Female Sex Secrets

There are many things that men don’t know about women’s wants in the bedroom. It’s not because men don’t care, it’s just because the subject either hasn’t come up or she’s too shy to offer you this information. While every woman is different, there are some things all women can generally agree on when it comes to sex.

Because couples who communicate their needs and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, we’re giving you five feel-good secrets she’s been hiding.

SECRET 1: She likes period sex
Generally, this is true, but there are rules. It can tend to get very wet very quickly; throwing a sausage down Niagara Falls may be a more appropriate description. And make sure you are both showered and clean. The other problem you may face is temporary vaginal dryness. If she uses tampons, expect a little uncomfortable friction after she removes it to have sex, and prepare by having some lube handy. She will warm up pretty quickly, but dry sex is painful and unpleasant, so don’t blow your future chances by being too forthright in the entering department. The bonus of period sex is she is likely to be quite randy -- hormones make this a positive (but obstacle-laden) time for nookie. Don’t try to go down on her unless you have a death wish or share morbid vampire fantasies because she will knock you out of the way faster than you can say “What’s that taste?”

SECRET 2: She doesn’t like never-ending sex
This is faking-it territory. Don’t believe the hype: Being the man means being a man and knowing when to just sit back and relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor. A happy girl on your hands is great, so don’t blow your own rep by trying to prove yourself. Yes, love machines exist, but aren’t they wired to just keep on pounding away? Aren’t they made of plastic and rubber? Women want a lover, not a love machine. Women adore orgasms as much as the next man, but one is good -- just make it count. Two is a bonus (but the bonus need not include strenuous and lengthy attempts to achieve) and after that, well that all depends on the situation. Know when to relax into her arms and enjoy the smell of her hair. No doubt, if she is still up for it she will -- in no uncertain terms -- let you know.

SECRET 3: She thinks fingers can be unpleasant
When using your digits to pleasure your woman, just remember that the entrance to the vagina has a large number of nerve endings compared to deeper inside the vagina -- use this knowledge to your advantage. The point is to give her pleasure, so keep to the pleasure zones: the outside entrance to the vagina, just inside the vagina and the G-spot. When manually stimulating her start off with one finger, and after tickling the outside entrance, gently and wetly enter her body. Start stroking in a come-hither motion on the front wall of her vagina. Here you will find her G-spot. Be gentle; if she wants you to go deeper or harder she will show you by pushing herself onto you. It can get a little uncomfortable for her to have half a hand jamming and slamming away, so always ask before putting another finger in and avoid trying to reach her cervix. Clean, trimmed fingernails are lovely; mucky claws and paws need not apply.

SECRET 4 : She likes trying new things
There are many things she has always wanted to try, but may never have felt comfortable enough to ask for or to initiate. Things she may be afraid of include: anal sex, anal fingering (you or her), bondage, fisting, outdoor sex, and role playing. None of these are as hard core as you both might think; ordinary people do them all the time with very nice results. A fun and easy way to find out what new things she wants to try out is to swap a sexual to-do list with her. Each of you writes a list of things you would like to try together, then swap it and get busy.

SECRET 5: She’s horny in the morning
Guys and morning wood have been waking sleeping women since the dawn of time. Generally, it can be safely ignored by the not-so-keen woman by pretending to be asleep. If you want to try a different tack, try sliding your moist erection gently between her thighs, just brushing her vaginal lips. Take a little bit of time, and sure enough, just like a beautiful flower, she will (hopefully) open up and let you in because you are unobtrusively enticing her. The trick to morning sex is getting her from sound asleep to highly aroused before 8 a.m. Oral sex also works very well, but the thigh trick is less effort; do what works best for you. A tip is to moisten your penis before doing anything with it. Saliva or lube works; it takes the hard work out of it for you and replaces that “I just woke up and you're mauling me” feeling with “Oh, that feels nice.” Not everyone is a morning-sex fan, so if your girl isn’t too keen on an early morning rise and shine, there are some easy steps you can take to encourage her without making a scene.

Source: askmen.com

Who is Reon Kadena?

Reon Kadena was born February 19, 1986, in Osaka Prefecture, Japan. Naturally busty from an early age, Reon entered the world of modeling in her late teens under the stage names Yukira and Minamo Kusano.

Despite her youth, many of Reon’s earliest jobs were in revealing nude photo shoots, although she eventually made the transition into more conventional bikini modeling in 2003 with the release of her first film, Triple-H. The low-budget production featured Reon posing provocatively in a wide variety of arousing outfits and swimwear.

The film proved to be a big success and Reon delighted her fans the following year with two new productions, including Leon and Girl’s Desire. The titillating films, which followed the same format as Triple-H, instantly vaulted Reon into the same stratosphere as legendary Japanese idols like Kaori and Toshimi Horiguchi. Girl’s Desire was an especially big hit thanks to the film’s steamy bathroom tub scenes and risqué costume play.

2005 proved to be another big year for Reon as she starred in the films Style and the provocatively titled Virginity. Her growing popularity also landed her guest spots on some of Japan’s most popular game shows, as well as appearances in men’s magazines like Mecha ii, Urecco Gal and Pent-Japan.

Reon capitalized upon her growing popularity by further entering the mainstream in 2006. In addition to appearing in Make You Happy and My Reflection, two more of her intimate low-budget films, she also made her big-screen debut in God's Left Hand, Devil's Right Hand, a terrifying horror film helmed by accomplished Japanese director Shusuke Kaneko. Glimpses of Reon can also be seen in Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater, a popular computer game littered with digital posters of Japan’s most alluring models.

Do Bad Guys Get the Girl ?

If we are to believe the movies, the ruthless tough guy, Mr. Bad Boy, always gets the girl !! If we remember the bad guys at school and college with the best looking babes it appears that the movies could be right. The best looking girls always seem to love the bad guys. Maybe because the best looking guys always became the bad guys ? Everywhere we tend to see bad guys and nice girls, we see fools and meatheads with the girls of our fantasies. In the mall we see our flaxen haired goddesses with America's Most Wanted. Is it nature at work, is it us, what is going wrong? You see men are confused. Men like to refer to stereo types and work from them. We are told that we need to be a hero and a tough guy, but then we are told we need to be in touch with our sensitive sides and be a modern man holding the baby.

Meanwhile the man down the street who treats his girlfriends mean, never calls, is rude and unhelpful and shows little respect appears to have a fan club developing. Life my friends is often unfair. Okay let us look at what is going on with this scenario.

Interest. Yes, interest. Bad guys are interesting, they do interesting things. They have strayed from the straight-and-narrow and are a law unto themselves. They do what they want. They go where they will and they answer to no one. They are interesting. Tow the line, do as you are told and you are dull. Mavericks are interesting, straight guys are not. Generally.

Bad Guys are a challenge, we all love a challenge. Women love a challenge just like guys. If something is a challenge the end results must surely be worthwhile? Of course and bad guys are a challenge. The girls who go after a bad guy want to keep them to themselves and will do a great deal to keep hold. The more you want them, the greater there is a chance they may walk away. Women love to feel good about themselves and getting their bad guy, at least for a while, satisfies that urge. This appeals to some people and the greater the danger of loosing a bad guy, the greater the effort to keep them. There may be a lesson there.

Bad guys are confident and self assured. They know what they are about and don' really care what others think. They are their own men and don't need others to prop them up. Some can become almost caricatures of themselves but that doesn't make them any less attractive. Bad guys don't have to be in shape, just look at James Galdofini from The Sopranos. Somewhat out of shape if Mr. Soprano doesn't mind me saying, but immensely attractive all the same.

What have we got if we combine these facets. Power, strength of character, confidence, a maverick nature and an immensely interesting personality. That equals sexy. Is it any wonder therefore that such types of guys often get the gals. It doesn't mean to say that we like them and it doesn't mean to say that this is fair or a good thing. But it can be natures way.

I am not in any way suggesting that we should all be Mr. Bad Guy. No not at all. What I am saying is that there are lessons to be learned here. What is attractive can be modified and added to our social arsenal of dating weaponry. It is first the way you perceive yourself that matters. If you can increase your confidence levels, get your career on the right tracks, excel in what you do and be your own man within the confines of your working life then this will boost your attractiveness. You don't need to go round being bad, but you can be a bit more deliberate in your actions, a little less available and a little more enigmatic. This will boost your interest factor and again help in your attractiveness.

The modern dating game is highly complex and courting rituals can be a minefield. Go back to basics and analyze within yourself what is it that you think partners like and how can you match of yourself to those qualities. Changing just a few small things could make the world of difference.

Mayra Veronica

As Featured on Extra's Star Profile on Dec.2/06, One of FHM's "top 100 Sexiest Women In the World" three years straight, Mayra Veronica has graced the covers of magazines from FHM to Maxim as well as Men's Edge, Smooth, King, Smoke, Maxim En Espanol, Open Your Eyes, Cosmo Fl, Urban Male and many others. She has been featured in countless commercials including Nike's own television campaign opposite Lebron James and EA video games has created a new video character after her in their Def Jam 3 video game which is scheduled to be released in March of '07. Mayra has recently been voted by the US Military Troops as their "Favorite Pin UP Girl" after being one of the nation's top-selling calendars in '04,'05,'06.
After her release in the popular magazine FHM on Aug 2003, Mayra became a household name. The feedback on this layout got her on FHM's 2004 calendar and landed her a spot on their A-list top 100 sexiest women in the world issue for 2004, 2005 and again in 2006. This notoriety made her own calendar one of the top selling calendars in US bookstores for the Hispanic market and made her site one of the top 30 celebrity sites hit with over 3.7 million hits bi weekly to date. Her name continues to be one of the top keywords for Web surfers.
Now Mayra's musical passion arrives unbounded with her debut Latin Internationally Distributed Album: "Vengo Con To'" produced by Roy Tavares and Kike Santander.
Making the transition from television as a regular on the national Univision Networks "Don Francisco Presenta" during her three year run, to a recording artist, Mayra has had music in her soul almost from birth. As a very small girl, Mayra Veronica can recall sitting by her father's side as he played "Cenicienta", a Cuban song about Cinderella. Now she's found a glass slipper of her own two decades later with almost fairy-tale success as an in-demand entertainer.
Born Mayra Veronica Aruca Rodriguez on August 20 in Havana Cuba, Mayra's family moved to the US when she was 5 years old and they settled in one of Miami, Florida's Cuban communities. Mayra studied ballet for 12 years in all, taking a break when adolescence took over and she grew "voluptuous" she laughs now. She also won various honors in a number of beauty pageants, including second runner-up as Miss Miami and Miss Hispanic America. When it became clear that a career in dance was not to be, Mayra turned to acting, but not before graduating from Florida International University with a major in psychology and a minor in business, applying those skills later as her entertainment career blossomed.

Traveling back and forth from the Big Apple to home in Florida, Mayra studied at the famed Strassberg Institute for acting, earned roles in stage plays, and was also signed as a spokes model for the giant Univision television network. At home in Florida, she became a host for the Miami television entertainment magazine, “Miami Hoy,” writing, producing and editing her own segments as she interviewed a roster of celebrities, ranging form Donald Trump and Hugh Hefner to Burt Reynolds, Oscar de la Renta ,Tim Allen and Marc Anthony. Mayra also starred in feature film roles, in PBS productions, independent films such as “Tumbe”, and appeared in nationwide Spanish language ads for a wide array of companies including Loreal, Ford, Colgate, Burger King, Coca Cola, and Allstate. She then landed the role on Univision’s “Don Francisco Presenta”, in which viewers embraced her nationwide, making Mayra one of their top female personalities (Mayra is also the #1 most downloaded female personality on the Univision website).
The launching of Mayra's music career continues the stunning rise of this star who has been named "the sexiest woman alive on Latin television" by FHM magazine as she prepares for her world promotional tour and her debut American Album created by top industry producers. What’s her motto? “Fear Nothin' and if you do...stare fear back in the eye and tell it: Just Watch Me! “