All over the globe, people greet each other in different ways. This is brought about by different cultures. Even the primitives of yesterdays down to the present tribal groups use greetings to show respect and acknowledgement of meeting one another.
The primitives show their hands as a gesture that they come in peace. A roman salute during the time of Julius Caesar is done with the right hand clenched in a fist and sharply drawn to the chest. Grasping each other’s forearm by the hand is also practiced then. In the western world, youngsters greet each other with a high five (at times with both hands). Soldiers greet their superiors with a snappy salute. The typical handshake among the general public is done with each other’s palms interlocking.
If you are traveling to different places, it is still best to check first what the local custom is with regards to the proper greeting procedure. It is better to do it correctly than to be sorry after doing it. There’s a saying: “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” Proper greeting or handshake best describes this expression.
To know the right greeting procedure, ask around the local circle. Your good intention might be interpreted as an insult and you know what follows thereafter, especially in places where you’re a visitor. This becomes more important if you’re a first timer to a particular country wherein you’re not familiar with the cultures.
There are incidences wherein a handshake accompanied by another gesture is interpreted in more ways than one. Take for example, a typical handshake done by some politicians. A common handshake accompanied by a grasp by the left hand to the right hand or to the right shoulder of the other person may have different meanings to some people. Some interpret it as being overly comfortable with the other person when in fact the politician hardly knows the person. Between close friends, this may be proper. But between two individuals who hardly know each other, this may mean otherwise.
The lesson here is to be reserved in your gesture. What is intended to be good might not be interpreted as such.
In the event that there is confusion on how the proper gesture in a locality is administered, it may be safer to throw a sincere smile instead of a handshake. Since a handshake is considered a type of body language, so is a smile. A smile almost always never fails in any culture around the world.
Local folks who extend their hands or greet first may also give you an idea of the way a greeting is administered in a certain place. Duplicating what they do or simply returning the favor can be safely assumed to be the proper way a greeting should be done in that place.
Some athletes who have strong hands are cautious in shaking hands because they fear hurting other people’s hands. As for those whose livelihood is dependent on their hands, like surgeons, dentists, and musicians, they are likewise cautious in shaking other people’s hands. This time it’s their hands they want to protect.

So, what’s in a handshake? It may be just a casual greeting but it may also mean a lot.

About the Author:
A lot of people don’t often mean what they say. To find out, how to efficiently decode people’s inner feelings and emotions through their body movements and how you can use this knowledge to succeed in your career, relationships, and personal life - just visit the website: http://www.bodylanguage101.info What I am about to tell you might shock you.

Silk Ties Basics

2007-03-31T08:48:00.000-07:00

There are thousands of different silk ties available on the market, and sometimes the many choices available can be overwhelming for some people. Below are some helpful tips to consider when making the decision of what style, and type of silk tie to choose.
Silk ties are very popular because of their luxurious look and feel; at one time silk ties were only worn for special occasions. Now there are a wide variety of silk ties available for every occasion. Polyester was the most popular choice in ties, as they were always considered easy to clean and care for. Although, silk ties are now made just as versatile as polyester ties, and look far better.
At one time silk ties were considered to be a luxury item and were very expensive, although now they are cheaper than ever due to popular demand. A silk tie will cost around $50 in today’s market.
When choosing a silk tie, the shirt and tie must match each other. Since a tie is used as an accessory to compliment an outfit, it is important to keep in mind that if the shirt you are intending on wearing is loud and colorful the tie needs to be calm and not overly colorful or loud. The same rule applies for a shirt that is plain, you should choose a bold and interesting tie, like one with a pattern.
Be sure that the color of your tie matches with your outfit so that it compliments what you are wearing. Depending on the occasion you may choose a conservative tie such as black or a plain color especially, if you are attending a formal occasion. If you are attending a party or wedding it is ok to wear a more colorful and exiting silk tie, or maybe even a novelty tie that will compliment your personality as well as your outfit.
There are many other accessories that can be used with, or in place of a silk tie. Some of these are silk handkerchiefs, silk bow ties and tie clips. The most important thing to remember when choosing a silk tie is to make sure that it matches what you are wearing. If you are not sure weather the tie matches your outfit ask at the store where you are intending to purchase the tie or bring along a friend who can give their opinion.
Silk ties are available either at department or clothing stores or can be purchased over the Internet. Many online stores offer free postage and handling on their silk ties, they also have a large array of different payment options including pay pal, credit cards or money orders. With thousands of stores available, silk tie suppliers can be found by doing a quick search on your favorite search engine.

About the Author:
Celia Nemart writes about family and creativity and design on the internet, Celia is a dedicated writer that writes to improve the information about Silk Ties and pregnancy in young woman.

Why Could An Offshore Structure Suit My Business

2007-03-28T11:41:00.000-07:00

The offshore business world is full of unvalid, unprofessional and inefficient solutions, which cause the negative attitude towards offshore countries and offshore companies. Without making a deep research people come to mistaken conclusions about the opportunities the offshore world can offer.

Wisely and carefully studied International business company (IBC) and offshore company’s structure, business activities bring good results, big time and money saving as well as confidentiality and satisfaction.

Once decided to incorporate an offshore company it is important to consult with professionals and experienced specialists in the sphere. Companies, trusts, bank accounts, banking licenses, gambling licences, yachts registration are just a few of the many solutions that can be provided for a client’s needs. CarloScevola&Partners, one of the leading consultancy companies, provides suitable and lawful offshore structures for private or business deals, always in 100% legal contests.

Offshore management world is ever-changing, and a consultant must be a deep and dynamic expert of ALL the jurisdictions and international laws. In order to be always updated with the latest news and regulations, and ready to anticipate any changing in the international scenario, it is essential to have strict working contacts with local authorities and financial institutions. One offshore country can not be preferred to another one; each of them has different characteristics and provides various opportunities for international business companies. Ready-made products from a consultant’s side is a sign of unprofessionalism and incompetence.

So, when a business is organized legally, when structure and organization of the company give much more profit than any other variant, when good and always better results are guaranteed, why to refuse the offshore experience'

By :- Carlo Scevola

Carlo Scevola
CEO, President, Chairman
Carlo Scevola & Partners
14 Wall Street 20th Floor
New York NY 10005
E-mail :- c.scevola@carloscevola.com
http://www.carloscevola.com

Fitness tips

2007-03-28T11:36:00.000-07:00

1. Keep a water bottle with you at all times and drink from it often. Water *is* the drink of choice, but if you don't enjoy it (I admit it' I don't), drink Propel, Diet Ice, Reebok Water, Vitamin Water or some other form of healthy fluid intake.

2. Think twice before deciding what to eat and why, making sure that it is healthy and will provide you good nutrition.

3. Measure intake based on activity, not how you "feel.' Need should mandate intake, not mood.

4. Eat well-balanced meals and remember that excessive calories, even if they are fat-free and high protein will turn to excess weight!

5. If your diet is unbalanced, try a daily vitamin and mineral supplements for total health. 6. Limit caffeine and exposure to even second hand smoke.

6. Focus on short-term fitness goals with an emphasis on completing daily exercise.

7. Keep a daily log of what you're actually eating' this includes grabbing a handful of chips here, the crust of your kids sandwich, and all your snacking.

8. Stick with eating plans you can maintain indefinitely. Remember that no matter how hard you're working out, if you're consuming too many calories, you'll never see the muscles that lie beneath layers of fatty tissue.

9. Enjoy an occasional (once a week) 'unhealthy' treat, but never an 'unhealthy' week or 'unhealthy' vacation.

10. Limit alcohol intake to special occasions.

11. See fitness and health as a privilege, not something to take for granted.

12. Enjoy contributing to the health of others by having a partner or friend to exercise with, as well as recruiting others who desire to feel better and have more energy.

13. Avoid monotony by taking up new forms of exercising or using things that keep you motivated and inspired like new shoes or great music.

14. Work to take your exercise to new levels of intensity.

15. Subscribe to fitness magazines to keep focused on health as an overall way of life.

16. Invest in the right tools, good shoes, a health club membership, a portable MP3 player, fitness equipment, a personal trainer, etc.

17. Don't compare your body to others. Instead, work to be your personal best.

18. Move beyond the boundaries of weight loss and into total fitness. Measure success by the way your clothes fit, and not a number on a scale.

19. Make it your goal to do some form of exercise 6-7 days a week.

20. Create an exercise schedule the day before, instead of leaving it to chance or waiting to 'find' the time. If our last two Presidents of the United States can find the time to work-out 5 days a week, you can find the time too!

21. Get adequate amounts of sleep. Remember that people who exercise regularly fall asleep faster and sleep more soundly.

Seven days in Italy

2007-03-28T11:27:00.000-07:00

With internet you can research tons of useful information, which will probably match and satisfy your needs. Some how, I believe is good to remark what you want to see and how you will get to your destinations, in which city you will spent days and nights.
The vacation rental selected will play a decisive rule. The people who run this place may influence a lot your holiday. You are happy with them this will be synonymous of unforgettable holiday. They are nasty, your vacation will be then probably a tragedy.
Seven days can be enough to love this country forever or stay away for ever.
If you are an adventure traveller, who doesn’t care where to stay, then go and stay where you feel comfortable and enjoyable. Do not carry big luggage, ask to anyone you desire what ever you desire. Italy is small unique full of richness country, and the Italian are very much willing to help tourist.
Move quickly, enjoy sunny and relaxing break, ride up and down by train get as much you can. Be ready to change area, even before sunset. Discovering a country like Italy in such a short time require a great dynamism and passion in travelling. Dedicate at least 1 day and one night if in your designed tour there are major cities, such as: Rome, Florence, Milan, Venice, Palermo, Naples.
You decide to drive then it’s quite simple you get lost. Once you get out from the highway the trouble will start. The street signal are very confusing, you must to learn and be concentrate on the way to reach the final destination.
Are you taking in your journey your family, then just select on destination and accommodations that can provide family friendly environments. Family journeys may bring you to places that could serve as a perfect family adventure. Beautiful beaches and fabulous scenery can be found in Italy. Your kids will definitely be thrilled with the sea, parks, summer sports, gelato. Parasailing and snorkeling are only some of the activities that can be enjoyed by your bigger kids. The whole family will love the land excursions to ancient ruins, museums and numerous sights in your chosen destination.
These are some of the most beautiful things that you should not miss when you come in Italy;
Visiting the Colosseo. By this time, everyone knows the Colosseo. You can sign up for a tour right outside. Cost around 15 euros and included the entrance price, a tour of the forum and a tour of the palatine hill.
Don't let your fiscal sensibilities deter you from enjoying Venice's, indeed Italy's, top attraction: a sunset gondola ride. Riders beginning their 45 minute tour are initially struck by how effortlessly and silently they traverse the backwaters of this romantic's dream city.
Pompeii is a must- see sight for any visitor to the Naples area. The entrance fee of 10 euros has to be the best value in Italy. You can spend a day here easily, and still leave not having seen everything that is left after the town was destroyed in AD79. If you enjoy it, consider going to Herculaneum too, where there are better-preserved houses, and even remains of original furniture. For both sites, its easiest to go via the Circumvesuviana.
Wake up early and go to the Uffizi a little over an hour before it opened. I would highly recommend doing this.
The enchanting island of Capri has been long been considered southern Italy's finest jewel where the extraordinary beauty of the land and sea and the frequent presence of prestigious visitors imbue it with a magical atmosphere.
I could keep writing for ever about the beauties of this country. I just leave you to your imagination, inspiration and instinct, to spent a delicious time of your life “nel bel Paese”.

Purchasing A Luxury Watch

2007-03-16T14:45:00.000-07:00

As consumers, we are highly receptive to the word luxury; luxury cars, luxury boats, luxury vacations, luxury homes - all come attached to visions of high-end quality and instant status recognition. Included in these sought after luxury items is the luxury watch; part timepiece, part style accessory.
Since the inception of the wristwatch owners have found new and better ways to showcase its beauty - encasing it in diamonds, adorning it with gems, and wrapping it in silver and gold of every variety. The luxury watch is held in just as much esteem today, its purchase considered an investment - much as a ring or other precious jewelry.
For many, the luxury watch is simply about style. While less expensive watches are swapped to match different outfits, a luxury watch is classic as an accessory - it goes with anything and everything. Further, in many cases the luxury watch - such as a designer watch - is considered something of a status symbol, much like a high-end vehicle. It tells of the owner's success and ability to treat themselves to the finer things.
For others, the luxury watch is an investment in the future; an heirloom that can be handed down from generation to generation. Perhaps the owner received their own luxury watch through the passing down from a family member. In this case, the watch is esteemed for sentimental - as well as monetary - value.
While a luxury watch can be expensive, it is wise to remember that you are purchasing more than just a watch. You are purchasing a commitment from the manufacturers to uphold their standards by maintaining the high quality operation of your watch. Should you have repair needs in the future you can return to the manufacturer or authorized dealer and be assured that your watch will be treated with the same care with which it was made.
A luxury watch is more than just an ordinary wristwatch; it is a piece of jewelry that reflects your personality and personal style - and can be enjoyed for a lifetime.

Get Gift Ideas For The Woman In Your Life

2007-03-16T14:36:00.000-07:00

Men, step right up! You have a woman on your list and no time to decide on the perfect gift. As the special date quickly approaches, the choices get more difficult and it becomes complicated for you to make up your mind. Most men have at one time resorted to a last minute visit to the local department store to pick up something that smelled like a brand-name perfume. Now it's time to learn what a woman wants.

Most men think that women only want to receive pricey and flashy gifts. Instead, target something she can use every day. That doesn't mean you should make it your first priority to buy your lady some soap or shampoo. Try taking a few minutes to just think about the woman you are trying to satisfy. You will be surprised how the ideas will start to come to you.

Think about what your woman enjoys doing. The perfect gift could be a new kitchen gadget if she likes to cook or some workout music if she likes to exercise.

Many women enjoy sports too. What is her favorite sport? Maybe a bicycle or a treadmill is more her speed.

How does she spend her days? Certainly, she would love something new for her computer, a picture frame for her favorite family photo, and a brand new leather bag for her important papers. By giving her the things that she needs to keep her day bright and cheerful, you can be sure she will be thinking of you.

What does she wear? In colder climates, consider a long warm scarf or a pair of leather gloves. And, no matter where you live a stylish watch is always a hit.

Does she like to drive? If you lady tends to be practical, she'll love a car organizer kit that will keep her car tidy. For sure, an automatic starter, a new stereo with a satellite radio subscription, or a digital compass would start her engine.

Sometimes, women aren't practical in the least. But, it can still be easy to put a smile on their face. For a woman of romance, look toward art and culture. For the adventurous woman, focus on the outdoors, travel and leisure.

Does your lovely lady enjoy music, reading or playing guitar? If so, you could get her something she wasn't expecting like that new instrument she's been talking about learning, a selection of MP3s you personally picked out for her MP3 player, or great seats to a concert she's been dying to see. Don't forget, if you get concert tickets, the extra ticket should be for her to take a friend.

Is your adventurer in need of a new wetsuit, new binoculars, digital or film camera with all the extras, backpack, footwear, or plane tickets to a her favorite destination? Maybe a GPS system, a pedometer to aid in her fitness quest, a citywide treasure hunt is always fun, or how about you just take her on the weekend adventure of her choice? Don't forget, some of the best gifts are ones that she can't hold in her hands.

Although, ladies have the prerogative to change their minds about what they like, those that love jewelry always love jewelry. Practical women want practical things. Romantic women will always hope for whatever looks and feels good. The adventurer in your life will forever be happy pushing the envelope. If it's worked in the past, it will work again. When the gift matches the person that it was intended for, it is magical -- and she'll remember it always.

The Leadership Development Plan

2007-03-16T14:29:00.000-07:00

Many people are born leaders, yet the ability to lead is actually an art and an amazing collection of skills, which can be learned and sharpened through a series of daily habits and activities. The following ten keys will provide the foundation for a powerful leadership development plan and can be your guide in expanding what is possible in your life personally, professionally, and spiritually.

1. Start your day with Intention.

There is a direct correlation with how you start your day and the quality of your life. Most people start the day in a hurry and as a result play catch up all day long. Unless you try something different this sense of not being able to get it all done won't change. Here is a suggestion. Spend 10-15 minutes each morning for daily reflection looking at the major areas of your life: career, relationship, family, community, and spirituality. Ask yourself what are you grateful for and what do you intend to accomplish. Then ask yourself what will be the highlight of your day. By asking yourself this question you will have created a positive expectation throughout the day. No matter what is going on or who you are interacting with, you can always ask yourself this question. Remember this time in the morning is your time and no one else's so it is essential to take this time before listening to the news or reading the paper. This practice becomes a spiritual practice and mental discipline so that your ability to focus and concentrate increases dramatically. You also expand your ability to say no to limiting beliefs.

2. Be dedicated to a high level of learning.

Great leaders are highly competent, because they are dedicated to a high level of learning, growth, and improvement. They know the worse thing they can do is to be too comfortable. Spend 15-20 minutes each day devoted to learning something new. Do not settle for knowing "how" to do something. Dig deeper by asking the question "why" and then go find the answer. Search the internet, consult with experts, or take a day trip to find the answer to a question that is on your mind or the minds of those who follow you. Don't hesitate to hire a consultant, coach or expert in your field. At the end of the day ask yourself "what did I learn today?"

3. Follow a regular exercise routine.

One of the most beneficial and practical habits you can develop is a regular exercise routine. There is no question that regular exercise has many benefits. The most energetic people that I come in contact with all exercise. They look better, feel better and always seem to have time to do what they want. From a time management perspective they are mentally alert, more efficient and able to get more done in less time. From a health prospective there are numerous studies that document the value of exercise....just read any of the bulletins from the American Heart Association. An additional benefit is that many leaders have asserted that during exercise solutions to challenges are revealed.

4. Discover your strengths.

The strengths profile finder from the book NOW! Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D. is a revolutionary program which can show you how to discover and then develop your unique talents and gifts. One of the secrets to discovering your leadership potential lies in your ability to exercise your strengths, not in dwelling on your weaknesses. This tool by Buckingham and Clifton can guide you to becoming a high performing and empowered individual.

5. Be an innovator by tapping into your creativity.

Many adults move through life thinking "I am not creative," and wondering "What if?" As humans, we all have the ability to be wildly creative, and sometimes, this requires practice. By spending time each day with the support of tools such as "Five Star Mind" by Tom Wujec, you can begin to unlock and expand the creative potential that lies deep within you. Using puzzles, mind-mapping, word association, and the power of curiosity, you can stimulate your intuition, innovation, and creative expression. As Napoleon Hill stated "All the 'breaks' you need in life wait within your imagination. Imagination is the workshop of your mind, capable of turning mind-energy into accomplishment and wealth." As your creativity soars, you will find that others will view you as a leader and will be attracted to you for your amazing ability to be innovative.

6. Be willing to interrupt your thought patterns.

Herbert Benson, M.D., a Harvard cardiologist, in his latest bestseller The Breakout Principle, describes a four stage process in which new insights and peak experiences are achieved. According to Benson and his researchers, the first stage in this process occurs when there is a crisis or a problem that you are attempting to solve. In the second stage what is important is to interrupt your thought pattern by breaking away from your predicament and doing something totally different. You might leave the building and take a walk, go to the gym, or listen to some music. In the third phase, when the mind is less stressed and less cluttered, the peak experience or solution occurs quite often accompanied by something unexpected-a surprise that produces new ideas or higher levels of performance. In the fourth phase you incorporate your new insights and improved performance into your everyday way of life and live from this new standard.

7. Start or join a Master Mind Group.

Did you know that Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, Henry Ford and Harvey Firestone were all members of a Mastermind Group? This group of Leaders knew something many of us do not know. They knew that the key to their success was in their ability to rely on each other for feedback, ideas, accountability, and above all...support! These men controlled much of the industry of the United States during the height of their careers. Innovation and expansion in human thought often result from teams that mentally capitalize on the principle of collaborative thinking. With spontaneous expression and interchange of thoughts with folks who are up to big things in life, a mastermind group can shift your awareness, expand your thinking, and can take you to unprecedented levels of leadership.

8. Don't be a one trick pony.

Most people spend too much time working. They don't realize they have a choice. If you spend all your time and energy working, you limit your understanding of yourself and of people in general. You will be unable to see the big picture. From this limited perspective you will find it difficult to connect with other people and to enroll them in your vision. Have an open mind and develop interests and hobbies and become a complete person. Become involved in your community and become interested in how you can contribute. Quite often it is outside the office when you make the key strategic alliances.

9. Develop the ability to fully express yourself and be a better communicator.

Have you ever had a meeting or encounter with someone and as soon as it was over, you said to yourself "why didn't I say that?" If you haven't had that experience you are unique. The ability to express ourselves is an essential tool in our ability to create impact. Develop this skill. Be aware of what you are really feeling in the particular moment so that you do not make agreements you do not intend to keep. You might want to consider joining Toastmasters or Speaking Circles to fine tune your ability to speak on your feet.

10. Embrace change.

It's happens everyday... that is change. Prepare to adapt to what is happening. Have you ever noticed how rapidly children change and we as adults try to put the brakes on change. Studies show that the average person has at least five different careers. Change can lead to innovation and can be exciting. Ask yourself what is possible. Ask yourself what can I create? Prepare yourself for change. Try something like yoga. It makes your mind more flexible and as a result you look at life differently.

How To Raise Capital To Fund Your Business.

2007-03-16T14:21:00.000-07:00

Raising capital to start a new business may seem like a daunting task, but it need not be overwhelming if you follow a few basic business practices. If you have a viable idea that will net a return for your investors and prepare a compelling business plan the chances are good that you can find investors to join you.

Your first task is to create a business plan, sometimes known as a business proposal or prospectus. Your business plan needs to be very detailed and concise. You should include information about your educational background, experience and training in the area of business you are contemplating. Just like a resume for a job, include references and any other favorable personal qualities that you feel reinforce the reasons why an investor should trust in your ideas. It cant hurt to include any information you feel comfortable sharing with regard to your positive credit history. If you have records of various satisfied loans along with the payment history, that information could be helpful to prove your stability with regard to financial obligations.
If you are requesting financing for an existing business the rules are a bit different than a new business startup. The current owner should be able to provide you with profit and loss statements. If you are purchasing an online business, statistical information pertaining to traffic, number of units sold and paid advertising are definitely necessary. The purchase price of the business needs to be included along with detailed information about how you intend to service the debt as well as how the potential investor will benefit from your request.
If you are seeking investors for a new business, the information required increases. In addition to the information outlined above, you will need to include market research, projected costs and a detailed summary of how you intend to generate income. This information needs to be projected for a period of three to five years. Its a good idea to project your expenses on the high side.
Have some idea of what you expect to pay your investor. The only reason someone is going to lend you money is if they can see decent profits in exchange for lending it to you. Your market research had best substantiate that your plan is viable and will provide them with sufficient return on investment to justify their involvement.
Before you begin your search for investors, its a good idea to have an attorney and/or accountant take a look at your plan. A good professional may suggest specific points that you may have overlooked.
Once your paperwork is in order, its time to start looking for investors. One place to begin your search might be friends or family. You might approach them singularly or in a group. Whatever method, you need to have a complete copy of your proposal carefully outlining your research and what they can expect in return for their assistance.
Read the classified pages of your local newspaper. Venture capitalists often advertise this way. Their rates are usually pretty high because they have a tendency to take on risky investments. A twist on this method might be to run your own ad either locally or nationally. If you select this method, explain the particulars and emphasize how much they can expect to receive for the load of their funds.
Use local business directories to find companies that specialize in investment services. You can approach a local bank, but try and find a bank that specializes in industrial or business type loans.
You might consider incorporating and selling stock in the company.
Another option might be a money broker. This can be risky. There are some legitimate brokers and others who operate on the shady side.
Be creative. If you believe in your idea, dont be afraid to do what ever it takes to launch. There are plenty of ways to come up with the capital you need. Think outside the box. Whether you are looking for $300 or $300,000 the money is there you just need to dig for it.

By John Kovanski

The Signs Of A Breakup

2007-03-16T14:09:00.000-07:00

We have all heard the saying that "breaking up is hard to do". While this can be true, there are several signs that can help you predict when a potential breakup is about to take place. Recognizing these indicators will allow you to prepare for a breakup, and perhaps even save the relationship before it crumbles. Here are five warning signs of a breakup.

Distant Behavior. This is the most common behavior associated with relationship troubles. In this phase your partner suddenly becomes quiet and disengaged in your presence. They offer very little substance to your communication, and you find yourself struggling to maintain dialogue. Frequent uses of apathetic statements like "I don't care" and "I don't know" are indicators that they are going out of their way to avoid conversation.

Avoidance. Nothing is worse than being pushed away from a loved one, yet this is a common tactic used in breakups. Ignoring phone calls, working longer hours, and spending more time with friends are all indicators that you are being avoided. Unfortunately, this behavior can often lead to more devious behavior such as lying and cheating.

Confrontation. Another sign of a pending breakup is the display of confrontational behavior. You may experience that your partner challenges you on everything you say, or argues about the most trivial of problems. This strategy is used to create the illusion that you are incompatible as a couple. It can leave you feeling as if everything is your fault, when actually you have done nothing wrong.

Disappearing Friends. Sometimes the clues that things are not going well are found in the shared social network of you and your partner. You may find that good friends begin to ignore you, as they have chosen to side with your partner. This can even bleed into family members. Perhaps you considered yourself close with your partner's mother, but now she barely speaks to you. This is a bad sign that discussions about your relationship are being held behind your back.

Threats and Ultimatums. Threatening behavior is not always physical. In fact, some people use verbal threats to manipulate others. Breakup threats used to make you feel uncomfortable in your relationship and second-guess yourself. Ultimatums on the other hand are specific conditions communicated by your partner that must occur in order to prevent a breakup. Both of these tactics take advantage of your fear of rejection to exploit you.

In most instances of failing relationships, multiple examples of these behaviors can be found. Typically the unhappy partner will do anything they can to create tension and confusion within the relationship. Those who fall victim to the manipulation often wonder why the aggressor simply doesn't break up with them if they are unhappy. The answer to this mystery revolves around accountability. For whatever reason, the aggressor does not want the responsibility of ending things. They would rather make your life so miserable that you have little choice but to breakup with them. It is how you deal with this situation that determines how things will end. For strategies on how to save a troubled relationship, visit http://getbackmyex.com

Paintball Supplies and What You Need

2007-03-16T14:07:00.000-07:00

Paintball is a rising game not only in the United States but also in the world.
The use of paintball gear to protect the group of actors has earned it a standing as a safe game - this is better than football or hockey which have a standing for causing injuries.
For people to play this game, it is necessary that a actor wear security cog at all era. This consists of a hat, upper body protection, fashion accessory, and lap and prod pads. The weapons second-hand are only allowable to have a utmost dismissal speed of 300 feet for each second.
Anybody who needs to try this game should first buy the necessary gear which can be purchased at the restricted sports education store or online. A hat may $20-$90. Since it fogs up owing to perspiration, grime, or paint it would be a good idea to buy a onslaught solution and anti-fog scatter as well.
Defensive cog for the upper body can be bought for less than $30. These come in dissimilar colors and will protect the person should a direct blast hit the body. Pads for the knee and elbows can also be purchased for less than $40 each.
The most significant thing wanted for fight is the player’s paintball gun. This can be handguns to physical attack rifles. The cost of these weapons run from $100 to more than a $1,000 depending on the skin of the gun. Most of these are semi-automatic and can hold several paintballs before life form reloaded.
A vital part of the game is bullets. This also comes in different colors and ranges in cost from $24- $60. A box contains 2000 rounds - more than enough for one game. The actor can also buy bullets to be second-hand against the adversary for roughly same cost. It is a good idea to buy a loader that will save time when it is time to refill.
Paintball as some would say is “better than the real obsession. This exciting game keeps the heart throbbing and the adrenaline leaving. Should the person be paying attention in this game, the first thing that wants to be done is receiving the right gear from the shop and knowledge the system.
After meeting, it is time to suit up, security device and weight, and get ready to be in the battle region. Buy the best paintball supplies to optimize your game.

Steps To Organize Your Home Office

2007-03-16T14:00:00.000-07:00

Follow the lead of a well-organized home office. Using the checklist below, incorporate many of the organizing tips found on the list. You will have both a professional and efficient home office.
ORGANIZE YOUR BOOKKEEPING
• Prepare and send invoices to clients
• Enter monthly transactions into bookkeeping software
• Reconcile bank, credit card, and other account statements
• Send reminders for paying bills on their due dates
• Write and prepare checks to be signed to pay bills
ORGANIZE YOUR DESKTOP PUBLISHING
• Design and print brochures and business cards
• Create flyers, price lists, and other marketing documents
• Lay out, printing, and mailing regular client newsletters
• Prepare professional-looking certificates for seminar participants
• Print labels using company logos or clip art
ORGANIZE YOUR DATABASE MANAGEMENT
• Enter business card data into a database
• Send an introductory letter to new prospect leads
• Send scheduled marketing pieces to clients and prospects
• Track marketing efforts and summarize the results in a report
• Send regular follow-ups, reminders, and communications to clients
• Call people for missing contact information
• Send fax and email broadcasts
ORGANIZE YOUR TELEPHONE AND FAX SERVICES
• Receive telephone calls while a client is out of town
• Forward important messages that require immediate attention
• Retrieve voice messages and responding to routine requests
• Receive and handle faxes while a client is out of town
ORGANIZE YOUR TRANSCRIPTION SERVICES
• Type letters and memos from tape or handwritten notes
• Type legal transcripts from cassette tape
• Type medical reports from tape or handwritten notes
ORGANIZE YOUR WORD PROCESSING
• Type handwritten notes from a meeting or seminar
• Type letters, printing on stationery, addressing, and mailing
• Proofread, edit, and check spelling / grammar
• Lay out larger documents
ORGANIZE YOUR MARKETING SERVICES
• Send out the appropriate sales brochures for inquiries
• Create and mail a customer feedback questionnaire
• Track the responses to this questionnaire
• Summarize the responses and suggestions in a report
ORGANIZE YOUR INTERNET SERVICES
• Maintain a newsletter subscription database
• Post announcements and newsletter issues to the list
• Perform an internet search for an item or piece of information
• Edit or upload new information to a website
ORGANIZE YOUR MAIL AND EMAIL SERVICES
• Retrieve email and mail, sort, and get rid of junk
• Respond to routine email requests
• Forward items of importance to the client for attention
• Track and forward urgent issues while client is out of town
• Prepare packages and mail out products as orders arrive
ORGANIZE YOUR RESEARCH
• Research potential locations for an upcoming seminar
• Find which locations have the appropriate dates available
• Find which can accommodate the size and type of event
• Research the services available (decorating, food, entertainment)
• Obtain written quotes and specifications from each location
• Monitor periodicals and clip articles of interest
• Visit the library to copy specific articles
ORGANIZE YOUR PERSONNEL SERVICES
• Send reminders for annual performance reviews
• Prepare or update resumes and introduction letters
• Review resumes and summarize each in a short biography
• Sort resumes for a job according to pre-arranged criteria
ORGANIZE YOUR PRESENTATIONS
• Prepare PowerPoint slides from sketches of diagrams and charts
• Send questionnaires to seminar participants before the talk
• Track completed questionnaires and call non-responders
• Summarize the questionnaire results in a report
ORGANIZE YOUR SECRETARIAL SERVICES
• Confirm upcoming appointments
• Schedule or reschedule appointments
• Get directions for a meeting or appointment
• Store back-up computer tapes for safekeeping
• Track birthdays, anniversaries, and other important dates
• Send out the appropriate cards or gifts for special events
• Manage lists of necessary office supplies and ordering refills
• Coordinate air travel, car rental, and hotel reservations

Fitness Equipments: Treadmills v/s Elliptical Trainers v/s Exercise Bikes

2007-03-16T13:52:00.000-07:00

The recent buzz created in the fitness equipment market calls for treadmills, exercise bikes and elliptical trainers. All these machines are capable of providing instant and consistent benefit to your health. But which one is best for you?

Fitness is on the minds of everybody today. People want to remain healthy to live longer, to enjoy most of the things that can be done only when your body is healthy. Catering to this aspect, manufacturers have flooded the market with never ending options in the field of fitness regime.
Consumers have been given a plethora of options that help them in achieving their fitness goals. This sometimes lands up the consumer in a confused state of mind in deciding, which equipment will suit him the best. The recent buzz created in the fitness equipment market calls for treadmills, exercise bikes and elliptical trainers. All these machines are capable of providing instant and consistent benefit to your health. But which one is best for you? Here is your guide on these 3 basic fitness equipments.

Treadmills
They are the most widely used fitness equipments in the market. Tread machines are mostly used to increase your cardiovascular activity, to maintain an appropriate bone density and to loose weight. As per studies, while comparing it with the other two machines, it was found that it is better than the other two equipments. It was established in the study that treadmills help in burning more calories.
Besides this, it also offers you the best opportunity to tone each and every muscle of your body. A treadmill exercising session can help you burn around 50-250 calories in an hour.
The best about a treadmills structure is: they are built to absorb all the pounding that is generating while you are running or walking on the machine. Most treadmills have electronic settings that help you customize your workout programs. Treadmills are built such that they can be programmed according to individualistic needs.
Due to all these reasons, treadmills have been rated as the best training options to attain impeccable fitness.

Elliptical Trainers
They are built to offer you a unique range of fitness benefits. Elliptical trainers provide you with low-impact workout programs that are very easy on your joints and lower body. The only disadvantage that this machine carries is that it burns fewer calories as compared to a treadmill.
The in-built workout programs that elliptical trainers carries have such an affect on your body that you will lose weight without affecting much of your knees, hips and back. It also helps you build an appropriate bone density. The machine can be programmed with the help of its in-built electronic setup. All in all, elliptical trainers are full body exercisers that help in toning your leg, thigh muscles to giving strength to your hands. And, all this can be done without stress and pounding.

Exercise Bikes
This machine has been rightly termed as a machine with low impact yet high performance. The workout programs that it carries are of easy intensity that works affectively on the joints and the body parts. The best part about exercise bikes is that they are the most economically priced fitness equipments. And the bad part is that they have a very low calorie burning ratio. Thus if you are planning to use a bike to lose weight then you must put in some extra hard work.
Exercise bikes are the most ancient in the fitness industry. But with technological innovations, their dying numbers have consequently geared up in the market. The machine caters to the aspect of fitness by allowing the user to maintain their heart rates without putting stress on knees, feet, hips and ankles. The exercise bikes come with built-in resistance features that help you achieve your desired goals. Now a days, there are several models that offer you electronic setups.

Comparing your health needs with the above mentioned features of treadmills, elliptical trainers and exercise bikes, you can make your health equipment pick. And enjoy your workouts for a healthy life! All the best!

Having a Millionaire Mindset

2007-03-06T07:31:00.000-08:00

A human mind is a very powerful tool. There is a quote by Anton Chekhov “Man is what he believes.” If you wish to be successful and rich, you will first have to change the way that you perceive wealth in your mind.
Having a limiting belief that you cannot achieve high wealth status will sabotage your road to success. If you do not believe that you will be rich and successful in the future, do you think that you will design a work plan and take specific action to your success? I absolutely doubt so.
You will find all sorts of excuses not to take action, rather than spending your precious time to plan and work towards your goal. I understand that just having a right mindset is of no use if actions are not taken. But if you are open minded enough, it will really kick-start a lot of things.
Just imagine that if you know that you will not fail to become a very rich and successful person, what actions or steps will you do to work towards it then? I bet that you will think of whole lot of ways just to reach your goal.
I have come across a book titled “Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki. In one of the chapter, he encourages the readers not to have limiting beliefs such as “I cannot afford this”, “I cannot do this”. Instead of telling yourself you cannot do this or that, try asking yourself “How can I afford this?”, “How I can achieve his?”
While you ask yourself the word “HOW”, it will open up your mind to think of all the possibilities of achieving what you want.
So people, we should start thinking like millionaires now, and let us work towards our goal together.

Japanese Food

2007-03-06T07:20:00.000-08:00

There are many different views as to what constitutes a traditional Japanese meal, or to Japanese cuisine in general. Though many people think of sushi of kaiseki, both meals that originated in Japan, most Japanese think of the everyday food of the Japanese people. This has remained quite unchanged since before World War II.
There are some food that are unique to Japan and its cuisine. Traditional Japanese food is especially dominated by white rice, and very few meals are served without it. Anything else that is served during a meal, such as meat, vegetables, pickles (tsukemono), or fish, are considered a side dish, or okazu.
Japanese meals are named for the number of side dishes that come along with the rice and soup that are almost always served. The simplest type of Japanese meal is made up of one soup and one side, or ‘iciiju-issai’. This means that rice, soup and one accompanying side dish are served. In these one dish type of Japanese meals, usually the side dish will be some type of pickled vegetables.
Interestingly, miso soup is often eaten as part of breakfast in Japan. Along with pickled vegetables and rice, this makes an entire Japanese breakfast.
It is said that the most common meal is the ichiiju-sansai, which means ‘one soup, three sides’, where each of the three sides is cooked using a different cooking technique. The three side foods are generally raw fish (sashimi), some type of simmered (sometimes translated as ‘boiled’) dish, and a grilled dish. This type of meal is traditionally finished with pickles and green tea.
This way of differentiating between foods according to how they were cooked is also seen in the way that Japanese cookbooks are organized. The chapters in Japanese cookbooks are usually broken down into groups of steamed foods, fried foods, or grilled foods, for example, and not by which ingredients are the primary ingredients in the recipe. American cookbooks generally have chapters broken up this way, into categories such as ‘beef’ or ‘chicken’. Japanese cookbooks will, similar to American and European cookbooks, have chapters for desserts, soups and salads. Japanese cookbooks will usually have a chapter for noodles as well.
There are two types of noodles that are part of traditional Japanese cuisine: udon and soba. Udon is a thick, white noodle that is made from wheat flour. Soba is made from buckwheat flour, and is a brown noodle. Both types of noodles are served in a soy flavored broth of fish with different types of vegetables. More recently, dating back to the 19th century from China, is Ramen. Ramen is served in a variety of soup stocks including fish stock or soy sauce to pork stock and/or butter.
Some dishes for special occasions include meals for the New Year celebration of Osechi, and Soba, which is New Year’s Eve. Sekihan is cooked rice with adzuki, a dish that is served at any type of celebration. On Spring equinox, Japanese people eat botamochi, which is a sticky rice dumpling with sweet azuki paste.
Being that Japan is an island, the people eat much seafood, including shellfish, fish, octopus, crab, squid, lobster, seaweed and shrimp. Though not thought of as a meat eating country, very few Japanese consider themselves to be vegetarian. Chicken and beef are regularly consumed and have become a part of everyday food in Japan.

Helpful Yoga Exercises For Beginners

2007-03-06T07:15:00.000-08:00

Who would not like to learn yoga for free? Just like everyone, you too would be interested in doing this set of free yoga exercises that are meant just for you! These free yoga exercises will instruct you on how to practice yoga; you just need to follow the instructions carefully and with confidence.
Yoga is a series of different types of exercises which should be practiced regularly to improve an individual's health. Yoga increases the vital flow of energy and gives a peace of mind. The free exercises given below are nothing but different poses which need to be practiced correctly.
Yoga is also a way of living life. It includes performing daily routine activities at a regular time everyday. Consider the habit of getting up in the morning. In yoga, the daily routine starts with having the a fixed procedure of practice everyday in three points; first, Japa meaning chanting some mantra over and over to maintain the same consciousness; second, study by reading some yoga scripts; and third, meditation which should be performed at a fixed time in a fixed place everyday.
The initial pose of these free yoga exercises should be the Corpse pose, and be repeated between other asana (yoga poses) and as a final relaxation. This pose looks easy and it’s really good too. But it should be used for more than relaxing. You should use this pose for meditation while allowing your mind to gain strength and relax.
Start these yoga exercises with the warm up exercises to relax and prepare your muscles for the next exercises. After warm up you can perform the shoulder lifts the natural following exercise and the eye exercise, which can improve your eyesight and prevent tiredness. For the next exercises you can practice sun salutation which will stretch all your body muscles, this to prepare for the much more difficult exercises. Try also leg raise, which will tone your leg muscles, giving you more endurance and improved flexibility; head stand pose is also good for resting some of your organs such as heart.
Once you prepare your mind and body for more difficult yoga exercise, get going in the following manner.
Start with the bridge and plough poses; this will increase your back's flexibility. Initially, you may find it difficult to attain the final position. But with practice you will be able to reach this "asana". At first you will not be able to do it perfectly, but remember it’s important to try to reach the perfect position and train your body to eventually reach the perfectly balanced position.
After this pose, try the forward bend pose to stimulate the nervous system. Then you can attempt the fish pose, it tones the chest muscles and lungs.
Next pose is called cobra pose. Women who suffer from menstrual problems can try the cobra pose, it stimulates the pelvic and lower abdomen area, improving the circulation and massaging the internal organs.
If you want to strengthen the lower back, then you should try the locust pose. Locust pose is also known to help prevent constipation.
The bow is another pose that will help your back area remain strong and flexible at the same time and abdominal fat my also be reduced if proper diet is applied. Furthering this yoga exercise you can try the half spinal twist pose for your spines.
Breathing is a very important aspect in practicing yoga. You can learn proper way of breathing and improve on it by practicing the crow pose. With this pose, you can improve your joints and arm strength too. Then you can try the hands to feet pose and the triangle. This pose requires your body’s strength and flexibility.
At the end of all these poses, make sure that you perform the corpse pose to regain any energy that has been lost during these free yoga exercise and also to give rest to your body.
You can try all these free yoga exercises one by one and see for yourself which ones work the best for you. Once you know the poses that benefit you the mostFeature Articles, just make sure that you do not overstretch yourself in doing those exercises and that you follow the same set of exercises regularly.

Source: yogaexercisesportal.com/

Is Paris Hilton Really Spoiled

2007-03-06T07:09:00.000-08:00

Many people have the impression that heiress Paris Hilton is actually spoiled and does not work for a living, but actually, that is very wrong. They tend to assume that fact because that’s the image she often portrays in public, but in real life, she has been making her own money since she was 18 years old.
Back then, Paris used to earn her money by doing photo shoots for magazines. She even made money by simply appearing at night clubs and partying. But after the success of the TV show “Simple Life” and the release of a sex tape by her ex-boyfriend, Rick Solomon, she became very famous in the United States and worldwide.
Some people wonder why Paris is so famous and what she has done to gain the status of a celebrity. The truth is that she is an entertainer and a businesswoman. She constantly travels around the world to promote her Paris Hilton brand. Indeed, she is also making millions of dollars every year; therefore, she is far from being a “stupid blond girl.”
Aside from filming the Simple Life series, Paris has also acted in numerous movies. Most of them are low-budgeted films in order to practicing her acting skills. It’s worth to note that Paris has been acting before the Simple Life in movies such as “Nine Lives” which was released in 2002. But her biggest role yet is in House of Wax (2006).
In summer 2006, Paris decided to launch her music career. A lot of people do not know this, but she is very serious about this music career, and it’s something that comes from her. Her debut single “Stars Are Blind” has become a smash hit, and it is one of the top singles of 2006. In late August 2006, her debut album “Paris” was released and within a week, 75 000 copies were sold in the United States and 150 000 copies worldwide. In fact, “Paris” hit #6 on the worldwide chart and on Billboards. So far, more than 500 000 records have been sold.
Of course, music and movies are not the only things that Paris does. She is also building her own empire and hopes to be bigger than her great-grandfather Conrad Hilton. She has launched a successful fragrance collection line with many perfumes for women and men. She even has her own video game titled “Diamond Quest” which is produced by Gameloft.
In 2004, Paris released a book called “Confession of an Heiress” which is mainly about her. If you’re a huge fan of Paris Hilton, you should definitely read it because you’ll discover a lot more about her.
Although, Paris is in her 20s and earns a lot of money, unlike most people think, she has a big heart and does charity work all the time. She mainly raises money for children, and she often check in hospitals. She is an animal activist as well. Furthermore, she has promised to never wear fur again after she was shown a brutal killing video of an animal for fur. She loves animals so much that when she was a kid, she wanted to be a veterinarian.
The media and the tabloid often lie about her and make up stories to portray her as someone evil, but she really is not. They would have us believe that she is spoiled, but now you know that she actually building her own business and doing what she loves. Regardless if you are a fan or not or if you still consider her spoiled, you cannot say that she is not making her own money.

Source: parishiltonsite.net

Find A Tailor

2007-02-26T14:05:00.000-08:00

Sure, everyone knows you can get your pants hemmed at the dry cleaners. But what about when your threads need a little more attention? Perhaps that fabulous new suit needs fine-tuning or you’d like your own custom-designed dress shirt. How do you find a great tailor who can expertly handle a variety of complicated and specialized tasks?
First and foremost, don’t be afraid to ask around: Ask a friend, that sharp-looking dresser at work or go to a high-end department store. Once you've assembled yourself a list of recommended tailors, start doing some research.
Now that you’ve found some tailor candidates, you need to make up your mind about which one to trust with your style reputation. The following are some details you should keep in mind when conducting your search.

Experience
Start with this direct and most important question: How long have you been in business? If you want someone experienced, make sure he's not the new business on the block. Of course, everyone has to start somewhere, but do you want to be the one to take a chance?
Secondly, ask if he can provide a list of clients. There is no better reference than a satisfied customer; make sure you get at least five names, and don’t assume they’re all happy customers -- call them. If your candidate won’t or can’t give you a list, cross him off of yours; it doesn’t matter if you've heard great things about him.
Vision
Find out the tailor's personal take on fashion: Is he strictly into old-school, classic styles or can he do trendy items for you as well? Having your own fashion authority is a great tool to form your own sense of style.
See if the tailor has the same vision as you. Search magazines and bring photos of what appeals to you. Discuss fabrics and styles you prefer. Find out if he is open or resistant to your ideas; a tailor who balks at your suggestions is not the tailor for you.
Making sure your visions mesh is of the utmost importance. You need to be comfortable working with this person, so it’s best to find out from the very beginning whether this will be a pleasurable collaboration or not. You don’t want to be halfway through a suit to discover you are rubbing each other the wrong way; chances are it will show in the garment.
Samples
The only way to know the exact quality of a tailor’s work is to see it for yourself. Ask if he can provide you with samples or photos of his work, and judge for yourself if this is the kind of craftsmanship you’d like applied to your own clothing. Also, browse through some samples of the materials he works with.
Furthermore, make sure to ask him about his style of workmanship. Ask how much of the garment will be hand-sewn and how much will be machine-made. Ask him to describe the process to you so you can make a well-informed decision.
Time frame
So far, so good, but what about the wait? Check his availability and the time frame allotted to complete various projects; unrealistic, overextended time frames can be a deal-breaker. The tailor may make a great garment, but if you have to wait forever for it to be completed, it may be a good idea to visit the second tailor on your list.
Price
Once you’ve found the tailor you like best, you must find out the most important detail of all: How much does he charge? You need to listen to your wallet, but don’t go with the bargain basement either -- unless a polyester plaid ensemble is more your thing.

After interviewing your tailor candidates, take the time to review your options. A tailor's experience and his happy repeat clients are the hallmark of an expert tailor. Shy away from anyone who resists your style vision; you must be comfortable working with this person -- after all, it will be a close and personal relationship. Choose the one who most closely reflects your sense of style and taste, has a good turnaround time and offers reasonable rates.
Hand-tailoring is not inexpensive and has traditionally been in the realm of the upper class, but consider this: Who do you think looks better -- the guy in a $300 off-the-rack suit or the fellow in the hand-tailored $3,000 suit that drapes like a dream?

Travel To Paris

2007-02-26T13:46:00.000-08:00

Paris is France's capital city and is located in the north of the country on the River Seine. The city is known for its romantic charm and atmosphere with gorgeous outdoor cafés, the scent of freshly baked croissants filling the area and stunning residents that are clothed in the most stylish fashions. Paris has a great history that is felt when within the city. The city also possesses amazing architecture, style and atmosphere that make being there a pleasurable experience.
Travelling There
Paris has a couple of airports that make flying there an easy option. It is also linked with excellent road and rail services. Euroline buses run constantly to and from the city in all directions. Ferries cross over from the UK to nearby ports for those who are looking to take there own car.
Accommodation
As Paris is such a large and popular city there is every type of accommodation available to suit all budgets. The only problem with accommodation is that you must book well in advance as the city gets busy with visitors, especially during fashion shows.
Eating & drinking
All of France is renowned for its cuisine and wines. Paris is one of the best places in the country to go out to restaurants. Parisians take their food seriously and tend to eat two sit-down meals a day. Restaurants, cafés and bars are found just about everywhere in Paris so you will always find something for your taste.
History
The city of Paris dates back to more than 2,000 years ago when it was first built. It developed into a metropolis after it was overruled by Julius Caesar in 52 BC. The city is linked to the French Revolution that saw the killing of thousands of people. Although Paris has a somewhat violent history, these days the city is a charming place to visit where many people fall in love in its wonderful atmosphere.
Sights and Must Sees
Paris is known for its magnificent architecture layout. If th interests you be sure to visit Sacré Coeur Basilica. It is located on the butte of Montmartre and provides wonderful views of the city. Also visit the Arch de Triomphe and the cathedrals of Notre Dame and Saint Denis as these are also very impressive to look at.
The city has many art features that are worth a visit if that is your interest. There is also plenty to do in the ways of excursions within and away from the city as well as a relaxing cruise up the River Seine.
Shops
Paris is quite possibly the best place in the World to shop for top quality fashion. The Champs Elysee is the main shopping area. It has huge shopping malls, perfumeries and entertainment venues. It is possible to find almost any designer brand in Paris. The city has a number of flea markets that offer a nice alternative to the main high street shops.

Classic Men’s Wallets That Never Go Out Of Style

2007-02-26T13:27:00.000-08:00

I know not every man puts much thought into choosing the wallet he uses. After all, it’s just something that carries your cold hard cash. But to me, the wallet is arguably a man’s most essential accessory and the wallet he carries says a lot about him and his personal style.
So regardless of you’re buying a wallet for yourself or as a gift, you should really take your time to pick a good one. It’ll accompany you for many years to come.
Women are clearly spoilt for choice when it comes to handbags and small leather goods. Every season, designers crack their brain to come up the “It” bag that will be the object of every woman’s desire.
As guys, we aren’t that fortunate. We don’t have that many designers clamoring for our attention. But it doesn’t mean we don’t have choices. In fact there are men’s wallets and small leather goods that never go out of style.
I find these timeless classics very appealing because there’s always an interesting story behind its success. They may not come cheap but they’ll certainly elevate your status in the style department.
Meisterstuck by Montblanc
Montblanc turned 100 in 2006 and there are many reasons to celebrate. The success of the legendary Meisterstuck fountain pen launched in 1924 helped Montblanc become the de-facto market leader of fine writing instruments.
Today, Montblanc is more than just a maker of fine writing instruments. The company has launched its leather goods, its fine watches, eyewear, fragrance and even jewelry.
Montblanc’s foray into leather goods started in 1935 when it acquired a producer of leather ware in Germany. Riding on the success of its Meisterstuck fountain pen, Montblanc launched the Meisterstuck leather collection.
Using black calfskin fitted with its signature “star” logo, Montblanc creates a masculine line of fine leather goods that is an instant hit with its predominantly male clientele.
Must de Cartier by Cartier
Well-known for its jewelry and fine watches, Cartier is one of the top luxury brands in the world and its products are associated with very, very high price tags.
1974 was the year Cartier made a comeback in the world of leather goods with the Must de Cartier line. The color burgundy, with a slight raspberry hue, was chosen as a logical continuation to the Cartier red for this must-have collection of fine leather goods. Burgundy soon became the new black.
The influential Bordeaux color, the iconic double ‘C’ logo, and the distinctive gold hardware make the Must de Cartier line a timeless classic.
But to be honest, Must de Cartier is not for the weak-hearted. Not every guy feels comfortable carrying a burgundy wallet with gold adornments.
Monogrammed Canvas by Louis Vuitton
With more than 100 years of history, Louis Vuitton monogrammed canvas must be the classic of all classics. And no matter what Louis Vuitton does to the monogrammed canvas, it still sells like hot cakes.
They splattered the canvas with graffiti. They planted red cherries on the canvas. They painstakingly sewed the motifs on denim. And they got Takeshi Murakami who reinterpreted the motif in brilliant rainbow colors. It seems like you can’t go wrong with the monogrammed canvas.
Unfortunately they don’t have a good selection of men’s wallets in monogrammed canvas so your choices are rather limited.
Pocone Nylon by Prada
It was in 1978 when Miuccia Prada took over the dusty luggage business from her grandfather. Under her helm, Prada became a luxury powerhouse with far-reaching influence in the world of fashion.
The world took notice when Prada made a handbag out of black waterproof Pocone nylon. Fitted with its distinctive triangular logo plate, nylon never looked so good. Miuccia Prada single-handedly made nylon luxurious.
Of course, I’m not expecting you to carry the popular nylon handbag. Prada does make nice nylon wallets trimmed with cowhide for men. Although it’s now available in many different colors, black is always a classic.
Woven Leather by Bottega Veneta
Once a second-tier brand in the Gucci Group’s stable, Bottega Veneta has become the group’s rising star. With its ultra-exclusive and elitist appeal, Bottega Veneta is poised to become the next Hermes.
Recreating the brand’s popular woven bags from the 1970s, Bottega Veneta beats the trend of logomania with its handcrafted leather goods made from the finest napa leather.
And consistent with the brand’s slogan “When your own initials are enough”, you won’t be able to see any logo on the leather goods. But the beautifully woven leather, which ages very well with use, should be enough to announce that you’re carrying a Bottega.
Line D by S.T. Dupont
S.T. Dupont is so well known for its lighters that it’s easy for us to forget that Simon Tissot-Dupont founded the company in 1847 making leather briefcases for diplomats and businessmen.
The classic Line D collection of fine leather goods was launched in 1985 and featured the Dupont “D” logo in gold on black calfskin. In recent years, they also offer Line D fitted with the trendier palladium hardware. But whether it’s in gold or palladium, Line D still looks as timeless as ever.
Burberry Check by Burberry
When we think of Burberry, we invariably think of the red, camel, black and white check that has become synonymous with the brand. It’s hard to imagine that the Burberry Check actually has a humble beginning. It was introduced in 1920 as a lining to the iconic Burberry trench coat.
Burberry is enjoying a revival in recent years - all thanks to its creative director Christopher Bailey’s modern interpretation of the classic check, CEO Rose Marie Bravo’s dynamism, and Kate Moss’ star power. You just can’t go wrong with such rich Brit heritage.

By Logan Wong is the founder of mensfolio.com

Cigar Smoking Etiquette

2007-02-26T13:25:00.000-08:00

Smoking cigars may be a great source of pleasure in your life, but the courteous smoker knows that not everyone enjoys the taste (or smell!) of a good Cuban. With the fervor of anti-smoking campaigns still in full swing, the importance of enjoying a good stogie while not offending others cannot be stressed enough. Simply remember that while you are smoking a cigar, it can be difficult to gauge the smell that others are experiencing. And don't forget that cigar smokes can leave a mighty strong residue on clothing, furniture, and even the walls! In order to enjoy your stogie without a heavy conscience, learn to become a considerate and courteous cigar smoker.

If you live with non-smokers, try to find a well-ventilated area of your residence where you can smoke comfortably. Although it may be tempting to lock yourself away in an office or bedroom, it's probably not a good idea to smoke in an enclosed area unless it has a window. Make sure you have easy access to the window. Never smoke in a closed area! You are more likely to inhale the toxic air from your own cigar. If possible, go outside to smoke. Pull up a lawn chair; relax on the porch, or any other open area where you can smoke comfortably. Get as far away as possible to non-smokers, especially children and the elderly. Remember that cigar smoke contains many carcinogens that can be easily inhaled by non-smokers.

If you must smoke a cigar outside your home, remember that the courteous and respectful smoker will only light up where legally permitted. Do no light up in a bar, hotel, or restaurant where smoking is clearly prohibited. The courteous cigar smoker will also make sure to smoke in the company of other smokers. If you are with someone who does not smoke, ask his or her permission. If they agree, be considerate about it. Make sure the smoke isn't wafting in their direction. Sit near an open window or space. Make sure the air conditioner or current is moving the smoke in their direction! Also, make sure no one around you is eating. The secondhand smoke from a discourteous smoker is a surefire way to ruin a meal.

A courteous cigar smoker will also be aware of their ashes. If you must smoke outside your home, make certain to dispose of your ashes in a safe and appropriate container. Don't forget that ashes can easily blow away, especially in lower quality cigars. Don't litter with ashes, and be careful they don't blow near anyone around you.

A call-girl's story

2007-02-19T13:26:00.000-08:00

The world of the high-class escort is back in the news again. Lara, 29, charges clients £6,000 a day

Interview by Katy Guest, Published: 18 June 2006

Sex is too easy to get today. We live in a society where everything is easy, and that can be a turn-off. That's not what the men who contact me want. These are very wealthy and successful men, some from well-known companies, and they can get sex anywhere. They like to be challenged and want something more subtle, and the successful women in this business offer them that.

Seduction is an endangered skill, and that's my favourite part of the process. When I interact with someone, even from the first email, what we are trying to do is seduce each other. It's like a dance. I use the term " companionship" for what I do, because there is a spectrum. On one side you have straightforward sex for money, and on the other you have full-blown relationships. I see myself as being somewhere along that continuum.

I charge £6,000 a day, and spend no less than two days with a client. I do it no more than once a month. I always take time to get to know the person first - we email, have lunch and talk on the phone - so I have never been in a situation where I have felt scared. We might go to a social or business event - they introduce me as their friend from wherever- or it might be more personal and romantic. They know that we're going to get some private time afterwards, but the sex is just the icing on the cake.

Most men find me through my website, and I also have a social network of wealthy friends. I don't have a full-time job but I have things that I'm doing. The men prefer it that way, and it's important psychologically: you don't get too immersed in their world.

So much today is not clear. If you go on a date is the guy supposed to open the door for you or not? Are you supposed to offer to pay? In this sort of relationship, each party's responsibilities are clearer. I enjoy that. Men I go out with are very intelligent people, and it is a mutually stimulating environment.

I think it is a common female fantasy to be in this business. I get a lot of emails saying: "It's so exciting, I've always wanted to do it." Anyone can do it but the numbers are against it: it's like wanting to be a ballet dancer. I always wanted to do it, since I was little. It was mysterious, and I like intelligent and influential men. The women in this business are quite influential, too. I've helped people close business deals. There is that free consultation component.

I had to learn myself. About two years ago, I saw the blogging phenomenon and thought, what can I do that's novel? I thought the business was sleazy, and I wanted to make it less so. My first time I was nervous, but we had fun and still keep in touch.

An escort needs a combination of talents. You don't need to be a supermodel - I'm a tall, slim brunette, but there are more beautiful women out there. It can be intimidating for men if you are incredibly stunning. They want someone subtle, intelligent and well versed in life. They have to feel comfortable talking to you about anything, whether business or their family.

About 50 per cent are married. I've heard that sometimes their wives know. In a lot of cases they no longer have sex. Surprisingly, some women feel less threatened if a man hires someone like me than if he had an affair with his secretary. I don't see what I do as wrong. If he's married then something is dysfunctional or some part of the relationship must be broken. Maybe he can't get divorced because he's worth half a billion pounds.

I do have relationships, with clients and others. It can be tricky. I think jealousy is a human trait, and a healthy one, so I treat it on a case-by-case basis. You have to judge at what stage to tell them. Fundamentally I am a romantic person, and I don't feel that's a contradiction. I want to share as much of my life as I can with my partner, and eventually all of my life. I do want to get married. There is a strong romantic component to what I do: it's all about mystery and seduction. If we have a good time for a weekend then sometimes it is quite sad to leave.

I'm not worried that my future husband might be appalled by what I do. The men I get along with are typically very moral people but they have their own internal compass. It means they are a little unconventional, and that's why we have that fit. My past doesn't change who I am: it just makes me a little more colourful. Recently, the majority of my [non-paying] partners have known what I do - or part of it. You don't have to tell everything.

My family don't know what I do, and I would prefer them not to. My close friends know. My ability to pull it off doesn't surprise them - they know I'm good at multi-tasking - and I don't think anyone has been shocked.

For me, this is a temporary thing, although I cannot put an exact date on when I will stop. It's a very good way to learn about people - what makes them happy and sad.

I have also changed my approach to wealth: I get to see extremely wealthy people and they face the same challenges as everyone else. It makes me more philosophical. It doesn't mean anything to have an apartment in New York and a house in London and a private jet: you may be locked into an unhappy marriage or not able to find a woman to share your life with. It actually becomes harder to date - you don't know who's genuinely looking for love and who's looking at your money. For lots of young, successful men, wealth above a certain level can be a barrier to a good relationship.

The reality is that the market for this is very small. It's kind of like a bell curve. Most of the market is in the middle - straightforward sex for money. The higher end requires not just more money but more time. And in our society time is the most precious thing of all.

Source: http://news.independent.co.uk/people/profiles/article1090133.ece

Lara's blog: http://www.jetsetblog.com/

Forex? What is it, anyway?

2007-02-19T13:22:00.000-08:00

The market

The currency trading (FOREX) market is the biggest and fastest growing market on earth. Its daily turnover is more than 2.5 trillion dollars. The participants in this market are banks, organizations, investors and private individuals, just like you. (click here to read full market background by Easy-Forex™).

The goods (merchandise)

Markets are places to trade goods, and the same goes with FOREX. The Forex goods are the currencies of various countries. You buy Euro, paying with US dollars, or you sell Japanese Yens for Canadian dollars. That's all.

How does one profit in Forex?

Obviously, buy cheap and sell for more! The profit potential comes from the fluctuations (changes) in the currency exchange market.

The nice thing about the FOREX market, is that regular daily fluctuations, say - around 1%, are multiplied by 100! (in general, Easy-Forex™ offers trading ratios from 1:50 to 1:200).

How risky is Forex trading?

You cannot lose more than your "margin" (your initial investment)! You may profit unlimited amounts, but you never lose more than what you initially risked. However, risk only what you can afford and is not vital for your well-being.

How do I start trading?

Register (Easy-Forex™ offers the simplest and quickest registration process, no obligation); deposit your first trading "margin" amount (credit cards are welcome, only by Easy-Forex™); start trading.

How do I monitor my Forex trading?

Online, from anywhere, anytime. You have full control to monitor status, check scenarios, change some terms in the deal, or close it.

Want to know more? Want to get on-line training? Register here (quick, no obligation), we'll be glad to guide you, every step of the way.

Good luck!

Forex trading involves substantial risk of loss, and may not be suitable for everyone.

Dating Rules for Men

2007-02-19T11:59:00.000-08:00

You are a guy who knows how to date, you are a guy who hasn't dated in years, you are a guy who has never been successful with women. Whatever your situation there are some common dating rules to follow when venturing into the dating jungle.

by Ian McNeice

These rules are simply to protect your emotional state and to ensure even handed success. Women are trained from day one in the art of dating warfare. They have a physical and emotional arsenal that you may never hope to match. But don't be outgunned, be prepared my friends as the dating battle isn't over yet buddy.

1. Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes even if the last time you checked your Nike's out was 1996. Get clothes that fit you, suit you and are contemporary. Don't just buy one outfit, sort out your entire wardrobe. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her? Oh yes and buy a good well tailored suit, there is no excuse not to.

2. Get your hygiene and styling sorted out. Down to the barbers and sort out your hair, get a decent style if possible. If you don't have much hair still get down to the salon and either get your head shaved or something you can handle. Then it is off to the shops with you for good quality cologne and a grooming kit. Yes that means some expense. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine and smell good always. Women appreciate it.

3. Sort out your job if you have one. Women want a man who has some ambition in life so coasting along as a skateboard instructor is generally not going to win you a real catch (by the way I love skateboarding!). Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. Change job if need be but at least try and look like you you have something of a career. If you have a manual job, at least have some plans to work for yourself. If you already do, then you are on the right track but know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future because they will be asking questions about your prospects even if they pretend it isn't important. It is.

4. Get your knowledge levels up. Make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse either. Current affairs are important in showing you know all about the world outside. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously, if you don't have plans to travel, get some. Being able and willing to sort out vacations is essential in the grand scheme of things.

5. Do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. This will never win any fair princess's heart. If you love your booze sort yourself out as there are other things in life too. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, but give them the impression that you live in there will get you absolutely nowhere - fast.

6. If you love your sport then fine,. If sport is a religion you may have a problem but everything by degrees guys. If you are serious about dating then ramming the subject of soccer, ball games or football down your date's throat will put them off in record time. Sport to the uninitiated is completely boring and shows not only sheep mentality to a woman but lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Millions of girls love sport too and that is fine but don't make your passion into a one-sided one.

9. Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams there is nothing more sexy than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman so do it instead of thinking with your balls.

10. Sort out your educational knowledge of manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman likes being treated well, particularly with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the rudeness and the laziness. Know how to eat in a top restaurant, know about fashion and jewelry and in particular flowers. Know how to hold a door open for a woman, let her go first and help her with her seat. Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too. Show her respect and manners at every step and you should not go wrong.

11. Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one man entertainer. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her by the bucketful. Fact.

12. Give up smoking now.

13. Lean to dance even if you have two left flat feet. Women love to dance and dancing is a physical contact sport (or can be). It is also romantic and sexy. You can be the world's worst dancer, I don't care. But if you stay seated when she is on that dance floor you may as well not exist. If you can join Salsa and dancing classes all the better. You don't need to be Travolta but you should have an idea of the basics of rhythm. Get started today.

Source: www.topdatingtips.com/